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Children are always watching, learning from us

Janice Lynn Crose, a former accountant, lives in Crestview with her husband, Jim; her two rescue collies, Shane and Jasmine; and two cats, Kathryn and Prince Valiant.

There appears to be a war on kindness and civility; apparently, being thoughtful and compassionate toward one another has become passé.

The acceptance of violent behavior and coarse words still shocks me, and sometimes children act out in public with no reprimand from their parents.

Are we doing any favor to a generation by allowing them to think the rules of civility no longer apply?

Last week, here in Crestview, a 13-year-old boy was waiting at the bus stop. Apparently two teens drove by and one of them [allegedly] used a gun to shoot the boy.

What does this incident say about our culture? Has human life become so cheap and devalued that kids feel it is acceptable to shoot another person?

I partly blame violent video games and movies. Real life isn't a game and, when the game is over, the person who was shot doesn't get up unharmed and go on their way. There are real consequences to violent actions. Our prayers go with the young man who was shot and we pray for a speedy and complete recovery.

I was taught many good lessons and Bible verses in Sunday school. Two that come to mind are:

•Ephesians 4:32 — "And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you."

•Psalm 139:23 — "Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts."

If we put these verses into practice, our lives and the lives of others we touch would be improved.

Some difficult questions we need to ask follow:

Do we, as parents, practice forgiveness in front of our children?

Are we good role models?

Do we take responsibility for our actions, words and even thoughts?

Do we show genuine remorse when we wrong someone, and seek their forgiveness?

If someone wrongs us, do we forgive the person or look for ways to "get even?"

Remember, our children are always watching us and mimic our behavior.

We, as mature adults, need to model good behavior for our children so that they will grow up to be kind, compassionate and loving members of society.

Janice Lynn Crose, a former accountant, lives in Crestview with her husband, Jim; her two rescue collies, Shane and Jasmine; and two cats, Kathryn and Prince Valiant.

“Has human life become so cheap and devalued that kids feel it is acceptable to shoot another person?”

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Children are always watching, learning from us

New Crestview support group helps sexual assault victims

PATTI ADAMS

Coming to Crestview, Florida in the near future is a support group for sexual assault victims.

Our mission is, “A Christian-based network support group for sexually abused women and men. Our goal is to provide a holistic approach in allowing individuals to live a life of freedom through the word of God.”

Crestview does not currently have any of these resources in our local area. Scars of the Past has a safe meeting place where individuals can meet and become healed from the many internal and external scars from his or her assailant.

The support group is a place where you can share your story confidentially with others who have been through or [are] going through the same thing. You will also have access to a prayer partner who wants the best for you and is willing to intercede on your behalf.

We are a group of people dedicated to your physical, emotional, spiritual and mental well-being.

Here are some of the things you can look forward to when attending a Scars of the Past meeting:

• You will have support dealing with the effects of sexual abuse

• Support connecting you to a local health facility for medical or forensic examinations

• People who can listen and assist you as you walk through the events of what happened

• Local resources for healing and recovery

• Referrals to mental health professionals who will assist you with coping mechanisms and PTSD

• Information regarding victims' rights and compensation

• An advocate or guardian ad litem who will assist you with court proceedings

God has moved in a powerful way and I am excited about the next chapter.

For more information or to obtain the meeting place, time and location, please send your email to: scarsofthepast@scarsofthepast.net or call 850-612-9847.

Many thanks to my board of directors and a host of other anonymous community leaders who have helped with the start-up of this non-profit organization.

Patti Adams founded Scars of the Past, a 501(c)3 non-profit organization. Donations can be made through GoFundMe at https://www.gofundme.com/scars-of-the-past.

“We are a group of people dedicated to your physical, emotional, spiritual and mental well-being.”

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: New Crestview support group helps sexual assault victims

Like everything in Washington, the Justice Department is political

As most assumed, lobbyist and fired Trump campaign chairman Paul Manafort was indicted by Mueller’s Special Counsel investigation.

This indictment had nothing to do with Trump's campaign. The investigation into Russian collusion by Trump has been an expensive, media-encouraged attempt to find some major smoking gun. So far, this “scandal” hasn’t lived up to its hype; it’s the Apple Watch of investigations. 

