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ANOTHER VIEW: Do we want Crestview to be a carbon copy?

We received a nice email last week from a reader who recently arrived in town from a larger South Florida city. She raised a familiar concern I have sometimes heard since I arrived in Crestview in 2005. 

I quite understand where she’s coming from. When I blew over here from New Orleans in the wake of Hurricane Katrina, I knew I’d have to adjust to small town life. Before the storm, I could walk from my house to bunches of stores and restaurants.

But I quickly learned I could get along just fine. I can shop for basic groceries and household needs here in town. When I need clothes, small-regiment size food packages, or gadgets, it’s fun to take an occasional Saturday run down to the south county or over to Pensacola.

But quite honestly, I love the quiet of small town life, and gladly gave up the conveniences of urban dwelling for the lower blood pressure and chirp of evening crickets rather than cacophony of trucks and buses running past my front door.

Something I really learned to love about Crestview is its small town-big town feel. I wonder, do we really need to be like a bigger city?

For the convenience of having a wider choice of shopping options, we’d by necessity sacrifice the quiet, simpler life of a smaller country community. A Target, after all, doesn’t pop up in a small town.

Malls are passé. In fact, urban designers tell us more malls are closing in the United States than are opening. The current shopping trend, developers have found, is a “village” experience in which busy customers can park closer to the store they want to visit.

Guess what?

We’re ahead of that trend with our friendly, classic downtown Main Street lined with cool shops and restaurants.

I was delighted to discover when I moved here from New Orleans that I didn’t have to give up having a wide variety of places to choose from when I eat out. Who needs the cookie cutter ho-hum of chain restaurants when we have such an incredible diversity of homegrown eateries?

In fact, my biggest problem with local food is deciding where to eat, as the choices are so many. From higher end places like the Wild Olive or Christopher’s Uncorked Bistro, to just plain home cookin’ at Uncle Bill’s, Desi’s and the Tropical Palm, to everything in between, including a surprisingly large selection of Asian food, including Philippine, Thai, Korean, Japanese and Chinese.

And there’s no frozen sauce shipped in from an out-of-state company headquarters at our local seafood restaurants.

Our city council is very “business-friendly,” to quote the county Economic Development Council’s president. In fact, just last year the city eliminated two impact fees that some critics said discouraged economic growth.

Actually, they don’t discourage it as much as some claim. Businesses routinely plan their budgets to include local fees. Every municipality has them. Somebody has to pay for increased traffic and demand on infrastructure. It’s unfair to expect citizens to shoulder that burden.

However, contrary to popular belief, it is not government’s responsibility to phone Olive Garden or Target and ask them to pop into town and open a store. What local government does is foster a climate that is conducive to opening a business, and our city and county governments do that rather well, and are working hard to do it better.

As the city grows and as the county — hopefully — addresses traffic woes, and as residents contact favorite establishments and ask them to take a look at Crestview — I’ve been pestering Whole Foods to come to town since I got here — businesses take notice, start counting rooftops and traffic, and contact local officials about bringing their shops and eateries to town.

Remember: No out-of-state corporate menu planner will make battered fish as good as the guys at Country Chicken and Fish, and they sure won’t have those comforting “Jesus Loves You” T-shirts!

Contact News Bulletin Staff Writer Brian Hughes at 850-682-6524 or brianh@crestviewbulletin.com. Follow him on Twitter @cnbBrian.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: ANOTHER VIEW: Do we want Crestview to be a carbon copy?

EDITOR'S DESK: School resource officer additions raise questions

A post-Newtown world has raised many questions for communities.

Amid discussions on mental health and potential gun control is a solution that ostensibly brings security straight to schools in the form of a uniformed officer.

After a gunman reportedly killed 26 people on Dec. 14 at Sandy Hook Elementary School, Okaloosa County’s attention focused on security measures, including keeping school resource officers on elementary campuses. Such officers already were on middle school and high school campuses.

Such a certified law enforcement officer would be a law-related counselor and educator, according to the Center for the Prevention of School Violence.The officer has an established connection with the school and its students, showing up not just during crises, and maintaining a long-term school presence.

Providing school resource officers here in Okaloosa isn’t cheap; $3.5 million will keep them on campus for a year.

The county must raise $1.1 million to keep 26 deputies in elementary schools through June, but the county’s making inroads to these goals, the Northwest Florida Daily News reports.

The Okaloosa County School Board on Monday voted 4-1 to spend $523,000 ensuring school resource officers stay in our elementary schools.

Okaloosa County Sheriff Larry Ashley said he could pull $300,000 from forfeiture funds.

The County Commission is next; the board on Jan. 22 is expected to vote on whether to cover $265,000 that would close the gap.

Of course, the $3.5 million question is whether the program can help, particularly since it requires sacrificing other needs.

The school board already cut guidance counselor and staff specialist positions, with no known consequence on school safety, newspapers report. A post-Newtown environment spurred a vote that favored allocating funding for the program, but that $523,000 also could be used elsewhere within the school system — like rehiring those guidance counselors and staff specialists.

So, is this a wise investment?

Is the task of keeping a school safe just too much for one school resource officer?

The Center for Prevention of School Violence believes we shouldn’t underestimate the officer’s influence.

The center justifies school resource officers because, it says, school violence and other crimes are not just campus problems. Smaller disciplinary problems, unchecked, can grow into larger problems that affect the whole community.

