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HELMS: Write to God straight from the heart

I am sitting here on a Wednesday night after our Bible study, just relaxing before calling it a night. 

My wife tells me to go ahead and write my column for this week. You know, just get up and out of the blue write your thoughts down and put them in an order that makes sense. 

After writing a column for six years in Walton County and the time here, apparently my wife thinks that "it just flows without any effort." 

Does she not know there is planning, praying, research —  all things that take vast amounts of time to make it sound feasibly sane? 

She has to be joking!

No, it really isn't all that hard.  You see, I have been doing this type of thing for most of my life. Writing plays, training material for different age groups, Sunday bulletins, having a book written and published, even some ghost writing for other ministers. 

I love it. 

As a young teenager, I had the privilege of proofing another weekly newspaper when others were too busy to do it. 

Putting my thoughts and opinions down on paper, in all of its various forms, is so much easier sometimes than trying to express myself with my voice.

In Psalm 45:1, the last part states that "my tongue is the pen of a ready writer."

I can relate to that from this viewpoint: my pen is ready, therefore I write, and my voice is prepared to proclaim it.

Dear Saints, it should never be difficult to express our love for our Heavenly Father. God's Word is never so complicated that we cannot understand it when we would but learn to love it.

Loving Him and His Word may start out as a chore, but the more you read, as well as spend some quality quiet time with Him, the more readily the Word and the Father can communicate to you.

When this happens, then your tongue can be as the pen of a ready writer. We may not always get it right, our thoughts may come out as a rambling, we may feel inadequate in expressing how we feel.  However, the more we practice, the easier it becomes and, yes, it does flow oh so easily.

Take me to task.  Sit down with pen and paper and write what is on your heart. 

Tomorrow night, make it sound a little better. Add more to that thought. Do this for a week, each day, changing it to make it better. After you have corrected and enhanced it for a week, throw it away. Now rewrite your original thought.

You will discover your first draft was with your heart, which is what God really wants to hear.

May God's Word become a lamp unto your feet, and a light unto your path. Be blessed.

 The Rev. Richard Helms serves at Miracle Acres Ministries, 3187 E. James Lee Blvd., Crestview.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: HELMS: Write to God straight from the heart

BROADHEAD: Guard your heart physically and spiritually

The book of Proverbs in the Bible has one-line bits of advice that contain mountains of food for thought. For example, in Proverbs 4 you find, “Guard your heart, for it affects everything you do.” This is true physically and spiritually, the Rev. Mark Broadhead says.

Solomon —  considered the wisest man who ever lived —  could derive tremendous lessons for living simply by observing human behavior.

The book of Proverbs in the Bible has one-line bits of advice that contain mountains of food for thought. For example, in Proverbs 4 you find, “Guard your heart, for it affects everything you do.”

This is true physically and spiritually. 

Physically, if the heart is not cared for by a good diet and exercise, it can weaken or become damaged. Stamina decreases; energy levels plummet.

Spiritually, the heart is the center of emotions. If care is not taken to protect it, melancholy, anger, hatred, bitterness and the like can creep in. Actions and reactions then stem from those hurtful emotions.

How can you guard your heart when it comes to your spiritual life? The Bible is full of recommendations for that.

If someone has something against you, go to them and try to make peace.

If at all possible, resolve your anger toward someone by the end of the day. Don’t let it fester.

Love your enemies.

Pray for people who don’t like you.

Love your neighbor.

Treat others the way you want to be treated.

Give thanks and praise to God in all things.

Strengthening your heart physically will provide great stamina for enjoying the activities in life around you. You will be able to participate in more family activities, sporting events, walks in God’s creation and ministries of Christ’s church.

Strengthening your heart spiritually will give you greater enjoyment of the people around you, more sound and reasoned responses to life’s circumstances, and the desire and ability to love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, strength and mind.

As the wise king said, “Guard your heart, for it affects everything you do.”

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview's pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: BROADHEAD: Guard your heart physically and spiritually

CROSE: A suggestion to keep Northwest Florida traffic moving

This photo shows a typical afternoon on State Road 85 just past PJ Adams Parkway. "Driving back from Fort Walton Beach, Destin or Niceville, traffic backs up around Duke Field, which causes an inordinate amount of problems once you hit Crestview," Janice Lynn Crose says.

