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Okaloosa County clubs and organizations

CRESTVIEW — Here is the latest information on area club meetings in Northwest Florida.

MONDAYS 

DOGWOOD GARDEN CLUB SCHEDULE: Club members meet first Mondays from September through May, usually in members' homes.

•10:30 a.m. April 1, TBA. Program: Wrap It Up. 

•10:30 a.m. May 6, TBA. Program: Salad Luncheon, Woman of the Year Award and Installation.

Call 682-2691 or 683-0839 for TBA meeting locations. Dues are $25 a year. 

ADULT CHESS CLUB: The Crestview library hosts the Adult Chess Club 5-8 p.m. Monday evenings. Playing is free and boards are available. Call 850-682-4432 with questions. 

YOUTH NIGHT: 6-8:30 p.m. Mondays, Convergence Coffeehouse, 498 Wilson St. N. Visitors may enjoy free refreshments, play games, watch old movies, or fellowship. 

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS: 8 p.m. Mondays, the clubhouse at 704 Robinson St., Crestview, for beginners and newcomers. Details: Jerry, 830-6218. www.fwb-area-aa.org

DOGWOOD GARDEN CLUB: 10:30 a.m. first Mondays, September through May, location to be announced. Details: 683-0839. 

COUNTRY PATCHERS QUILT GUILD: 9:30 a.m. second Mondays, Antioch Baptist Church, 4824 Antioch Road, Crestview. Yearly membership: $20. 

COUNTRY PATCHERS QUILT GUILD: 9:30 a.m. fourth Mondays, Antioch Baptist Church, 4824 Antioch Road, Crestview. Sit-n-sew and workshop meeting. 

CRESTVIEW WRITERS GROUP: 6-7:30 p.m. every fourth Monday, Crestview Public Library. Online: http://www.cityofcrestview.org/library.php

THE OKALOOSA COUNTY COMMISSION ON THE STATUS OF WOMEN: fourth Mondays. Details: info@occsw.org.

FREE AND ACCEPTED MASONS: 7 p.m. second and fourth Mondays, Mount Ewell Lodge 131, U.S. Highway 198, Baker. 

TUESDAYS

CRESTVIEW LIONS CLUB: 7 a.m. second and fourth Tuesdays, Hub City Smokehouse, 168 Main St. S, Crestview. Details: crestviewlions@hotmail.com, secretary Charlotte Jones, 533-9931.

TAKE OFF POUNDS SENSIBLY:

●8 a.m. Tuesdays at First Baptist Church of Garden City, 3140 Haskell-Langley Road, Crestview. Details: Mary Cole, 683-1899. 

●5 p.m. weigh-in; meeting starts from 5:25-5:30 p.m. at the First United Methodist Church fellowship hall, 599 Eighth Ave., Crestview. Brooke Bratton, 225-8197. www.TOPS.org.

SENIORS VS. CRIME: 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. Tuesdays and Thursdays, except holidays, 296 S. Ferdon Blvd., Suite 8, Crestview. Call 306-3176 to report incidents. okaloosacountysvc@yahoo.com.

STORY TIME: 10:15 a.m. Tuesdays, Crestview Public Library, 1445 Commerce Drive. Children ages 3 to 5 can enjoy stories and activities, and make a simple craft.

CRESTVIEW KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS BINGO: Quarterly games 4:30-6 p.m.; regular games 6-9 p.m. every Tuesday at 701 James Lee Blvd., Crestview.

BAKER GARDEN CLUB: 10 a.m. first Tuesdays September through May at different locations. Liz Davis, 537-4512.

OSTOMY SUPPORT GROUP: 1 p.m. first Tuesdays, Wellness Center at Twin Cities Hospital, Niceville. A Registered Nurse is present, and meetings include details of specialty care and product innovations that may be helpful. Details: 389-7071.

CARVER-HILL MEMORIAL AND HISTORICAL SOCIETY: 5:30 p.m. first Tuesdays, Allen Park, 895 McClelland St., Crestview.

OPEN MIC POETRY AT THE LIBRARY: 6 p.m. second Tuesdays, Crestview Public Library, 1445 Commerce Drive, Crestview. Free. Esther Hurwitz, 682-4432 or ehurwitz@okaloosa.lib.fl.us; Rick Sanders, 585-6399. Read poetry or play music. http://cvwlibrary.tumblr.com/.

SHOAL RIVER REPUBLICAN CLUB: 6 p.m. second Tuesdays of each month at Hideaway Pizza, 326 Main St., Crestview. Meeting starts at 6:30 p.m.

CRESTVIEW TOASTMASTERS: 6-7 p.m. second and fourth Tuesdays, Greater Federation of Women's Club building, 150 Woodlawn Drive, Crestview. Visitors are welcome. Details: Kathy Morrow, 974-3662.

AMERICAN LEGION POST 395: 5:30 p.m. third Tuesdays, Carver-Hill Museum, 895 S. McClelland St., Crestview. Commander Raymond Nelson, 420-0706.

