
CRESTVIEW — A blue hatchback. That's all Nikki Patterson can remember about the woman who unknowingly has a precious piece of her family's history.
When Patterson, 28, gave away a 27-inch Sylvania television/VCR/DVD combination at her moving sale on Saturday in the Rolling Pines townhome subdivision, it included something irreplaceable.
A video of her dancing with her father, Ronald Ryman, at his 2001 wedding. He died at 43 years old, three years later after battling brain cancer.
"It's the only recollection I have of us having a father-daughter dance, so it's very sentimental to me," Patterson said.
It was the first — and last — dance they shared.
LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP
Patterson's mother and stepfather were stationed at Eglin Air Force Base in 1993, so she and her father, who lived in Harvard, Ill., had a long-distance relationship.
"While we were on summer break, I would go up to Illinois and visit him," Patterson said. "Once my brother hit middle school, he moved up with my dad. So my brother lived with my father and I lived with my mom and my stepdad.
"When high school came around, I got busier and busier and was able to spend less time with him — regretfully so," Patterson said. "I was very lucky that he was able to attend my graduation" at Crestview High School.
GIVEN AWAY
The divorced mother and her two children — Autumn, 6, and Lucas, 5 — moved not far from their Crooked Pine Trail home just before they had the moving sale.
She didn't sell the TV that had the video inside, she said.
"Somebody had given it to me out of the kindness of their heart so I asked the lady if she would like it," Patterson said, adding the woman she gave it to — in her late 40s or 50s — may have had blonde or gray hair; she couldn't quite remember.
"She bought a basket full of young boys' clothes that she said would be for her nephews … a basket of clothes plus the television… driving a blue vehicle with a hatchback trunk. "
Recently, Patterson had tough times and wanted to watch the video, which she played in a TV in her son's former bedroom.
That was the same TV that she gave away, not realizing what happened until after the fact, she said.
'2 PERCENT CHANCE'
Just about 20 people attended Ryman's wedding, so Patterson said it's unlikely that anyone else has the video of him dancing with her.
"There's probably about a 2 percent chance that I'm gonna find a copy of this anywhere," she said.
But she has called her aunt and they're asking friends for any similar video.
Plus, she has help from strangers.
She posted a message about the video on Facebook's Crestview Classifieds, Buy, Sell, Trade page and word rapidly spread on social media.
That offers some comfort.
"So many people have shared this story that I don't even know," she said. "It really touches my heart that so many people care."
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