Traffic seems to be an unending topic here in Crestview. I am no traffic expert; however, I did come from the greater Los Angeles basin and lived with bumper-to-bumper traffic for years.

When my husband Jim and I lived in the high desert, he worked 62 miles away and had to allow two to two-and-a-half hours commute time each way to work. He worked flex hours so he could drive when traffic was lighter; this made for long days, and many times he didn't get home until 9 or 10 p.m. 

Yes, those were trying circumstances for a newly married couple.

Now, we live near Old Bethel Road, Airport Road and State Road 85. When Robb, my brother, worked at Cracker Barrel, I had to allot 30 minutes to get him to work on time at 5 p.m. and it is only a little over 8 miles, but traffic was always piled up.

Driving back from Fort Walton Beach, Destin or Niceville, traffic backs up around Duke Field, which causes an inordinate amount of problems once you hit Crestview. Additionally, there are numerous accidents at PJ Adams Parkway because of the traffic light and people over-driving for congested conditions.

I realize that people make fun of California for requiring environmental impact and traffic studies; however, they don't allow for overgrowth to an area without adequate infrastructure.

Traffic studies are usually done by counting cars with hoses stretched out on the road, accident records justify stop signs and traffic lights, and speed surveys justify speed limits. 

A traffic engineer's job is to get traffic through a city as efficiently and safely as possible; this keeps emissions down.

We desperately need some alternative routes through Crestview. An experienced traffic engineering consultant could suggest routes to keep traffic flowing efficiently.

Several traffic studies have been done in our area and at one time there was the suggestion for a bypass east of town and routing traffic through an alternate route.  I am not sure what happened with that suggestion or the other traffic studies that have been made, but something needs to be done to keep traffic moving in an efficient manner.

One suggestion would be to calibrate the lights along SR 85 to one speed to keep traffic flowing and post a sign stating that signals are set for 42 mph, rather than having the lights on timers.

Whatever happens, I know there is a good solution for our traffic problems.

Janice Lynn Crose lives in Crestview with her husband, Jim; her two rescue collies, Shane and Jasmine; and two cats, Kathryn and Prince Valiant.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: CROSE: A suggestion to keep Northwest Florida traffic moving

Massacre of Charleston 9: Where do we go from here?

As the nation and church come to grips with the bone-chilling reality of the massacre at Mother Emanuel, lives will forever be changed and we seem to experience a period of disconnection.

Bishop A.J. Richardson calls the shootings “SAD” because indeed we are sorrowful, angry and dismayed. The resilience of our core has been rocked, but not moved.

On Thursday evening, June 18, I was attempting to give a comforting voice of reason and strength to Northwest Florida residents. However, through my passion and feeling of hurt for our brothers and sisters, the tenet of my message was completely distorted and cyber media took a headline and completely ran with it.

I would like to reaffirm my position of nonviolence and stricter gun laws: I do not endorse, and have never endorsed, bringing any weapon into any sacred house of worship.

I have been praying, and will continue to pray, for the strength and courage of all lives touched by this massacre.

I pray for Dylann Roof, his family, friends and supporters, because love and forgiveness must prevail and hate for anyone cannot do what love will do. We are a forgiving people, and we must spread love instead of hate and lies. 

Let me set this record straight: The pastor, nor any disciple of Mount Zion AME Church in Crestview, has never participated, and will not participate, in any violent activity or exercise any use of guns or violence during my tenure here. 

I have never used a firearm or encouraged a firearm to be used. I am always for peace to all mankind. The pastor and disciples of Mount Zion AME Church will go out of our way to give comfort, support, prayers, love and encouragement to all mankind. 

We believe that prayer protects, and that only prayer changes things and changes people. 

The bloodstain of the Charleston Nine will be forever etched in our hearts and minds as we will have to ponder security at multiple levels of work, church, or play.

The conversations of Confederate flags in South Carolina, gun control overhaul, or race relations must not be “swept in a corner”; we must work toward common good for all mankind. 

This shooting was not an isolated incident; this was a planned, heinous crime that has raised our level of awareness and asking, "Where do we go from here?"