NORTH OKALOOSA PATRIOTS: 6:30 p.m. third Tuesdays, 150 N. Woodlawn Blvd., Crestview. www.panhandlepatriots.com.

WEDNESDAYS 

CRESTVIEW KIWANIS CLUB: 11:45 a.m. Wednesdays, Samuel's Roadhouse, 114 John King Road, Crestview.

KNITTING GROUP: 5-7 p.m. Wednesdays, Casbah Coffee Company, 196 Pine Ave. W, Crestview.

PANHANDLE SADDLE CLUB: 6 p.m. first Wednesdays, David’s Catfish House, 1296 N. Ferdon Blvd. Crestview. Includes socializing, dinner and a meeting. November topic: how to keep your horse healthy. Details: Donna Curry, 830-6403 or donna@embarqmail.com.

SONS OF ITALY, CRESTVIEW CHAPTER 2865: 6 p.m. third Wednesdays. All people of American-Italian heritage may join. Group president Thomas Hughes, 682-3597, thomasjhughessr@hotmail.com.

THURSDAYS

GRIEFSHARE SUPPORT GROUP: 10 a.m. Thursdays, Crosspoint, in portable 2, 2250 PJ Adams Parkway, Crestview. For people grieving the death of a loved one or other losses. 678-4411 extension 109.

OVEREATERS ANONYMOUS: 10-11 a.m. Thursdays, 704 E. Robinson Ave., Crestview. 689-1842.

SENIORS VS. CRIME: 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. Tuesdays and Thursdays, except holidays, 296 S. Ferdon Blvd., Suite 8, Crestview. Call 306-3176 or email okaloosacountysvc@yahoo.com to report incidents.

CONCERNED CITIZENS OF CRESTVIEW: 5:30 p.m. first Thursdays, Allen Park, 895 McClelland St., Crestview.

FLYING NEEDLES QUILT GUILD: 9:30 a.m. second Thursdays at Niceville Church of Christ. Visitors and quilters are welcome.

NORTH OKALOOSA AMATEUR RADIO CLUB: 7 p.m. second Thursdays, Live Oak Baptist Church, 4565 Live Oak Church Road, Crestview. Call 398-7524 for details.

MAINSTREET CRESTVIEW ASSOCIATION: 8 a.m. third Thursdays, FAMU College of Pharmacy in downtown Crestview. Group improves and promotes Main Street and Crestview Community Redevelopment Agency businesses.

CRESTVIEW PHOTO CLUB: The Crestview Photo Club meets 6:30-8:30 p.m. fourth Thursdays at the Crestview Elks Lodge, 127 W. Pine Ave., across from Casbah Coffee Shop.

CRESTVIEW EXCHANGE CLUB: fourth Thursdays, Covenant Hospice, Crestview. Sharlene Cox, 682-6824.

FRIDAYS

TEEN WII: 2-4 p.m. Fridays, Crestview library, 1445 Commerce Drive. Wii playing for students in sixth through 12th grades.

STEAK NIGHT: 6 p.m. first Fridays. American Legion Post 75, 898 E. James Lee Blvd., Crestview. Cost: $15 per person; includes T-bone steak, baked potato, salad, bread and dessert. 689-3195.

SATURDAYS

ADULT/FAMILY NIGHT: 6-9 p.m. Saturdays, Convergence Coffeehouse, 498 Wilson St. N., Crestview. Free refreshments, play games, watch old movies, or just fellowship.

KARAOKE: 8 p.m. Saturdays, American Legion Post 75, 898 E. James Lee Blvd., Crestview. 689-3195.

READ TO DOZER: 10-11 a.m. first Saturdays, Crestview library, 1445 Commerce Drive. For children ages 4 and up.

BOBBIN LACE GROUP: 11 a.m. first Saturdays, Heritage Museum, 115 Westview Ave., Valparaiso. Anyone may attend to inquire about the craft. 678-2615.

GOLD WING ROAD RIDERS ASSOCIATION: 9 a.m. to eat and 10 a.m. meeting third Saturdays of the month. Dwayne Hopkins, 217-1001. All motorcyclists are welcome.

VFW HORSESHOE TOURNAMENT: 12 p.m. third Saturdays, Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 5450, 2240 W. James Lee Blvd., Crestview. Lynn Mobley, 682-5552.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Okaloosa County clubs and organizations

North Okaloosa County services calendar

COLD SHELTERS: The following Crestview shelters open at 6 p.m. and close at 7 a.m. when temperatures are 40 degrees or below.

Sunday: Lifepoint Church, 400 Ferdon Blvd. S, 682-3518.

Monday: Helping Hands house, 428 McLaughlin Ave., 398-5670. Hosted by Emmanuel Baptist Church.

Tuesday and Wednesday: Community of Christ, 398 First Ave. W., 682-7474. Hosted by Joy Fellowship.