Because school disciplinary problems reflect community crimes and the cycle repeats, the community, not just the school, should police the problem, the center states.

School resource officers primarily could develop crime prevention programs that help potential victims protect themselves in violent situations; teach kids about peaceful conflict resolution; and help craft school policy promoting a safer environment, according to the U.S. Department of Education.

It’s fitting that Ashley would seek more of these officers for Okaloosa schools, as a Miami police chief purportedly coined the term school resource officer, or SRO, in the mid-1960s, spurring Florida school districts’ first SRO programs within the next two decades, according to the center.

However, Second Amendment supporters suggesting teachers and other school staff should carry licensed, concealed weapons would be at odds with the National Association of School Resource Officers, whose website, nasro.org, states no one but the officer should be armed on school property.

Additionally, constitutional rights advocates may have concerns, as school resource officers searching student property could be acting as law enforcement officers or school officials — which opens another contentious issue: whether students should be read their Miranda rights before being questioned.

Contact News Bulletin Editor Thomas Boni at 850-682-6524 or tboni@crestviewbulletin.com. Follow him on Twitter @cnbeditor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: EDITOR'S DESK: School resource officer additions raise questions

MY VIEW: Can school resource officers really help?

In the past several weeks — following 26 deaths in the Dec. 14 Sandy Hook Elementary massacre in Newtown, Conn. — there has been outcry for more protective measures in our schools.

Frankly, I question these proposals’ practicality.

Before I go further, I am an ardent supporter of our Second Amendment and the privileges that I and every other American derive from that portion of our constitution. 

I support the idea that, if deemed worthy, someone should be allowed to carry a concealed weapon.

In fact, for one’s self-protection, I believe that a concealed weapon should be allowed wherever the carrier chooses to go.

I believe that one loses the desired degree of protection if the weapon of choice must be left elsewhere if admission to certain facilities or functions is desired.

To protect students, educators and staff members, there have been those who have advocated a host of protective measures.

I read one piece in which it was suggested that every school campus be entirely fenced in, with razor wire atop the 10-foot-high fences. Innumerable individuals have suggested that both educators and other adults in schools be trained and armed.

Others have gone so far as to suggest that National Guardsmen be stationed at all our school facilities and various events.

Why? 

I understand these suggestions’ driving motivation, but I wonder if those who have made these proposals have thought them out to figure what would be their effect. 

Do we want our students to be in armed camps? 

Currently, in Okaloosa County, there is a school resource officer in virtually every school. Of recent date, I have read comments from parents who claim to be much more comfortable knowing that little Johnnie or Suzie is safe from some individual determined to bring death and destruction to a facility.

When I read these remarks, I almost laugh aloud!

People think that all will be well because a single uniformed officer is on campus.

I am on more than one campus each week. I see the resource officers, and I see their marked county vehicles parked out front. This past week, I saw a resource officer leave a school, climb into the county-provided vehicle, and drive away.

Gee, I wonder if someone wanting to do harm would notice there was no resource officer on campus! 

At another institution, I saw the resource officer talking with a staff member.

Where was the “protection” of students and educators?

Assigning resource officers to virtually all county schools gives a “warm and fuzzy” feeling, but it is extremely expensive and very ineffective. 

Have you ever looked at our schools’ construction? 

Facilities are not like they were 50 years ago, when several floors were stacked atop each other and there were only one or two entrances. In the wisdom of planners, schools now cover more than a square city block, have several wings emanating from a central administrative area, and feature several entry points.

Just how would a single resource officer be effective?

Recent reports indicate that Okaloosa County will expend upward of a million dollars on resource officers this year.

This may seem like money well spent, but I believe it is little more than a publicity stunt to pacify parents while knowing that it will be very ineffective.

I understand that the life of every child and every adult cannot have a price tag applied to it. 

But with literally hundreds of officers of the law and school administrators, there must be a more effective and efficient way to protect those in our schools.

Bob Allen is a former city councilman who lives in Crestview.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: MY VIEW: Can school resource officers really help?

EDITOR'S DESK: Live well in 2013; eat healthy and save money

Recently, the News Bulletin reported that nearly two-thirds of Okaloosa County adults are overweight or obese, according to county health department records.

The paper received some unexpected response to the report. “Not everyone is Kim Kardashian,” some said; “not everyone is a Barbie doll.”

True.

Our differences — having our own bodies, personalities and passions — make us unique.

However, in this case, emotion shouldn’t drown facts.

Fight the PC

Often, we see pop culture celebrate dysfunctional attitudes or lifestyles. (Honey Boo Boo, anyone?) Unfortunately, jokes cloud the underlying issues, and the distraction prevents the discussion that should happen in this country.

Other times, distraction comes from a deceptively life affirming — but ultimately self-defeating — message: one that celebrates the problem in the name of self-esteem.

Loving one’s self is crucial before one truly can love others. But does confusing the issue, taking pride in an unhealthy lifestyle merely bandage a more serious problem?

That question opens a politically incorrect can of worms. Nevertheless, people should fight the PC blinders and have an honest conversation.

Physical fitness isn’t necessarily about body image, nor is it about beauty, although ancient ideals and various cultures or individuals, to this day, glorify exuberance for the wealth it suggested or physical attraction.

Rather, it’s about health.