They were able to get Manafort for whatever they wanted to with all the convoluted laws we have regarding taxes and foreign lobbying. As a famous New York judge once said of grand juries, “Prosecutors could get them to indict a ham sandwich.” If you are a ham sandwich, or a U.S. citizen, that should bother you. 

Manafort’s biggest crime in the partisan swamp of D.C. was being Trump’s campaign manager. 

According to an analysis by The Hill, of the 14 major federal agencies whose employees personally donated to presidential politics, “By the end of September 2016, about $1.9 million, or 95 percent, went to the Democratic nominee’s campaign.” Ninety-four percent of Department of Justice employee donations were to Hillary. If you don’t think legal outcomes are based on biases or payback, ask the O.J. jury. 

The Mueller team is full of Democrat donors. Even according to the hyper-left Washington Post, of the top investigators who donated heavily to Democrats, “James Quarles gave the most political donations out of the four — nearly $33,000 to various Democrats since 1999, Federal Election Commission records show. Recipients included Obama for America, Hillary for America and the Democratic Senatorial Campaign Committee.” 

Like everything in Washington, the Justice Department is political. Its stock answer is, “We will go where the evidence leads us.” But, in a town that voted 90 percent for Hillary, that means, "We will go where we want the evidence to lead us, and leak it if it doesn’t." Not surprisingly, the judge in the Manafort case is an Obama appointee. 

The way the deep state "swamp dwellers" in Washington are now, Democrats really want this investigation to impeach Trump, and Republicans are secretly hoping it will. It’s not a fair fight. We all know Trump often exchanges bravado for facts. He is probably also under investigation for something. I say this because he has tweeted that he is “NOT under investigation.” 

The reality is that, if you give the ex-FBI chief $10 million, a big Democrat donor staff, and all our laws-layered-upon-laws in America, they will get 90 percent of us if they want to. It is like a policeman tailing your car for 1,000 miles: He will eventually find a reason to arrest you. But what should worry us all, Democrats included, is the question: Is this the legal system we want, one that indicts out of political vengeance?  

I think Manafort probably did some slippery things; in that business, most do, including Hillary’s besties, the Brothers Podesta. You start lobbying for foreign governments, wiring money, etc., and you can be indicted on a whole long list of U.S. laws. I predict this episode unveils further the seedy role lobbyists play in running D.C. and will strengthen Trump.

Swamp dwellers in D.C. like Manafort and Podesta didn’t invent crime; they just improved on it. 

But if the crimes Manafort has been indicted for date back to 2006, why did DOJ not get him then? That is the real question. And an armed, pre-dawn raid of his home for a non-violent investigation should make us all scared of government.  

With all the problems in America, we continue to prosecute and incarcerate more citizens than the rest of the world. We are 4.4 percent of the world's population and we have 22 percent of the world’s prisoners. If you give government this many agencies, money, and vast and unaccountable powers, more of us will be arrested. Neither Hillary nor any political enemy needs to be harassed as a blood sport by this government morass. 

By weaponizing criminal law for political gain, this “special counsel” is about to spend $20 million to indict some guys who really harmed no one. It is no surprise we have a huge budget deficit with all this waste and just had to do a budget deal to avoid another “fiscal cliff.” When lawmakers go over the next fiscal cliff, I hope the tide is out. 

Even liberal lawyer Alan Dershowitz says, “Criminalizing political differences hurts democracy.” And GOP congressmen are mute as this governmental blunt object is swung. We must stand up to politically motivated prosecutions. Should America die next week, the police investigation would say there were no signs of struggle. 

Ron Hart is a libertarian op-ed humorist and award-winning author. Contact him at Ron@RonaldHart.com or @RonaldHart on Twitter.

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This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Like everything in Washington, the Justice Department is political

How to know if you are alive

In an age when so many people spend so much time sitting or who are doing nothing, let's celebrate the people who are doing something. Celebrate their living.