Thursday: Helping Hands house, hosted by Woodlawn Baptist Church, 398-5670.

Friday: The Full Gospel Restoration Full Gospel Church, 383 Texas Parkway, 682-6029.

Saturday: Helping Hands house, hosted by First United Methodist Church, 398-5670.

PRIZE DONATIONS NEEDED: The Crestview Police Department Community Services Division is accepting prize donations for the games night it has with special needs teens and adults in Crestview. Donations of bottled water, soft drinks and snacks are also welcome. Take donations to the CPD, Whitehurst Municipal Building, 201 Stillwell Blvd., Crestview.

ENERGY ASSISTANCE AND SERVICES FOR LOW-INCOME FAMILIES: 8 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Mondays through Thursdays, Tri-County Community Council, 290 Martin Luther King Jr. Ave., Crestview. 306-1134.

CRESTVIEW SOUP KITCHEN NEEDS VOLUNTEERS: Serves Mondays through Saturdays. To volunteer at Central Baptist Church, call 682-5525; Our Savior Lutheran Church, 682-3154; LifePoint Church, 682-3518; Community of Christ, 682-7474; First Presbyterian Church, 682-2835; or First United Methodist Church, 682-2018.

SUPPORT CIRCLE FOR SEXUAL ASSAULT SURVIVORS: Meetings take place as follows.

—5-6 p.m. Tuesdays at Shelter House, 120 Woodruff Ave., Suite A, Crestview. This is a Shelter House survivor-led support group. Walk-ins are welcome. 683-0845. 

6-7 p.m. Wednesdays, Shelter House, 16 Ferry Road SE, Fort Walton Beach. A Shelter House survivor-led support group. Walk-ins are welcome. 243-1201.

noon to 1 p.m. Wednesdays, Shelter House, 3590 U.S. Highway 331 S., Suite 102, DeFuniak Springs. A Shelter House survivor-led support group. Walk-ins are welcome. 362-7190.

FREE CLOTHING GIVEAWAY: 10 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Wednesdays; 1-3:30 p.m. Thursdays; and 9 a.m. to noon second and fourth Saturdays of the month at 247 S. Booker St., Crestview. Free items include shoes and other accessories. Presented by Concerned Citizens of Crestview. Details: 689-1582 or 428-6997.

EMPLOY FLORIDA WORKSHOPS: 9-11 a.m. fourth Thursdays of the month at CareerSource Okaloosa Walton, 409 Racetrack Road, Fort Walton Beach. Learn to conduct job searches on the state system, create a resume, access labor market data for wage, job experience and education requirements for a specific occupation. Learn about Training Grant opportunities, online training courses, and the organization's virtual recruiter.

COLLEGE OFFERS ALZHEIMER'S SUPPORT: A Florida State University program that offers relief – free of charge – to distressed African-Americans who provide care to a loved one with dementia. It uses trained lay pastoral-care facilitators and is recruiting caregivers in North and Central Florida. ACTS 2 (African-American Alzheimer’s Caregiver Training and Support) won a $20,000 award as well. Caregivers participate in a 12-session, telephone-based skills-building and support program covering topics such as relaxation, effective thinking and problem-solving skills. Call 866-778-2724 toll free, 850-274-4945, or go to www.ACTS2Project.org for details.

SHINE VOLUNTEERS NEEDED: Serving Health Insurance Needs of Elders, a Department of Elder Affairs program, seeks volunteers to help elderly residents answer Medicare questions and resolve problems, help them make informed choices about their health insurance, save money on prescription medications and learn about their eligibility for helpful programs. There is no charge for seniors to use the program. Bilingual volunteers are also encouraged to call. Dial 1-800-963-5337 for details.

EMERALD COAST HOSPICE VOLUNTEERS WANTED: ECH provides compassionate care through a team of professional staff members and volunteers. Volunteers are thoroughly trained and provided ongoing education. They can serve in a variety of areas from administrative help to offering support to a hospice patient through visits or weekly phone calls. Just a few hours a month makes an impact. Details: Ann O'Connor, 689- 0300.

SENIORS VS. CRIME VOLUNTEERS NEEDED: Seniors vs. Crime's Crestview office, which assists senior citizens whom someone scammed or took advantage of, needs help. Hours are 10 a.m. to noon Tuesdays and Thursdays at 296 S. Ferdon Blvd., Suite 8. To volunteer, contact Office Manager Joe Loria, 306-3176, or Region 5 Deputy Director JB Whitten, 813-489-5657. Contact 800-203-3099, see www.seniorsvscrime.com, or email crestview@svcproject.org for more information. 