Nearly two-thirds of Okaloosa adults are overweight or obese, 35.2 percent and 28.8 percent, respectively, according to a 2011 report, the latest available data.

And that’s not all. The health department derived data from hospital records. No data is available for those without health care, so you can bet there’s a margin of error.

Obesity — having a body mass index, or BMI, of 25 or more — is linked to diabetes, coronary heart disease, breathing problems, sleeping disorders and some cancers.

These consequences should be reason enough to ignore enabling political correctness, end the excuses and start the conversation.

Factors in weight

Several factors increase our chances of overeating, according to Harvard Health Publications’ “Why People Become Overweight.”

Some people have a genetic predisposition to be overweight; most people have so-called thrifty genes, a fat storage adaptation from our ancestors’ lean times; and then there are controllable influences like the temptation of ever-present food, snacking mindlessly before a TV and emotional eating.

Some people will need a doctor’s help, drugs or surgery in their quest for physical fitness. However, many people can take action today and get results.

The first step is acknowledging the problem.

We all fall into the trap.

Last Thursday, after a late work night, I wanted to go home, microwave something, plop on the couch and decompress with a good movie.

But as Harvard’s report notes, sedentary eating is a bad idea.

I started with a plate of grilled chicken, two dinner rolls and a glass of soda — and escalated, as the movie progressed, to some glasses of milk, countless potato crisps, licorice and assorted dark chocolates. 

The Blu-ray, “City Island,” was a sweet comedy about a Bronx family with secrets and trust issues. A subplot involves a skinny teenager’s fetish for feeding obese women. Though a love interest unaware of this obsession initially thinks he’s ridiculing her when suggesting a grocery shopping date, she eventually realizes the truth and they come together.

The overall message of acceptance is sweet, but glorifying objectively unhealthy lifestyles — the teenager uses his mother’s credit card to access a webcam site featuring obese women cooking — is not.

The irony of realizing this while gorging on junk food was not lost.

The next day, I began a new diet and fitness program. The days of washboard abs and a 33-inch waist were long gone, but that wasn’t what inspired me: too many days of lazily plopping on the couch and eating forgettable junk food did.

There had to be a better way, I thought. And I had been taught better.

Living well

Having a brother who studied a couple of years in Europe, traveling the world over and understanding eating and living well, perhaps, more than many Americans helped.

New Year’s dinnertime, for instance, began with hors d'oeuvres — brie cheese on made-from-scratch bread and figs — with red wine. It progressed to the dining room table, with a balsamic vinegar-laden salad, ginger-spiced salmon, cooked asparagus and pinot grigio.

Everything but the salmon and asparagus was an acquired taste, especially for an American conditioned to tasty but unhealthy food. For my brother, it’s a way of life.

You’ll never find a soda in his refrigerator; there’s just organic milk.

You’ll never find a bag of potato chips or pointless junk food in the pantry; just pistachios, walnuts or dates.

If it’s daytime, no light is on unless there are guests.

If it’s nighttime, no light is on because that’s nature’s signal that it’s time to sleep; artificial lighting just messes with our circadian rhythms, a fancy reference to our 24-hour biological clock.

So the utility bill is incredibly low, and a good night’s sleep and healthy diet provide plenty of energy for regular runs and exercise.

This lifestyle requires the will to ignore a culture that celebrates excess in every form, but raises quality over quantity.

If you save money on utility bills, ignore credit cards’ temptations and spend responsibly, you can save more and make quality purchases, without debt’s stress.

It’s living well, but not how most people think.

And since you are what you eat, why not consider a new diet?

Companies pay millions of dollars on research to addict people to their products’ taste.

Understanding that the food we eat tastes good but isn’t good for us is the first step to smashing the junk food illusion.

Then, it’s mind over matter — again, those figs and cheese-and-bread appetizers had me shamefully long for pigs in a blanket, but I got used to them.

It’s tough because farm-fresh, organic or foods we prepare ourselves aren’t necessarily the tastiest.

But because they are portioned and we know their exact ingredients, they can be the healthiest.

Take a journey

Let your meals be about the journey rather than the destination; it’s a lesson I keep reminding myself.

Saturday night, I cooked whole-wheat pasta mixed with carrots, garlic, olive oil and parsley; seasoned French green beans and bacon with black pepper and butter for a side; and poured a half-glass of sauvignon blanc.

I abided by a dieter’s guide and measured 1 cup for each the pasta and side before preparing them on a dish.

Rather than placing the meal on a tray and plopping on the couch, I pulled up a bar stool, said grace, embraced the silence and realized this was no ordinary meal: it was an event.

Taking time to savor each bite, swirling and smelling the wine, forgetting about time and filling up, focus was on the sensual experience.

And food, regardless of what it is, never tastes better.

When advertisements for fast food or potato chips tempt, why not consider whether to spend your hard-earned dollars unwrapping an overpriced cheeseburger or addicting snack or to truly decompress, cook, portion and savor your food — with plenty of leftovers.

Some foods, lifestyle choices and ideas inspire me, but find what works for you.

The Okaloosa County Extension office can help: See Extension Connection for an upcoming online class and 2013 health and wealth challenge.