 My voice is that there must be emergency plans in place but at no time would my emergency plans include any weapon of destruction. 

Jeremiah 31:3 says it best: “With loving kindness have I drawn thee.” Loving kindness effects the victory.

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said, "Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Hate multiplies hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness in a descending spiral of destruction…

"The chain reaction of evil — hate begetting hate; wars producing more wars — must be broken, or we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation."

It is and has always been my desire to love, pray and treat everyone the way I would like to be treated.

 I have been misunderstood, misinterpreted, and lied on, but I know that I love, I pray, and I care about all lives and all souls. 

It is my intention to continue spreading love, prayers, praise and thanksgiving.

The Rev. D. Sinclair Forbes is pastor of Mount Zion AME Church in Crestview.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Massacre of Charleston 9: Where do we go from here?

HELMS: Forgive sins or retain them — it's your choice

In the book of John, chapter 20, Jesus makes Himself known to His disciples after His death, burial and now resurrection. 

To me, a key scripture seldom discussed is verse 23, where He states, "If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven them; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained."

Many call this one of the hard teachings of Jesus, but in reality it is not. Forgiving another person's sins should be an easy task for those of us who have been forgiven much. 

Jesus provided forgiveness for us, and as a result we definitely need to learn to forgive. 

Matthew 6:15 states, "But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."

If we cannot forgive, we will not be forgiven — that is as cut and dried as it can be.

So how do we retain someone's sins?

By not making someone aware of sin in their lives, we do not give them the opportunity to seek forgiveness; therefore, we are retaining their sins. 

As a Christian, we should be committed to living and teaching an example each and every day. Our first priority in the morning as a part of our morning devotion should be to ask God to search our hearts and bring out everything in our lives that would hinder someone else. 

We have no excuse to not witness to others, and to even lovingly correct a brother or sister in a fashion of brokenness on our part. 

It is not a joyful thing to make a fellow believer aware of something that is wrong in their life. However, let others say when you are in error and be willing to learn from it.

Every day forces us to make judgments.  The devil has done a good job of telling us to not judge — so good that we will be silent and allow our neighbors, friends, even family members, to head right on to hell's gates without us once opening our mouths in love to warn them and head them away from that awful place. 

We need to be broken enough to realize that Godly judgment from us is designed not to tear down, but to bring life.

If we do our part, then judgment unto salvation, or condemnation, will be issued by God Himself.

Ananias and Sapphira knew the truth of who Christ was. Still, they tried to deceive God. Peter gave them the opportunity for repentance, but they refused.

Ananias and Sapphira died. Peter did not retain their sins; he gave opportunity to them. Their blood is on their own head.

If Peter had not confronted, or judged, them, and made the effort, their blood would be on his head.

Will you retain another's sin by being afraid of how they may perceive you? Or do you love them enough to take that risk that they might be forgiven?  

You and I have a choice: forgive or retain. Which will it be?

Pray about it.

The Rev. Richard Helms serves at Miracle Acres Ministries, 3187 E. James Lee Blvd., Crestview.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: HELMS: Forgive sins or retain them — it's your choice

BONI: Beware of Charleston memes that promote strife

On June 17, a man killed nine people during a Bible study at Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church.    

Dylann Roof, the 21-year-old charged with the crime, reportedly told victims —  including two pastors, a high school track coach and a librarian, among others —  "You rape our women," according to the Washington Post.

Race was a factor in this tragedy, and a national conversation naturally followed.

And memes seized on the situation. Some offered fair, universal sentiments (like "pray for the Emanuel 9"); others just fueled Roof's hate-filled mission.

Edited photos of lawmen escorting Roof — hands out of view — to a police vehicle included the caption, "White privilege is murdering 9 people and then having the police give you a bullet proof vest but not handcuffs." 

More than 23,000 people retweeted the graphic without questioning why no news organizations were reporting on this supposed breach in protocol. 

In fact, Roof was cuffed, but all those tweeters mistook the free arm of another man — standing behind him — as the suspect's.

Another meme showed a photo of the two — white — men escorting a handcuffed Roof to the police vehicle, alongside an image of a white Texas police officer slamming a bikini-clad black teenager to the ground.

The caption: "How police handle a man who just killed 9 people vs. how they handle a teenage girl at a pool party. America."