REPORT ELDERS ABUSE: Call the Northwest Florida Area Agency on Aging at 1-800-96-ABUSE (800-962-2873) if you suspect elderly friends and neighbors are being abused. Many elders may suffer from financial exploitation, neglect or physical or emotional abuse, often caused by family members. The NFAAA is a private, non-profit agency supported by the federal Older Americans Act and the State of Florida General Revenue Fund through the Florida Department of Elder Affairs. Gwen Rhodes, 494-7100 or rhodesg@nwflaaa.org

UWF ACADEMIC ADVISING: The University of West Florida offers assistance with admissions, academic and degree advising and registration in Crestview. Contact Deborah Cluff, 863-6550, to schedule an appointment for first Thursdays at the Crestview Area Chamber of Commerce, 1446 Commerce Drive.

HOMELESS ASSISTANCE: Need help? Contact the Okaloosa Walton Homeless Continuum of Care, 409-3070, www.okaloosawaltonhomeless.org; Opportunity Inc., 659-3190; or Helping Hands of Crestview, 428 McLaughlin St., behind First United Methodist Church. Helping Hands is open 1-4 p.m. Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays.

WOMEN AND FAMILY INTERVENTION SERVICES AND EDUCATION: a Crestview-based Community Drug and Alcohol Council program that helps pregnant women with substance abuse. 689-4024.

CHILDCARE ASSISTANCE: Eligible low-income families can receive financial assistance through the Early Learning Coalition of Okaloosa and Walton Counties. Apply at www.elc-ow.org. Hover over "Services" and click "School Readiness" to register.

FREE MEDICARE COUNSELING: By appointment, Crestview Public Library and Elder Services of Okaloosa County, in Crestview, 494-7101 or 1-866-531-8011.

HABITAT FOR HUMANITY: Nonprofit seeks Crestview area lots for families needing housing. 758-0779 or 315-0025.

VA VETERANS CRISIS LINE: Veterans in crisis, their families and friends can call 800-273-TALK (8255), and press 1 to talk with qualified, caring VA responders. Confidential. www.veteranscrisisline.net.

BIG BROTHERS BIG SISTERS OF NORTHWEST FLORIDA NEEDS MENTORS: Adult volunteers spend two hours weekly mentoring children. Pairs go to the library, museum, park or beach, hike, roller-skate or play sports. 664-5437.

VOLUNTEER ORGANIZATIONS ACTIVE IN DISASTERS: Group needs people to work in the Emergency Operations Center assisting county personnel. Contact: Yvonne Earle, 863-1530, extension 230.

FREE HAZARDOUS HOUSEHOLD WASTE DROPOFF: 7 a.m. to 3 p.m. Tuesdays through Saturdays, Okaloosa County Recycling Office, 80 Ready Ave., Fort Walton Beach. Okaloosa residents may drop off paints, pesticides, pool chemicals, used oil, gas, antifreeze, computers, televisions, fluorescent lamps, car batteries, rechargeable batteries, cleaners, solvents, aerosols and printers.

MUSEUM SEEKS VOLUNTEERS: Heritage Museum of Northwest Florida seeks friendly, reliable volunteers to greet guests and answer phones in its gift shop 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. or 1-4 p.m. Tuesdays through Saturdays. Details: 678-2615, stop by 115 Westview Ave., Valparaiso, or email info@heritage-museum.org.

CARS NEEDED: Opportunity Inc. accepts donations of cars, boats and other vehicles to support Opportunity Place, an emergency shelter for families. Shelley Poirrier, 409-3070 or shelley@okaloosawaltonhomeless.org.

SHELTER HOUSE FINANCIAL SUPPORT: It costs just more than $100 a day to shelter a domestic violence victim. Every little bit helps. 683-0845.

DRIVE VETERANS: Help veterans attend appointments at the VA Outpatient Clinic in Pensacola two days a month. Veterans Service Office, 689-5922.

VEHICLES NEEDED: Covenant Hospice accepts cars, trucks, SUVs, motorcycles, boats and RVs. Qualified professionals pick up vehicles from Pensacola to Tallahassee at convenience. Rachel Mayew, 428-0605.

LAKEVIEW CENTER'S FAMILIES FIRST NETWORK NEEDS BEDS: Donations wanted for local children in protective services. Cribs and beds for children must be in good condition. 833-3840.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: North Okaloosa County services calendar

Country artist John Conlee schedules local concert

Country music artist John Conlee will sing 7 p.m. March 23 at the Panhandle Opry, 657 DeShazo Road, Crestview. He is known for such hits as "Rose Colored Glasses," "Backside of 30," and "Miss Emily's Picture." [MICHAEL GOMEZ | SPECIAL TO THE NEWS BULLETIN]

CRESTVIEW — Country legend John Conlee, a regular performer at the Grand Ole Opry in Nashville, will perform locally soon.

The concert is 7 p.m. March 23 at the Panhandle Opry, 657 DeShazo Road, Crestview.

During Conlee’s  40-year career, he has brought to audiences such classic songs as "Rose Colored Glasses," "Friday Night Blues," "Backside of 30," "Common Man", "Miss Emily's Picture" and "I Don't Remember Lovin' You."

He has released 32 singles throughout the years, with 26 of them charting in the top 20 or better, and eight of those 26 have reached No. 1 on national country charts. 