Contact News Bulletin Editor Thomas Boni at 850-682-6524 or tboni@crestviewbulletin.com. Follow him on Twitter @cnbeditor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: EDITOR'S DESK: Live well in 2013; eat healthy and save money

EDITOR'S DESK: Nation's gun control debate has no easy answer

The Dec. 14 Sandy Hook Elementary massacre in Newtown, Conn., struck a chord with America.

We mourned for 20 children and six faculty members.

We demanded answers for the unanswerable like what motivated the killer.

Then, all too soon, several politicized the issue as if gun control is a catchall bandage for an unexplainable tragedy with multiple factors.

This particularly is the case with Adam Lanza, 20, who reportedly had Asperger’s syndrome and social anxiety. Further, the killer — whom newspapers state had a personality disorder and could not feel empathy — may have believed his mother would commit him to a psychiatric facility against his will.

Geneticists will study the shooter’s DNA to determine whether his gene mutations predisposed him to violence, The Boston Globe reports. Some experts say it’s junk science; interviewing his friends would produce clearer answers. Nevertheless, results are due by January’s end.

Junk science or not, this joins other factors — like video game exposure, blaming God or lack of faith, and gun availability — in the tapestry of a layered problem.

There is a saying in the blogosphere credited to comedian Will Ferrell, though it’s taken out of context: "If guns kill people, then pencils misspell words, cars make people drive drunk and spoons make you fat."

Whether he’s joking or not, he’s right.

People kill people; guns are the weapon of choice.

Granted, guns can do more damage than pencil stabbings or drunk driving, but in these situations— with aggressive people in general —the seeds were sown long before semiautomatics entered the picture. If guns weren’t an option, the person would select another weapon or destruction mode.

Still, gun control is the order.

Entertainers including Jamie Foxx, Reese Witherspoon, Beyonce and Steve Carrell appear in ads for Demand a Plan, a Mayors Against Illegal Guns campaign that advances so-called common sense gun laws.

The purportedly grassroots effort — which 800 mayors support — states that 74 percent of NRA members support criminal background checks for prospective gun owners; 72 percent believe people on terror watch lists should lose gun ownership privilege; and 71 percent believe domestic abusers shouldn’t have concealed carry permits.

If that’s true, this shouldn’t be a polarizing issue. This shouldn’t be “us” versus “them,” Democrat or Republican, liberal or conservative.

Yet there’s such incivility among those dividing lines.

Recently, CNN’s Piers Morgan called Larry Pratt, Gun Owners of America’s executive director, “an unbelievably stupid man” after Pratt suggested armed teachers stand a better chance against Newtown-style violence.

Pratt said anyone should have access to lightweight, high-performance AR-15 rifles, with 30-round capacity magazines — one of Lanza’s weapons of choice — in fairness to Morgan.

That’s extreme, but fair-minded people, regardless of their politics, want an end to mass shootings like Newtown and Columbine. They want to read the news and see no lists of victims who had their whole lives ahead of them.

They just have a strange way of showing it, with all the hate mongering and name-calling.

Before we can find the solution, we must understand the background: America, like Fox Sports columnist Jason Whitlock wrote, has a gun culture that ensures “more and more domestic disputes will end in ultimate tragedy.”

At least, that’s how he and NBC Sports anchor Bob Costas, who praised the column, see it.

Gun rights advocates like Ted Nugent believe guns offer personal protection and defense from tyranny. The slightest hint of gun control, to them, threatens the Second Amendment.

Though gun control, on the surface, is no left-right issue, as Demand a Plan’s polls show, political divisions and drastically different worldviews ignite passions that lower the political discourse, as the CNN interview showed.

The two sides won’t see eye to eye, ever, because one side believes government saves the day and the other believes big government’s the problem.

Amid tragedies like Newtown, it’s easy to see why a “guns for everybody” mentality could seem extreme, but let’s turn the tables for a moment.

Imagine a gruesome crime occurred in a very specific way, down to the finest detail, as seen in a movie or described in a news report.

Would actors and journalists join the campaign for First Amendment reform?

Doubtful.

Would movie studios and newsrooms see the chant as premature, an isolated incident or a slippery slope that could seriously infringe on their freedoms and threaten their livelihood?

Probably so.

Journalists revere the First Amendment — and for good reason. We believe the “sun should shine” on public matters, we understand how a marketplace of ideas promotes an informed citizenry, and we appreciate that citizens can criticize leaders without fear of treason.

Any whiff of censorship ignites our ire.

Now you know how gun rights advocates feel.

They’re not thinking of Newtown when they say teachers should have AR-15s in their classrooms; they’re not thinking that Demand a Plan’s initiative is unreasonable.

Rather, they’re saying anything they can that counters the slippery slope of government encroachment. They’re saying whatever eases their minds so grandparents, mothers and fathers, sons and daughters in unsafe neighborhoods or situations can defend themselves.

They regard the Constitution and Bill of Rights as sacrosanct, untouchable dominos; if one right were snatched away, others would follow.

Gun control proponents — at least, their most vocal advocates — believe the Constitution’s Preamble — which states, “… in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice, insure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general welfare…” — allows for changes.

After all, times have changed. With mass shootings, we must do something, and the Founding Fathers couldn’t have envisioned such carnage.

So nothing’s sacred; anything’s fair game.

You don’t like the Constitution? Change it. Don’t like the Bible? Amend it, too.