I've always been blessed with energy. Energy is a good asset. As a young adult growing up I wanted to be in the middle of whatever was going on. I always enjoyed playing sports, swimming in the lake or creek, riding a bicycle for miles or being in the middle of the dance floor. I've always enjoyed movement. [Conversely], I can sit for three hours and read, meditate and write and actually tremendously enjoy it. There is something beautiful about life between two and five o'clock in the morning when you can be more creative than you've ever imagined. Try it sometime. It's quiet and you can hear God a little better.

I grew up in an era when old-time ministers preached against going to movies, rock and roll, dancing and of course smoking and drinking and gambling. I never wanted to smoke, drink or gamble but I loved movies, music and dancing. I was sad this when I learned Fats Domino had died at the age of 89. My brother brought one of his albums home from college when I was a kid. We had an old stereo and I would dance through that album, all twelve songs, at least three times in a row.

Would we not all wish for people to be out dancing and doing something physically active?  This would be better than sitting in the house staring at cell phones, computers and televisions or sitting around gossiping about others.

There is a point to this column and the point is do not let other people stop you from activity. Be active in life. Be out and about. Be doing something.

Applaud yourself and others if you have the emotional and physical wherewithal to jump up from your chair and go to work, sing, dance, mow the yard, chop down a tree, jog down the road, preach a 30-minute sermon, golf or fish all day, write a book, paint a picture, wash down the house, start a new venture — but rejoice for activity and feeling like you want to live.

It's a sign that you are really alive! Enjoy and live it!

Glenn Mollette is an American syndicated columnist and author.

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This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: How to know if you are alive

Church is not safe anymore

Our hearts go out to the people of Sutherland Springs, Texas. The First Baptist Church of this town and the entire community was ambushed in what resulted as the worst mass shooting in Texas history.

Twenty-six people are dead and many others are currently fighting for their lives in intensive care. This is heart crushing for this Texas community, and all of America, as we must conclude no place is safe in America anymore.

My hometown church in Inez, Kentucky kept the backdoor of the church unlocked during most of my high school years. The church was a place where anyone could enter and pray, and seek refuge from the problems of the world.

A little Catholic church around the corner from where I once lived in Louisa, Kentucky kept the front door unlocked the entire time I lived there. My sons and I went in there a couple of times to just be quiet, think and pray.

While growing up as a kid, my family attended different churches and there was never a thought of anything being unsafe about our worship.

Times have changed.

Sutherland Springs, Texas again reminds us that evil is everywhere and no place is perfectly safe.  Worshippers in this quiet Texas town gathered to sing, pray and hear a good sermon Sunday. They never dreamed their lives would end in church at the hands of sick and evil gunman. We don't know his motive for sure but it seems to me based on various reports that Devin Patrick Kelley was there to kill his in-laws.

Kelley's past was filled with troubles that included domestic abuse and a dishonorable discharge from the military. Unfortunately, Kelley needed mental help that might have saved 26 lives and carnage that this Texas community will never overcome.

Too bad a good deacon in the foyer or vestibule area of the church did not shoot Patrick Kelley dead. I know my good moderate Christian friends frown on me for this line of thinking. However, maybe several lives could have been saved if the church had a game plan for reacting to terrorism.

This has been a hard concept for my religious friends to embrace. Many have ignored the times of this world and simply sloughed it off. Some have said, "God will take care of us." Others want to brush off today's crisis with, "Something like that would never happen here."

Wake up, reader. Bad stuff happens everywhere. This is our world. Walkers on a bike path in New York City are not safe. Concertgoers in Las Vegas are not safe. People shopping in Colorado are not safe. Moviegoers and schoolchildren are not safe. Quaint café wine drinkers on sidewalks in peaceful neighborhoods in Paris, France are not safe. Busy people trying to earn a living in prestigious skyscrapers are not safe.

We are all vulnerable. If we do not take a position of defense, we are more vulnerable. People sitting in churches, concerts, movies and many other places are in danger of being attacked by surprise. It's very difficult to survive an ambush. This is why there must be a defense plan in place for all churches, civic groups, businesses, factory work places, offices and families.

When I was child, I remember when my mother started locking the front door. We had not always locked the front door but my mother had heard about people walking our road late at night and decided it was time to do so. We also had shotguns.