Conlee has returned to radio with singles "Walkin' Behind The Star"and “Bread and Water,” released on his own RCR (Rose Colored Records) Label. He recently celebrated the 39th anniversary of his breakthrough hit “Rose Colored Glasses,” and can be found on tour throughout 2018 as well as on the stage of the Grand Ole Opry, where he has been a member since 1981.

Tickets are available at www.itickets.com or call 800-965-9324.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Country artist John Conlee schedules local concert

Passion for cooking leads to Cajun-themed food truck

CRESTVIEW — A mix of Cajun and American cuisine forms the basis of the menu at Kay's Kurbside Café, a food truck started last fall by owner Karon Winder.

The mainstays on the menu are Cajun shrimp po boys, fried or grilled Chino Cajun chicken sandwiches, the All American Burger, and the Boss Lady Burger.

The chicken sandwich is named for her dog, Chino, a Shih Tzu-Yorkie mix who loves chicken. 

"He is spoiled rotten," she said. "He is a mess."

Winder also offers a veggie burger, a Bulldog bratwurst sausage, and Cajun sausage with peppers and onions. Sides include french fries, battered onion rings and sweet potato fries. There is also Taco Tuesday, and weekly specials that run the gamut from Cajun specialties to meatball subs.

The food is spicy, she said, but doesn't overwhelm taste buds. 

Winder grew up in Tennessee and started baking when she was 9, after being inspired by her mother and grandmother.

"My mom and my grandma always taught me cooking. My mom was always in the kitchen. I've always had a passion for it. I like hosting," Winder said.

The Mardi Gras-themed food truck grew out of the parties she liked to throw for family and friends. 

"My friends would say things like, 'Oh your food is so good. You should cater. You should cater!'" she said. "But in the state of Florida you can't cater out of your home, so I was looking for an option to get it out there and be able to give people my food.

"My pleasure is seeing you take a bite out of your sandwich … or tasting that po boy and saying, 'Oh, this is just like in Louisiana.'"

She had it confirmed when people from Louisiana complimented her by asking if she stole their recipe.

"But when you love what you do and you cook with love, I think it comes out in your food," she said.

She formed a business plan, and she and her boyfriend Eric Stevenson came up with the name.

Kay's Kurbside Café can be found in the Main Street Eats food truck section of Main Street. It's located in the alley between Desi's and the HERO special needs center. They offer delivery to businesses along Main and Wilson streets on Mondays.

Hours are from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. and 4-7 p.m. Tuesdays through Fridays, and from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Mondays and Saturdays. Winder said hours will be extended in the summer.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Passion for cooking leads to Cajun-themed food truck

14U Crestview Volleyball team wins Gold Division championship

The 14U Club Challengers Volleyball Team is, from left: (top row) Assistant Coach Amber Etheridge, Erica Duenas, Riley Bowles, Heidi Martell, Lily Adams, and Head Coach Ray Lovelace; (front row) Alaynah Smith, Reagan Bowles, Taylor Ashlock, Kiara Soler, and Kailyn Ellis. [SPECIAL TO THE NEWS BULLETIN]

CRESTVIEW — The 14U Club Challengers Volleyball Team participated in the 12th Annual Jax Jam Feb. 9 and 10 in Jacksonville.

After finishing third in their first two tournaments of the season, Director Angela Etheridge and Head Coach Ray Lovelace decided to test the players by entering them into the 15U division of 24 teams at this widely renowned tournament.

The Challengers' only loss came in their first match on Saturday, against the 904 Elite National 15U Team that would remain undefeated and capture the elite Open Gold Division Title.

"As for this younger team of 'Challengers', they won the remainder of their matches and captured the Gold Division Championship! This is certain to be only the first championship for the Challengers teams this season, with a total of 8 teams with players 7-14 yrs old," a team spokesperson said.

Email challengersvolleyball@gmail.com, or find them at Facebook.com/clubchallengers for more information about the Crestview-based USA Volleyball club.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: 14U Crestview Volleyball team wins Gold Division championship

Holding My Stillborn Son

My wife and I got the news on May 30, 1989. Our full term nine-month-old son was dead. Karen had not felt the baby move in a couple of days and when she checked into the hospital to deliver our son the worst news ever was reported; our son was dead. Something had happened. Somehow tragically the unbilical cord either had a kink in it or was wrapped around the baby's neck but oxygen somehow had been cut off to our son.

I watched the delivery of my first two beautiful sons ecstatically celebrating each birth. Watching the medical team deliver Jesse Caleb who was now dead ranks as one of the most emotional gut-wrenching moments of my life. 

When he was delivered the doctor wrapped him in a blanket and handed him to me to hold next to Karen. He was beautiful in every way. Physically he was perfect. Nothing at all appeared wrong with our son. There was just one major problem, he wasn't breathing. 

Karen was under anesthesia since the baby was taken by caesarean section. She had a very difficult afternoon of trying to recover from the procedure along with the emotional devastation.