Morgan, in a separate interview with the Rev. Rick Warren, an evangelical pastor, said, “It’s time for an amendment to the Bible” because Scripture doesn’t consider modern moral dilemmas. In a fall interview with comedian Jeff Foxworthy he asked, “Should the Bible be an evolutionary thing, rather like the Constitution was amended a few times?”

The former worldview believes a solid foundation, if rigid or antiquated with time, should stand without compromise; a so-called progressive stance rolls with the punches and changes with the tides.

Who’s to say who’s right or wrong? There’s something to be said for tradition, but sometimes, tradition doesn’t square with a changing, more dangerous world.

However, the solution isn’t all or nothing. There have to be checks and balances.

Though arming schoolteachers with assault weapons poses numerous risks, so does disarming everybody.

Retired Marine Joshua Flashman, whose peripheral knowledge of Lanza attracted media attention, suggested a ban on civilian gun ownership.

“You want to dissuade someone from trying to get their hands on something you don’t want them to have? Tell them you’re going to take away their freedom for 25 to life, with no flexibility or leniency in sentencing and administration for corrections,” he told CNN.

Why does he think it’s a good idea?

“It saturates the public square with well-armed, well-trained certified good guys, and dramatically lowers the readily available firepower of the scumbags,” he said.

I saw a news report with a mother amazed by her child’s suggestion that only law enforcement and service members should have firearms.

“Can you believe he came up with that on his own?” she said, with pride.

Well, yes, we can, I thought. Because he’s 10, and doesn’t understand the world’s complexities and just how awful an idea that really is.

Okaloosa County and Crestview residents know, from all the news reports on corrupt elected leaders and law enforcement, there are no “certified good guys.”

Among the military and police ranks, and like any workplace, some people are better at their jobs than others are. Some are more ethical than others are.

Take West Texas Army Pvt. Steven Green, whom NPR reported was charged with raping a 15-year-old girl before shooting and killing her.

He had a history of violence, as he recalled killing a man who didn’t stop at an Iraqi checkpoint.

“Over there, killing people is like squashing an ant. I mean, you kill somebody, and it’s like, ‘All right, let’s go get some pizza,” he said in the military newspaper Stars and Stripes.

Oh, and add Jeffrey Dahmer and Timothy McVeigh to the ranks of veterans gone bad. Dahmer, a former Army vet, killed 16 people and practiced cannibalism.

McVeigh, a former Gulf War Army vet, was credited with the Oklahoma City bombing.

Certainly, there are hardworking, ethical public servants. We should respect these brave men and women and not let a few “bad apples” spoil the bunch.

However, in this brave new world, there are no “certified good guys.”

And there are no easy answers for this ongoing gun debate.

Contact News Bulletin Editor Thomas Boni at 850-682-6524 or tboni@crestviewbulletin.com. Follow him on Twitter @cnbeditor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: EDITOR'S DESK: Nation's gun control debate has no easy answer

EDITOR'S DESK: Examining the possible roots of mass violence

It’s difficult to comprehend a tragedy like Friday’s massacre at Sandy Hook Elementary in Newtown, Ct.

No single impetus carries all the blame.

Similar shootings or attempts at malls raise the same question: Why does this happen?

Some examine the perceived ease of obtaining firearms and push for gun law reform.

Others say the country’s sinful ways have invited God’s wrath.

Desensitization from violence in video games, films and TV factor in, some say.

So do mental health problems.

However, perhaps all these pieces form the tapestry of a problem that has a slow burn. A gradual shift in morals, mutual respect and pastimes — and the toxic results.

Now let’s break it down.

If guns were harder to obtain, fewer guns could end up in the wrong hands — in a perfect world.

Such a scenario could backfire, critics say, as criminals typically wouldn’t honor permit laws. Outlaws can find guns elsewhere, making law-abiding citizens particularly vulnerable.

What about blaming God?

Few want to believe a good and just deity would allow innocents’ bloodshed. But I think it’s more complex than God punishing wayward people.

Chaos happens when community weakens.

If you truly know and respect your neighbor, you’re less likely to hurt him or her, right?

However, with increasingly selfish lifestyles — the Internet makes everyone a celebrity; countless slogans or services say “I AM (blank)” or “My (blank),” suggesting god complexes (the former) or tailoring to each individual’s VIP preferences (the latter) — people’s egos inflate.

Especially in a culture where teachers and parents, with good intentions, insist everyone is “a winner,” setting children up for rude awakenings, shattered glass and even poorer self-concepts later in life.

Under Christianity, people are grains of sand, here today and gone tomorrow, who should “die of self” to serve others. It isn’t the sole belief system that decreases vanity, but regardless of your chosen altruism, the mass media’s constant bombardment of “me” mentality messages drowns all else.

Movies make sin look fun, carefree, sexy and glamorous. But when we use someone as a means to an end — whether for violence or sex — where’s the mutual respect?

How many times have we heard, “To earn respect, you must give respect?”

Commit acts that serve selfish needs and what do you get?

No community — just hurt feelings, distrust and division.

Preachers should cut to the heart of the matter — promiscuity, pornography, human trafficking, rape and other societal ills — rather than present God, ironically, as a bogeyman.

But if they really need a patsy, video games and mass media can fit the bill.

Children are rewarded with points for each kill in video games, which are more realistic than ever thanks to advances in graphics and high definition television. In fact, Dec. 12, NBCnews.com’s technology page reported that more than 3 billion digital people were assassinated in “Assassin's Creed III,” a popular video game we saw on several local children’s Christmas lists. (See our selections in “Letters to Santa,” Page A6 in the Dec. 19 News Bulletin.)