Today, of course, people with common sense lock their doors.   

America has changed. We still have a great country. I love America. America mostly has good and decent people.  Sadly, there are Devin Patrick Kelleys scattered throughout our country. There may be one in your state or even your community. You have to be ready to confront him or them.

By the way, Kelley was denied a gun permit. He still managed to obtain guns. Evil people will find ways to rent trucks, obtain guns, knives or make bombs. Please think about this and live — and, sadly now, worship — defensively. Even church is not safe anymore.

Glenn Mollette is an American syndicated columnist and author.

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"Too bad a good deacon in the foyer or vestibule area of the church did not shoot [Devin] Patrick Kelley dead. I know my good moderate Christian friends frown on me for this line of thinking. However, maybe several lives could have been saved if the church had a game plan for reacting to terrorism."

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Church is not safe anymore

Rest to avoid straying

I continue with a brief look at one way you can get into proper perspective the matters in your life through brief reflections on Psalm 23.

The second half of verse 3 says, "He guides me along right paths, bringing honor to his name."

I have talked about how God wants you to rest your body and mind. One main reason for this is because when a person becomes over-tired, over-anxious, overwhelmed, it is much easier to be led astray.

People lose their focus on what truly needs to be done. Mistakes can easily be made, beliefs can become compromised, other sources of comfort or guidance can be pursued – most of which are detrimental.

But when you feed on our Lord’s word, when you drink in his righteousness, when you make the time to let him strengthen you, you become renewed in him, and follow where God leads.

God will always lead and guide you in the right direction in life. He will always help you make the best decisions. He will always give you the right words to say in any situation. All you need to do is remain focused on what, and where, God is leading.

How many times have you been confronted by a difficult situation or a challenging person and said or did what seemed to be the perfect response? It happens. Did you then walk away asking yourself, “Where did that come from?” God gave you the proper words and actions at that moment. And because of that, you gave honor to him because you followed what God gave you.

Each time you do the right and proper thing, you give honor to God’s name. Each time you offer proper and constructive guidance, you bring honor to God’s name. Each time you bite your tongue instead of passing on rumors, or unkind words, or spiteful rhetoric you give honor to God’s name.

As Jesus said in his parable, “Whenever you did these things to the least of these my children, you did it to me.”

Be sure to keep focused on God, follow as he leads you along right paths, and give honor to his name.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is pastor at Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Rest to avoid straying

An apology — and an invitation to give

Doris and Gary Johnson will be accepting donations for Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners. [FILE PHOTO | NEWS BULLETIN]

This is an open apology to the Crestview News Bulletin, the [Northwest Florida] Daily News, and to all businesses and citizens in Okaloosa County and in surrounding areas.

As you know, over a year ago I made a big mistake trying to help someone whom I thought was a friend that turned out to be a snake in the grass. Because of that, my organization [the Brotherhood of Love] suffered a lot of hurt and pain. A lot of people that trusted and believed in me suffered too.

At that time, I said to myself that I wasn't going to care for anyone else or to help anyone else. But in the last year and a couple months, I have received a lot of phone calls and a lot of people knocking on my door asking for help.

That let me know that a lot of people still believe in what I was doing: to help people with food, clothes and anything to assist them in their day-to-day needs so that they can move forward and progress in life.

Now that I know what I did was wrong, I've asked God to forgive me and to give me another chance to prove myself. So, I'm asking the news media and all businesses and citizens to forgive me for the mistake I made. But remember, we are all human. Don't let one mistake cause others to hurt and suffer.

I am very sorry for my mistake. I've made an error and see my mistake and I will try not to let something like this happen ever again. I've seen and realized a new way of doing things. It's a new time, a new day, and a new way.

You will not hear the name of The Brotherhood of Love again. It's gone in the past. Let the past be buried and move forward to a new future. The name of the new organization is The New Way of Life Outreach Ministry, always giving a helping hand, and to God be the glory.

We are now preparing for our Thanksgiving events and our Christmas donations. We are in a new location at 398 N. Spring St., in Crestview.