I would spend most of the day holding our dead son. The hospital put me in a quiet room where I could hold him and hold him next to Karen. For several hours I held Jesse and cried. I felt like I was in a nightmare. I would look at his hands, feet and body and beautiful face and could not believe I was holding our dead child. Several times I prayed and asked God to please let Jesse breathe. I prayed for a miracle. I prayed that somehow I was in a horrible dream that I would awaken from. I went from every emotion possible. I begged God for a miracle, I pled for mercy and then I questioned why us? I went through every emotion possible from guilt to anger.

When something horrendous like losing a child happens every thought and emotion runs through your mind. 

The funeral director would say the day that I took Jesse to the funeral home, "Glenn, my, my what a beautiful boy. I am so sorry."

Three days later we would have a graveside funeral and bury Jesse Caleb. Karen and I were devastated. Actually, the loss of a nine-month full term baby is something that we never got over nor do most people. 

Losing a child at any age is emotionally and physically devastating. We pray, we cry, we try to work through it, but it's a lifelong ache that never really goes away. 

I write this to say I don't know how any woman or couple could terminate a baby. I am reading about babies being terminated at nine months. We could never had killed Jesse Caleb. He was beautiful. I don't know how people can kill beautiful babies. Put them up for adoption if you don't want them because thousands of people are praying for a child every day.

I do know that tough decisions are made every day. Karen and I years before had lost twins at Karen's three-month stage of pregnancy. She was miscarrying and the doctors told her a D & C would be necessary. The emotions of losing those twins were horrendous.  

Karen would later develop Multiple Sclerosis and die twelve years later. In my mind the emotional distress of losing children in such dramatic ways led to Karen's physical debilitation that we could never overcome. It may not have caused her sickness but such distress is always detrimental. 

A friend of my wife Carole died years ago from childbirth. In delivering the child she became toxic and not only did the baby die but she died as well. Looking back if the pregnancy had been terminated possibly the young lady might have been saved but it was a call that nobody made. Thus, the husband, parents and all were doubly devastated. 

I don't believe the police or lawyers or judges should ever be in the delivery room. Decisions must be made between the mother and the doctors. Sometimes decisions have to be made to save the mother. 

I personally believe most women who have ever had an abortion live with guilt and regret. At least this is what I have learned from women I have heard from over the years. 

I do believe in forgiveness. People make lots of mistakes and often feel they have no one to talk to about an overwhelming decision. 

Today I am grateful for two beautiful sons, three lovely step daughters and four awesome grandchildren. I am grateful. However, I've never forgotten holding Jesse Caleb.

Glenn Mollette is an American syndicated columnist and author. What’s your view? Write a letter to the editor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Holding My Stillborn Son

Call BT Kitchen and Bath for your next remodeling project

This Shaker design with simple panels and angles is a popular selection, according to BT Kitchen and Bath sales manager John Cassady.

CRESTVIEW — Remodeling a kitchen is no small decision, so John Cassady, sales manager with BT Kitchen and Bath will be with you every step of the way. Stop by the showroom at 4110 South Ferdon Blvd. Meet John and see how BT Kitchen and Bath can transform your home.

John, his father Paul Cassady, and Joel Hughes are the leaders behind BT Kitchen and Bath. The showroom has been in existence for eight years but Paul and Joel have decades more experience in the industry.

John’s approach to the kitchen and bath remodel is two-fold: simplification and customization with the customer in mind.

In the showroom, you’ll see a few hand-picked kitchen designs and a selection of Wellborn cabinet doors.

"We keep it really simple here," John said. "I don’t like a bunch of competing brands. I take what I feel is the best bang for the buck and put them on the floor."

From start to finish, BT Kitchen and Bath is about building trust.

Step one is the meet-and-greet. John meets with customers first at the showroom to see what you’re looking for and discuss materials.

John will help you stay within your budget and find out what’s most and least important to you.

"If they start to pick things out that are pricy I can advise them on that," he said.

Step two, John will come take measurements at your home. He’s the sales manager but he likes to put his own tape measurer on projects.

"I want to be face to face with each one of my customers," he said. "It removes some of the miscommunications that can happen in remodeling."

Step three, you’ll meet with John at the showroom to see the layout or multiple layouts he’s created and the quote. Whether you want a detailed estimate, a simple design or a good/better/best set of options, John can work with you.

"I really try to base my whole process around the needs of the customer," John said.

Step four is the paperwork. BT Kitchen and Bath offers zero percent financing up to 60 months. John can offer other payment options as well.

Step four is the install. On average the process takes six weeks. Know ahead of time that BT Kitchen and Bath doesn’t touch plumbing work.

"We clean up," John said. "The customer has to have their sink reconnected."

Visit www.btkitchenandbath.com to read customer testimonials and see photos from past remodel jobs.