Constantly consuming ultra-realistic, highly graphic violent entertainment, especially in high doses, could it become difficult to separate reality from virtual reality, right from wrong?

Numerous studies suggest no evidence for mass media’s influence on behaviors, but why would advertisers pay millions of dollars for airtime, often employing deceptive methods — like selling mayonnaise with sex — if there’s no sway?

Most people want the violence to stop, and we held our breath Monday when rumors circulated that Northwood Elementary was on lockdown due to a potential gun threat. The rumors weren’t exactly true, but sadly, readers said they wouldn’t have been surprised if they were.

They say charity begins at home.

Maybe the roots of mass violence have a similar origin.

Contact News Bulletin Editor Thomas Boni at 850-682-6524 or tboni@crestviewbulletin.com. Follow him on Twitter @cnbeditor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: EDITOR'S DESK: Examining the possible roots of mass violence

EDITOR'S DESK: Hate speech, confusion factors in parade fallout

Vigilante justice and widespread confusion comprised public debate following the Main Street Crestview Association’s unusually negative Christmas parade. A preacher who denied Santa Claus’ existence and shouted anti-gay slurs and eternal damnation from a megaphone drew the public’s outrage.

Hundreds passionately expressed their views — and search for truth on how to prevent similar occurrences — on the News Bulletin’s Facebook page. Many put on their journalist caps and used one of the news media’s powerful tools — Google — to trace Save Me from the Fire ministry’s roots.

They were interested in finding answers, and find them they did.

Readers messaged the newsroom with several tips, including questionable content on a student minister’s Facebook page — we didn’t report on public images that featured a World War II reenactment with compelling visuals because they were out of context and didn’t directly pertain to the parade — and the Washington-based organization’s statement to Crestview residents condemning their furor.

But while some sought answers, others picked fights.

Well meaning parents posted various scenarios of how they would “handle” the ministers if they returned next year. Threats of vigilante justice rivaled the ministry’s own in-your-face style and ultimately undercut their purpose.

Then the fallout really began.

Save Me from the Fire’s website, savemefromthefire.org, states that it’s “currently undergoing scheduled maintenance” — for several days now. James Forrester, the street preacher, deactivated his Facebook account.

These actions counter the organization’s fearless nature.

A few days following the parade, Forrester announced on the News Bulletin’s page that Save Me from the Fire would participate in the 2013 parade. More than 100 people commented on his statement before it vanished along with his Facebook account.

Did a chilling effect occur?

Despite overwhelming support for First Amendment rights, several supposedly free-speech advocates — a number invoking mama and papa bear privileges — publicly expressed violent scenarios they’d initiate if the ministers return.  

But any speech that theoretically threatens another person’s freedom of speech negates such sentiments, doesn’t it? In this case, it seems, the overwhelming negativity that ensued, doubtlessly hastened by the numerous threats, led to these sites’ closures. After all, firebrand fundamentalists like this ministry live to spread their message, not squelch it.

In the week following Dec. 1, several questions have surfaced, but only one thing is clear: In the immortal words from “Cool Hand Luke,” “What we’ve got here is a failure to communicate.”

You can’t fight hate with hate and expect constructive debates or positive strides.

We have no reason to believe Save Me from the Fire’s ministry is not genuine. We may disagree on members’ methods of delivering the Gospel, but no current evidence suggests ministers see themselves as anything other than prayer warriors.

Ad-hominem attacks won’t work, either.

Some readers wrote that President Barack Obama’s re-election “really fired up the radicals.”

Not everything is about politics, race or Fox News, folks. No evidence suggests the ministry’s motivation stems from non-biblical sources.

Can we please discuss ideas with different-minded people in a civilized manner? Writing hateful remarks about people shouting hateful remarks brings chaos, not progress.

Finally, can local experts be more transparent and engage in that conversation?

A number of local attorneys and city officials’ refusal to offer expert opinions on this issue fueled the newsroom’s frustration in its search for answers on the First Amendment factor.

None of the knowledgeable sources we asked would register a brief, obviously non-binding opinion on whether the Main Street association could screen parade applicants without fear of a lawsuit. Surprisingly, some sources we spoke with confused the association with a public entity.

Thankfully, Laurel Hill City Attorney Daniel Campbell weighed in. (See Attorney: Parade could tighten guidelines.)

Additionally, I turned to a high school classmate-turned-attorney, who gave insight.

“First Amendment protections apply only to protection against actions of government actors. Discussing a private individual depriving you of First Amendment protections is simply confusing the issue,” Matt Shelby, a Daphne, Ala. attorney, said.

That’s all we asked for — and it shouldn’t have taken a call outside the city to obtain.

Is this a more complex issue with extenuating factors to consider? Certainly.

But can several years of case law inform similarly quick opinions to help the public understand this issue better? Undoubtedly.

Early when this controversy erupted, it seemed clear, to me anyway, that someone unaffiliated with a private organization’s publicly held Mardi Gras parade couldn’t invite him or herself in the barricaded procession.

Similarly, a private organization’s publicly held Christmas parade should be able to set restrictions. That doesn’t infringe on someone’s right to stand on the public square and spout off. It just declares that the person spouting off isn’t within the barricades as a featured guest.