Yes, the teenage girls were mistreated when police responded earlier this month to a report of fighting at a pool party. But an officer in that incident was the exception, not the rule.

It's unfair to compare the situations.

Roof, from his handcuffs to his bullet-proof vest, was treated per protocol. In America, even murder suspects are treated with dignity; they are given a fair trial and found guilty or not guilty.   On the other hand, the girls were not treated per protocol. There was injustice in that one moment. 

This is why I dislike memes. They're often politically motivated and they spread disinformation to fan the flames.

Going forward, it would be great if we could remember why Roof shot those people, and why any murder occurs: hatred.

And before sharing any meme, it would be great if we could ask, "Does this promote peace or strife?"

What's your view? Write a letter to the editor or tweet News Bulletin Editor Thomas Boni.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: BONI: Beware of Charleston memes that promote strife

DICKSON: I’ll be back soon

I’ll be signing off now for a few weeks. As I mentioned in last week’s column, I’m going in for shoulder surgery Thursday.

I sure didn’t plan on having to do the “How I spent my summer” paper on having shoulder surgery. Believe me, after having had three major surgeries, I don’t look forward to another one, but my left shoulder sounds like someone threw a handful of quarters in the clothes dryer.

If things go smoothly, I’ll be back in the office in about three weeks. I like that timeline because it will give me an opportunity to start preparing for the football season.

Football is never too far from my thoughts this time of year. This is when I like to talk to coaches and get a feel for what they think their team will look like in the fall.

I always try to touch base with Baker School Coach Matt Brunson, Crestview High Coach Tim Hatten and our local middle school coaches, Chris Small (Davidson) Ryan Gillis (Shoal River) and Steve Combest (Baker).

Most of the time, the coaches are cautiously optimistic in what they say or they try not to say too much.

I feel fortunate that I have a good relationship with the coaches. I’m just as comfortable sitting in Tim Hatten or Matt Brunson’s office as I am sitting at my own desk at the News Bulletin office.

That doesn’t mean I know all things Baker Gators or Crestview Bulldogs. I wouldn’t trust a coach who told me everything. A good coach needs to have some secrets from the press so they can catch the opposition at arm’s length.

If I were a coach, I know I wouldn’t tell the newspaper guy too much, no matter how trustworthy they might be.

Football will be on my mind during my recovery. I’ve ordered a biography about Green Bay Packer Hall of Fame quarterback Bart Starr. I can’t wait for it to arrive so I can read about one of my favorite players of all time.

I’ll be catching up on my college football magazines and either celebrating or dreading the upcoming season for my Tennessee Volunteers.

I’m sure I’ll also find time to watch several of the football movies in my personal collection.

While I’m out, News Bulletin Editor Thomas Boni will be able to help you or at least point you in the right direction. E-mail him at tboni@crestviewbulletin.com.

In addition, the staff will regularly check mail for sports@crestviewbulletin.com.

I’ll see you in a few weeks. In the meantime, have a happy and safe Fourth of July.  

EmailNews Bulletin Sports Editor Randy Dickson, follow him on Twitter or call 850-682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: DICKSON: I’ll be back soon

Reflecting on the massacre of the Emanuel 9

Bishop Adam J. Richardson

I have been considering my feelings, as a man, as a black man, a churchman, a Christian, as a leader in the African Methodist Episcopal Church.

Every AME member, especially in the Deep South, is connected with Mother Emanuel Church in Charleston.

So, how do I feel about the ambush, rooted in racism, resulting in the deaths of pastors, preachers and parishioners we actually know?

How do I feel about the senseless, ruthless, premeditated, racially motivated murders of members of our international fellowship?

I feel SAD; it is an acronym I've invented for this moment.

SORROW

I feel a profound sense of sorrow for the slain and for families who must try to pick up the pieces and live on.

I am saddened that a sanctuary — literally a refuge of safety, a house of worship — was violated.

Hatred made an intrusion upon sacred space where every person of faith should feel an atmosphere of safety and solace.

Dylann Roof felt no compunction about methodically unleashing violence as horrific as to defy any semblance of logic, and no regard for the God who was being worshiped and the implications of a faith being studied.