We are now accepting donations of food, toys, clothes, furniture, appliances, monetary donations, and anything that God puts in your heart to give. We are going to try to do what we can to make a change come about.

There are so many kids and teenagers that we are losing to the streets, drugs, the gang-related shootings; young girls in prostitution, fathers against sons, and mothers against daughters. When will this stop or how long will we let this go on?

This is not just for the citizens and businesses in Okaloosa County. It's for anyone that wants to take part and help a worthy cause.

Call me, Gary Johnson, or my wife, Doris, at 229-379-1741 or 850-398-0431, for more information.

Thank you very much in advance and may God bless you during the holidays.

Sincerely,

Gary Johnson

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: An apology — and an invitation to give

Retirement plan withdrawals — what you should know

Yvonne Shanklin is an Edward Jones financial adviser. [Special to the News Bulletin]

You may spend decades contributing to your IRA and 401(k). But, eventually, you'll need to use this money. Before that day arrives, you'll want to be familiar with the rules governing withdrawals — and you'll want to know just how much you should take out.

To begin with, withdrawals from traditional employer-sponsored retirement plans like these fall under the Internal Revenue Service's "required minimum distributions" (RMD) guidelines. (You aren't required to take these distributions from a Roth IRA.) Here are some of the key RMD points to keep in mind:

•You need to take distributions by age 70½. You generally should begin taking RMDs in the year in which you turn 70½. If you don't take your first RMD during that year, you must take it no later than April 1 of the following year. If you do put it off until April 1, you must take two distributions in one year.

If you don't take your RMDs on time, you may have to pay the IRS a 50 percent penalty tax on the taxable portion of your uncollected distribution — so make sure you know your dates.

•You can take more than the minimum. You can withdraw more than the RMD, but, as the word "required" suggests, you can't withdraw less.

•You may be able to delay RMDs in an employer's retirement plan if you're still working. If your employer's retirement plan permits it, you may not have to take RMDs if you are still working and you are 70-1/2 or older. However, this exception won't apply if you own 5 percent or more of your company.

To determine your RMD, you'll need to use either the Uniform Lifetime Table, which is based on your life expectancy, or the Joint Life Table, if you have a spouse who is the sole beneficiary and who is more than 10 years younger. Your tax advisor can help you make this selection.

So, now that you know the basic rules of RMDs, you'll need to consider their impact on your retirement income. As mentioned above, you can certainly take out more than the RMD, but should you? If you need the extra money, then you'll have to take it. However, when determining how much you should take beyond your RMDs, you'll need to weigh some other factors.

For one thing, if you can delay taking Social Security, you'll get bigger checks, so you might be able to lower the amounts you take from your 401(k) and IRA. Another factor to consider is the size and composition of your investment portfolio held outside your retirement accounts.

If you have a sizable amount of investments, with some of them providing regular income, you may be able to afford to take out only your RMDs, or perhaps just slightly more. On the other hand, if your 401(k) and IRA make up the vast majority of your investment holdings, you might need to rely on them much more heavily.

In any case, though, you will need to establish an appropriate withdrawal rate for all your investments to ensure you won't outlive your money. A financial professional can help you calculate this rate.

Do whatever it takes to maximize your benefits from your IRA and 401(k). They're valuable assets — so use them wisely.

This article was written by Edward Jones on behalf of your Edward Jones financial adviser.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Retirement plan withdrawals — what you should know

Fix traffic, lure more businesses

I would like to see more variety in our Crestview restaurants. Competition spurs quality, and having more competition would continue to ensure high-quality food and more choices for local diners.

There appears to be a need for independent and chain restaurants, both of which have advantages. For instance, an independent restaurant has the freedom to have a true "chef's special" as well as try out new recipes and see how their patrons respond. A chain has the ability to buy in bulk and get lower prices for their products, which may in turn lower the cost to their customers. It seems to me that we could use both types of restaurants in our town.

Several of my friends prefer independent restaurants because they like to help out small businesses, but one thing to keep in mind is that a franchise is also a small business.

I think the Wild Olive has consistently delicious food and I am always happy to dine there as I know I will have an outstanding meal. I was pleased that Mia's Italian Restaurant has re-opened and David's Catfish House is a favorite.