The newspaper staunchly supports the First Amendment and appreciates our service members who fight to protect our freedoms. However, we understand its limitations. For instance, you can’t yell “Fire!” in a crowded theater. You can’t incite riots. You can’t crash a private party.

These days, when erroneous internet memes penetrate the public consciousness and cause fights based on emotion rather than fact, we must quickly analyze the issue and help readers understand it in context.

Emotion-based rumors spread like wildfire on the internet. Before you know it, illusions become facts.

Regardless of this issue’s outcome, let’s learn from the community’s amateur journalists who Googled before posting; those who searched for answers rather than axes to grind.

They took the first step to bridging that communication gap.

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EDITOR'S DESK: ‘Blessed are the Children’ who attended parade

Chestnuts roasting on an open fire, Jack Frost nipping at your nose, being damned from a truck at the town Christmas parade…

Wait, that’s not how the song goes…

But that’s what happened for thousands of Crestview Christmas Parade attendees, who witnessed unusual negativity for a family friendly event as a street preacher denied Santa Claus’ existence and shouted anti-gay slurs and judgment from a megaphone.

The News Bulletin asked one of the street preaching truck’s organizers for his reaction to some residents’ outrage.

His answer? The ministry believes it’s simply spreading the Gospel — a reasonable explanation, as firebrand fundamentalists believe many of today’s Christians submit to a touchy-feely God who “lets everyone in,” regardless of sin.

However, this strict adherence and literal interpretation of the Bible tends to ignore a key passage: “Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.” In John’s Gospel, Jesus advises the scribes and Pharisees to avoid judging a woman caught in adultery. Therefore, since everyone sins, it’s hypocritical to call out others’ mistakes and pass judgment — that’s the Word of the Lord, for believers.

Thus, despite claims to the contrary, the preaching interrupted a family outing without just cause, effectively calling on folks to worship a false god that allows a mere mortal to declare another mortal’s eternal fate.

This god, demonstrably, is not the Biblical Jesus, and rather is a deity that groups likeWestboro Baptist Church worship. Thatentity takes pleasure from other people’s pain, with campaigns that “thank God for AIDS,” proudly tell people “You’re going to Hell” — the church’s website even has parodies of popular music with this message — and lodge disparaging remarks about various lifestyles they disagree with.

Utterly lacking mercy and grace, pursuing instead a message of hate, groups like this one destroy community and demonstrably counter the Biblical Christ.

Further, such mean-spirited messages counter Christmas’ very essence.

Christians who see, increasingly, civic actions to remove even secular mentions of Christmas — ignorantly opting for inaccurate, insulting terms like “holiday tree” in a wrong-headed pursuit of fairness or separation of church and state — would like nothing more than to focus on “the reason for the season.”

That precludes a counterfeit Christ co-opted by some to divide a country that typically grows closer during the holidays.

Increasingly, readers wrote to us, Saturday’s divisive messages “killed” the Christmas spirit for their families.

That’s not surprising, as this and a couple of other displays compromised children’s innocence, the season’s backbone.

The theme of Saturday’s procession was “Blessed are the Children.” Many people believe children are somehow closer to God, as they’ve lived for a shorter period. Not fully experiencing a fabricated world’s hardships and injustices, they experience things differently than adults do and hold awe for life’s simple pleasures. The adage “ignorance is bliss” rings true, as kids can’t fully comprehend life’s ugly side, where people sometimes have sinister motives, ends justify means and corruption runs rampant.

For kids, every day is a roller coaster of adventure and discovery. Revelations about Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny and the tooth fairy come with maturity, but before the illusion wears off, these characters do more than give parents reasons to give gifts; adults temporarily rekindle their long lost innocence and wonder as they experience the season’s joy through their children’s eyes.

Snatch Santa Claus from kids and you snatch him from adults who could use a break from work woes, relationship problems and other stress factors.

Christmas is the ultimate time to “pay it forward” — that is, help someone different from someone who helped you, ultimately making the world a better place if everyone does the same. Like a story from the “Chicken Soup for the Soul” series, Santa Claus, and everything he represents, seasonally calls on us to put our best self forward and think of others.

That helps create a chain of love.

For instance, Monday, upon leaving the grocery store, I dropped a dollar in The Salvation Army kettle, knowing my dollar — in addition to others’ contributions — would help those with addiction problems, aid one of the organization’s social programs or help a stranger find a lost family member.

I won’t pass that kettle this season without giving to it. Knowing my small contributions here and there can transform someone’s life helps me grow spiritually, mentally and even physically, as living for others ultimately gives you more energy and drive than living for yourself.

Those kettles wouldn’t be there if not for Christmas.

Indeed, Salvation Army Capt. Joseph McFee wanted 1,000 of San Francisco’s poorest residents to have a free Christmas dinner in 1891 — and he made it happen with a large iron pot, according to the nonprofit’s website.

It doesn’t matter if you’re Christian and celebrate Christ’s birth or a non-believer who enjoys the secular symbols and gift-giving traditions, Santa, and everything he represents, has an overarching, positive purpose.

When we give thanks, look outside ourselves and help others, world peace and social justice prevail.

But when we damn others and denigrate the very holiday that — secular or not — consistently drives charitable efforts and togetherness, we have a problem.

Now, the Main Street Crestview Association must find the solution.