Just looking for an estimate? Call 1-850-266-7499 or email johncassady@buythiskitchen.com. Make an appointment, meet John at the showroom and get a free consultation with him today.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Call BT Kitchen and Bath for your next remodeling project

Healthy Coast Meals offers clean eating in Crestview

Healthy Coast Meals, the second retail store for owners Ashley and Ross Cole, opened Jan. 5 at 1900 Ferdon Blvd. S., Suite 180, Crestview, in the same shopping center as Marco's Pizza. [RENEE BELL | NEWS BULLETIN]

CRESTVIEW — Healthy Coast Meals is a company that makes clean eating easy and convenient for its customers.

Owners Ashley and Ross Cole have one store and commercial kitchen in Fort Walton Beach. They opened their second "Grab and Go" retail store Jan. 5 at 1900 Ferdon Blvd. S., Suite 180 in Crestview.

The Crestview site has prepackaged, color-coded meals for purchase. Breakfast items are crustless quiche and protein waffles. There are also vanilla and chocolate chip protein donuts. Of their entrées, their most popular are the buffalo chicken plates and burrito bowls.

Ross Cole said professional chefs prepare all the foods from scratch.

"While we do cook everything in Fort Walton Beach, we are very concerned about food safety," Ross Cole said.

The food for Crestview is cooked there, then immediately transported in brand-new refrigerated vehicles that keep the food between 35-39 degrees.

All HCM foods are gluten-free, meaning no wheat flour is used in any product. They are also peanut-free and shellfish-free as well.

"Too many people are allergic to shellfish that we will never have a shellfish, a shrimp, a lobster … in our kitchen," Ross said.

Some items are sugar-free, and some are dairy-free. They are labeled accordingly on the packages and every ingredient is listed on every meal.

In addition to Grab-and-Go products, customers have the option of signing up for various meal plans, bulk purchases, and additional options.

Pre-orders are available by phone and online at www.healthycoastmeals.com. Customers pick up items indoors, at the store's drive-thru, or have them delivered directly to their homes for a fee.

As former professional athletes, Ross said eating healthy is important to him and his wife. They know the amount of work that goes into weighing and preparing food for a healthy diet.

Packets are weighed out, the nutritional content is on the outside, and customers can come pick up 20 meals for the week instead of losing a day preparing them.

"They can come in here and just grab them and they still have their Sunday," he said. "They don't lose that time in their life."

Healthy Coast provides a 10 percent discount to active duty and retired military members, first responders and Okaloosa teachers.

NOTE: This article was updated as it incorrectly stated food transportation temperatures. Healthy Coast meals are kept below 40 degrees for safety.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Healthy Coast Meals offers clean eating in Crestview

Okaloosa Community Briefs

CRESTVIEW — Here are upcoming and recent events in North Okaloosa County and surrounding areas. 

Crestview grad releases book on Trump presidency

Cliff Sims, a 2002 Crestview High School graduate, released a book about his work with the Trump presidency. The book, "Team of Vipers: My 500 Extraordinary Days in the Trump White House," was number 6 on Amazon's best seller list on its release date.

Here are its current Amazon standings:

#1 in Books > Biographies & Memoirs > Leaders & Notable People > Presidents & Heads of State

#1 in Books > Politics & Social Sciences > Politics & Government > United States > National

#1 in Kindle Store > Kindle eBooks > Biographies & Memoirs > Historical > United States > Presidents.

Laurel Hill school reunion is set

Former classmates, old friends and new will reunite 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. April 20 at Laurel Hill School A covered dish lunch will be served. Please bring any old pictures from your LHS school days to help share your memories. There will be door prizes!

Call or text Frankie Davis Johnson, 850-758-1639 for more information.

Crestview Police Department suspends fingerprinting services

The Crestview Police Department is canceling public fingerprinting until its system is repaired. Until it is fixed, the public may have fingerprints done at the Okaloosa County Sheriff's Office substation by the Crestview courthouse at the corner of State Road 85 and U.S. Highway 90.

Richbourg to host craft fair fundraiser

CRESTVIEW — Richbourg School will have a craft fair featuring 30 different vendors. Raffle tickets will be sold for door prizes donated by participating vendors as well. 

The fair is 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Feb. 2 at the school, 500 Alabama St., Crestview. All proceeds will be used to purchase classroom technology for teachers to buy items needed for the classroom/technology for the students.

SIF Portrait Studio will have a Valentine’s Day setup and taking a free professional picture when you stop by to check their booth out.

Boston butt sale to benefit cancer Relay for Life

CRESTVIEW — The Duke it Out Relay For Life team is hosting a cooked Boston butt sale for the Feb. 3 Super Bowl game. Cost is $30 each, with pick up from 4-5 p.m. Feb. 2 at Winn-Dixie in north Crestview.

Contact Loney Whitley, 537-4654 o4 603-3500, to order.

Boyles to host Coffee with the Commissioner event 

BAKER — Okaloosa County Commissioner Nathan Boyles will discuss issues relating to the services, programs and improvements provided by Okaloosa County.