It is presumed that this small band of Christians received and welcomed him, his questions and his presence.

Most of our sanctuaries, till now, have been temples of hope, spiritual discipline and trust.

ANGER

I feel anger that African Americans still must insist on having our humanity respected in a land for which blacks have also suffered, bled and died.

Why can we not have that needful conversation about race in America? It never seems the right time for that conversation in what is alleged to be post-racial America.

I am angered that we do not have the collective will to resolve the matter of gun violence with sensible gun ownership laws affecting all Americans.

Having more guns does not solve our problem; it only exacerbates it, our contemporaneous reality seems to disproportionately affect black Americans.

Virtually every gun-related death that reached the level of public awareness has involved unarmed blacks.

The political reality of our country makes it difficult to address reasonable gun laws.

A misguided man with a brand new gun was a disaster waiting to happen. And it did.

DISMAYED

I am dismayed. This caught all of us off guard. Who could have imagined that such an atrocity would be unleashed on a small group of people practicing their faith?

I think I speak for the members of the AME Church; we are SAD.

Yet, I see a glimmer of hope.

We still affirm that "unmerited suffering is redemptive." Dylann Roof wanted a race war; what actually occurred was an outpouring of love, sympathy and tears from white people, and prayers for him offered by black people.

SOLIDARITY

Our faith will not be stolen, even with violence so heinous as the murder of nine innocent people.

While we are called to a heightened sense of vigilance to protect the lives of those who frequent houses of worship and study, we still encourage ourselves with the exhortation of Jesus, "Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid."

The AME congregations of Florida and the Bahamas offer our combined condolences for our brothers and sisters in South Carolina and the families of the slain at the Mother Emanuel.

We stand in solidarity with our faith partners worldwide, and all persons of goodwill who are grieved by this incredible act of violence.

Bishop Adam J. Richardson is with the African Methodist Episcopal Church's Eleventh Episcopal District.

What's your view? Write a letter to the editor or tweet @cnbeditor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Reflecting on the massacre of the Emanuel 9

State Road 85 traffic shift scheduled

Traffic on State Road 85 North in Okaloosa County will shift at the S.R. 85N/State Road123 intersection the week of June 22.

Northbound traffic will shift onto a new temporary two-lane roadway; southbound traffic will transition to existing northbound lanes. The speed limit will remain 45 mph, so use extra caution when traveling through the construction zone as drivers adjust to the new traffic pattern.

The new traffic signal configuration at the intersection will cycle through red, yellow and green for all traffic. Northbound travelers should prepare to stop as the continuous green, northbound light will no longer exist.

The traffic shift will allow crews to set structural steel beams for the new flyover bridge. As bridge construction progresses, additional traffic shifts will occur.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: State Road 85 traffic shift scheduled

Proposed legislation raises awareness of hot car deaths

First, let me thank you for covering a subject so very important to me: hot car deaths of children.

Second, I need help spreading the word about Cooper's Law, federal legislation I'm working on to protect kids and dogs from hot car death. This is in honor of little Cooper Harris, who died one year ago after being left in his dad's hot car in Georgia.

I am a former friend of his father (who was accused of killing the 22-month-year old after leaving him in a car for four hours) and have created a group dedicated to spreading the word about hot car death as well our work toward federal legislation requiring stiffer uniform nationwide penalties. Currently, 31 states place hot car deaths under abuse laws, and penalties are minimal, even when a child or animal dies.

Just Georgia, Tennessse and North Carolina allow someone to effect a rescue of a child or dog without fear of criminal or civil prosecution, and there is no push for federally mandated car seat alarms.

I hope to find sponsorship for the legislation, as well as creating educational materials to be disseminated in veterinary offices, pediatricians' offices and hospital nurseries. 

Finally, I have paired my small crafts company with the Res-Q-Me company to create the Bunky's Res-Q-Me Window Blaster, which safely cracks a car window's glass and allows a child or dog to be rescued.

It can also be used to save yourself or someone else in the event of an accident in which power door locks and windows become inactive and malfunction.

You can learn more at www.Facebook.com/cooperslaw.

What's your view? Write a letter to the editor or tweet News Bulletin Editor Thomas Boni.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Proposed legislation raises awareness of hot car deaths

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