Undoubtedly, the association worked hard and gave heart to pull off a family friendly event.

Unfortunately, for many people, just one negative thing can spoil what, over all, was an enjoyable evening.

And there’s more to come.

The preacher who caused such a furor gleefully announced Monday on the News Bulletin’s Facebook page that he plans to appear in next year’s parade.

Meanwhile, a number of residents have questioned whether the association can set standards to ensure that future parade participants adhere to their family friendly theme. That means no “ladies night” advertisements or revelers carrying signs that read, “HIV began one person at a time and it will end one person at a time.” (Like parents should have to explain sexually transmitted diseases to their 5-year-olds!)

Perhaps “Blessed are the children,” as a theme, resonated after all.

Blessed are the children who had to be there.

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EDITOR'S DESK: Be grateful for America and our freedoms

This Thanksgiving, 18,500 former Hostess Brands staffers may have less to give thanks for after stubbornness in union negotiations with the manufacturer of Twinkies and other snack foods led to the company’s closure.

The Bakery, Confectionary, Tobacco Workers and Grain Millers International Union’s strike reportedly hinged on lost pensions, though the International Brotherhood of Teamsters, a larger union, apparently had resolved pay and benefits issues.

Now, because of the rogue smaller union’s actions, that could have meant no Ding Dongs, Ho Ho’s or Sno Balls for anyone. (OK, perhaps that’s not the worst fate for anyone, especially in obese America.)

However, more to the point, the smaller union’s greed cost Hostess employees their jobs.

Yes, greed.

The unemployment rate was 7.9 percent nationally in October and 8.7 percent in Florida in September, the latest months for available data, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics. Regardless of work conditions, pay or benefits, I can imagine what any unemployed American would give to have worked at Hostess.

Do corporations have their flaws? Sure.

Does most of the money rise to the top or benefit investors who do not do a lick of actual work for the company? Unquestionably.

Still, some job is better than no job.

Giving thanks means being grateful for what you have. Beggars can’t be choosers, and pretty much every American in this economy should consider himself or herself a beggar. I have little patience for people who regularly complain about their job, its pay, their benefits or even working conditions. They should get another job if they’re that upset.

Now, should businesses annually give merit, if not cost of living adjustment, raises? Absolutely.

Should exceptional workers expect such compensation adjustments? Unquestionably.

But in America, where there’s clean drinking water, abundant food supply, the right to vote and equality — no forced genital mutilation here — let’s not miss the forest for the trees.

Similarly, I have little respect for women who pull the “got to have a doctor or lawyer” line. Yeah, that’s love — not — and besides, in America, whether they marry a doctor, lawyer, teacher or plumber, they don’t know how good they have it.

Incidentally, as I write this, “Father of the Bride, Part II” is playing on TBS, and Steve Tyrell sings appropriate lyrics in “Give Me the Simple Life.”

“Just serve me potatoes and mashed potatoes — give me the simple life.”

Ultimately, that’s all that matters, isn’t it? Eggs and orange juice. Lasting friendship and pen pals. Hop Scotch and merry-go-rounds. Potlucks and bridge games. Fantasy football teams and band recitals. Hugs and kisses. Living, laughing and loving.

Living, but not the need to live large, because there’s no such need. “A house that rings with joy and laughter, and the one you love inside,” as Tyrell sings, are all we really need. And your perspective drives whatever form those things take.

Incidentally, George and Nina Banks, “the bride’s” parents, live anything but the simple life. But I digress.

This is America, and we are blessed — regardless.

Be grateful for that, and for the service members who fight to preserve our freedoms.

Thomas Boni is the Editor of the Crestview News Bulletin. Email him at tboni@crestviewbulletin.com, tweet him @cnbeditor, or call 682-6524.

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MY VIEW: In support of Warriors Hall

Nov. 3, a gathering of Crestview citizens and a number of folks from our “sister city” in France attended a program of classic orchestral melodies of the 1940s and ’50s in Warriors Hall.

The program, presented by the Friends of the Arts, featured the 17-member Downbeat Jazz Orchestra and vocalists Gina Walker and Saundra Daggs. It marked the first anniversary of the grand piano being donated to the city of Crestview and placed in Warriors Hall for all to hear and enjoy. Attendees wholeheartedly welcomed this fine musical ensemble with rounds of applause and kind post-concert words of encouragement, and a sincere desire for similar cultural events in the months to come.

Another effort to bring class entertainment to Crestview, specifically Warriors Hall, is the forthcoming presentation of “Arsenic and Old Lace” being brought to life by the Journey Java players.

These are just two events that provide great entertainment, at a nominal fee, aimed to all ages.  The jazz orchestra actually had a few folks up and dancing; the theatrical production will undoubtedly have folks spellbound and glued to their seats.

These, and other cultural events, are headed to Warriors Hall, an auditorium the city purchased several years ago for the express purpose of bringing relaxing and educational experiences to residents. Thanks to Wayne Steele and his employees in the Public Works department, the  once-visible roof and supporting girders have been hidden by a dropped ceiling — which finishes off the room — and an enhanced lighting system was installed.

Once residents visit this facility, utilization of this classy auditorium for various occasions — like plays, concerts, piano recitals and wedding receptions — will be first in various organizers’ minds.

Bob Allen, a retired city councilman, lives in Crestview.

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