Multiple members of the Board of County Commissioners may attend and participate in the discussion, which is open to the public.

"Coffee with the Commissioner" starts at 5 p.m. Feb. 19 at the Camp Retreat, 5493 U.S. Highway 4, Baker.

Florida State Association scholarship available

The Florida State Association of Supervisors of Elections will award three $1,200 scholarships at their annual summer conference.

Applicants must be Political Science, Public or Business Administration, or Journalism/Mass Communication majors who completed or will have completed two years of college and be enrolled or accepted as a full-time student in a senior college or university in Florida.

Applicants must also have been bona fide residents of Florida for two years, and be registered to vote. 

Obtain applications at www.GoVote-Okaloosa.com, or an Okaloosa County Supervisor of Elections office.

One Okaloosa County nominee will be selected and forwarded to the FSASE Scholarship Committee to compete on the state level. 

The deadline to return applications to an OCSOE office is March 29.

Deadline for return of applications to the Okaloosa County Supervisor of Elections office is March 29. 

Contact Katie Fults, voter education/PR coordinator, at 850-689-5600 or kfults@myokaloosa.com, for details or an application packet.

Over 2,000 jars of peanut butter donated through Okaloosa extension drive

CRESTVIEW — In honor of National Peanut Butter Day, members of the Okaloosa County Agricultural Extension Department donated more than 1,000 jars of peanut butter to local food banks.

The extension worked with the Crestview Rotary, Catholic Charities of northwest Florida and other civic groups to collect the peanut butter.

The total number of jars distributed was more than 2,000 jars of peanut butter – the Florida Peanut Producers Associated matched the amount the extension office contributed.

Okaloosa is known for its peanut crop in agricultural circles.

“We grow peanuts here in Okaloosa County,” Extension Director Jennifer Bearden said. “It highlights a crop we grow and also allows us to give back. Peanut butter is coveted by food banks. It is a high protein food, good for your cholesterol, long shelf life and it doesn’t need to be refrigerated. So it makes for a good staple of a food bank.”

The act of giving is something Bearden and the rest of the staff enjoy the most about National Peanut Butter Day.

“I just feel really good about giving back, especially when it is so needed. Every time I drop the peanut butter off at food pantries, I’m told that it’s exactly what they needed.”

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Okaloosa Community Briefs

Area veteran and family to receive home from nonprofit

Becky and Vicente Ramirez are pictured with their sons, Cade (left) and Ison. [SPECIAL TO THE NEWS BULLETIN]

CRESTVIEW — Homes For Our Troops will soon begin building a custom home for U.S. Army veteran Vicente Ramirez. A kickoff celebration is scheduled Feb. 16 in Crestview.

In 2006, Ramirez lost his left leg and was severely injured in his other by an incident involving two improvised explosive devices in Iraq.

In the nonprofit's video footage, he said, "Having a house would take a huge burden off my daily living and the issues that bring the pain."

One source of pain is the lack of wheelchair access in his family's Baker home. Vicente, who goes by Vince, has difficulty standing for long periods of time. Without his wheelchair, he has to stand a lot.

The new home will have an open floor plan and other necessities built to accommodate him, he said. They will make it easier for him to do daily tasks and do simple things with his family.

Vince and his wife, Becky, also a disabled Army veteran, have two sons. Cade just turned 3, and Ison is 6. The new home will make it easier to do simple things with them, he said.

The couple decided to build in Florida since it is near both of their families.

Vince expressed his gratitude to supporters. Their gift is "allowing him to rebuild his life," the release stated.

"These homes not only help soldiers, but most importantly, these homes help veterans be more productive individuals to family and friends," he said.

"Our homes include more than 40 special adaptations such as widened doorways for wheelchair access, a roll-in shower, and kitchen amenities that include pull-down shelving and lowered countertops," Teresa Verity, JFOT marketing associate, said.

"The home will also alleviate the mobility and safety issues associated with a traditional home, including navigating a wheelchair through narrow hallways or over thresholds, or reaching for cabinets that are too high."

She discussed the basic criteria to apply for a house through the organization. The veteran applying must be:

  • a post-Sept. 11, 2001 veteran injured in the theater of Iraq-Afghanistan war.
  • retired or in the process of retiring from military service.
  • must have received a letter of eligibility for the VA Specially Adapted Housing Grant program
  • have the HFOT home as their primary residence.
  • must accept the responsibility of home ownership and have the resources to maintain a home (ongoing maintenance and upkeep, property taxes, home insurance, utilities, etc.).

Visit https://www.hfotusa.org/building-homes/veterans/ramirez/ for more information about the Ramirezes. You may also visit that site to RSVP for the Feb. 16 kickoff celebration.

Verity said the other home HFOT will be building in Northwest Florida is for Army SPC Elliott Smith of Pensacola. Visit www.hfotusa.org/esmith for details.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Area veteran and family to receive home from nonprofit

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