Our family enjoys Cracker Barrel, as they serve good food and a portion that is enough to satisfy most appetites. One also knows what to expect from Waffle House, Applebee's, Panera Bread, McAlister's Deli, and so on.

All of the restaurants in our town help our local economy by providing jobs and revenue, so we need to patronize our local restaurants and not drive to Destin or Fort Walton Beach. One way this could be accomplished is with additional restaurants such as Longhorn Steakhouse, Olive Garden, Red Lobster, as well as additional independent restaurants.

In order to attract new restaurants and other businesses, Crestview needs to work on the infrastructure. Not many investors will want to open a new business and have potential customers frustrated because of the traffic.

So, let's get to work and get our traffic snarls straightened out, then we can look forward to new restaurants and businesses. By having more of a variety of restaurants here in town, we won't have the need to drive out of town for an enjoyable night out.

Janice Lynn Crose, a former accountant, lives in Crestview with her husband, Jim; her two rescue collies, Shane and Jasmine; and two cats, Kathryn and Prince Valiant.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Fix traffic, lure more businesses

Pumpkin spice fans, try these healthy recipes

For some people, it is their favorite time of year — and I don’t mean because of Thanksgiving, Christmas or any other holiday.

It is “Pumpkin Spice Season”! That delicious time of year that pumpkin ice cream, baked goods, pies, coffees and breads make their appearance.

As delicious as they are, those sugar-filled, pumpkin flavored goodies can really help pack on the pounds. Added weight means more stress on your body, which ultimately could lead to diseases like heart attack, stroke and diabetes. Don’t get me wrong, a few treats here and there on special occasions are definitely OK, it is just that it is very important to make sure these do not become every day indulgences.

"Isn’t pumpkin healthy for you?" you may ask. Well, yes, of course it is. Pumpkin is a vegetable that is low in fat and loaded with Vitamin A. Vitamin A is used by your body to maintain vision, healthy skin and more.

Instead of eating a pumpkin treat filled with fat and sugar, try one of these recipes from the "What’s Cooking: USDA Mixing Bowl" instead.

Pumpkin Smoothie

Makes: 6 servings

This is a refreshing smoothie recipe that uses low-sodium canned pumpkin and ripe bananas.

Ingredients

  • 1 can low-sodium pumpkin (chilled, about 15 ounces)
  • 1 can evaporated low-fat milk (chilled, 12 ounces)
  • 1 1/2 cups orange juice
  • 1 banana (small, sliced)
  • 1/3 cup light brown sugar (packed, or 1/3 cup regular sugar)
  • 2 dozen ice cubes (if you like)
  • 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon (if you like)

Directions

1. Place pumpkin, evaporated milk, orange juice, banana and sugar in blender.

2. Cover and blend until smooth.

3. If using ice, pour mixture over ice. If using cinnamon, add that, too.

Source: Recipe provided by Verybestbaking.com.

Cranberry Pumpkin Muffins

Makes: 12 servings

Enjoy these delicious muffins for breakfast any time of the year using canned pumpkin and frozen cranberries.

Ingredients

  • 2 cups flour
  • 3/4 cup sugar
  • 3 teaspoons baking powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
  • 3/4 teaspoon allspice
  • 1/3 cup vegetable oil
  • 2 eggs, large
  • 3/4 cup pumpkin (canned)
  • 2 cups cranberries (fresh or frozen chopped)

Directions

1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees.

2. Sift together dry ingredients (flour through allspice) and set aside.

3. Beat oil, eggs, and pumpkin together until well blended.

4. Add the wet ingredients (pumpkin mixture) to the dry ingredients all at once. Stir until moistened.

5. Fold in chopped cranberries.

6. Spoon into paper lined muffin cups.

7. Bake at 400 degrees for 15 to 30 minutes.

Source: University of Massachusetts, Extension Nutrition Education Program, Pumpkin Post/Banana Beat

Jill Breslawski is an agent at the University of Florida's Institute of Food and Agricultural Sciences Extension office in Crestview.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Pumpkin spice fans, try these healthy recipes

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