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FROM THE PULPIT: Make your church a safe haven

Someone once said, “The church would be a great place if it weren’t for all the people.”

Do you ever think that?

When an acquaintance invites you to attend church, you probably expect a warm welcome. Smiles and handshakes are shared. Hugs are given if you are open to such a greeting.

But how long does that warm feeling last? For some, it lasts a lifetime. For others, it wears off faster, and that moment causes great disappointment.

Often, the feeling wears off when Christians' faults show through. You see, many people mistakenly assume Christians are perfect, and they become bewildered when that illusion is shattered. Hope is sometimes lost by thinking, “If that person isn’t without faults, there is no hope for me.”

I was once asked, “If you could change something about most churches around the country, what would it be?” Near the top of the list was the desire to have each church  become the safest place.

I am referring to the kind of safety that comes with being accepted as a child of God without fear of being mistreated, or talked about poorly, or judged. The safest place on Earth allows people to raise doubts and questions and be aided in finding answers. Differing opinions are welcomed and understood to be growing points. Each person knows it is OK to agree to disagree and still remain together.

The safest place on Earth is a haven amid absolute insanities plaguing our society, so all could become strengthened emotionally and spiritually for the constant onslaught.

Is this a pipe dream?

I don’t believe so. By removing our pride and ego from the center of our lives and replacing it with Jesus Christ's teachings and healings, it can happen. It will happen.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: Make your church a safe haven

FROM THE PULPIT: Great beauty may conceal great danger

As I write this, the remnants of the “ice storm of the decade” are slowly melting away. A few thoughts have gone through my mind regarding this event.

Ice storms come with their own unique beauty. As rain falls on everything and then freezes, the world is coated in clear, glimmering ice. It turns the world into a beautiful scene.

There were plenty of pictures on Facebook and in newspapers showing how the world was transformed — icicles hanging from the eaves of homes and vehicles. Flowers and trees coated in a veneer of crystal. Yards and rooftops colored white.

There were people – adults and children alike – who thrilled at playing outdoors. It was a rare treat to be able to grab a plastic clothes basket or a sheet of cardboard to slide down a hill at a park, or down the incline of a closed roadway. It was a delight for children to make small icemen (as compared to snowmen) for the first time in their lives.

There was something unifying about this rare event. Neighbors, usually just nodding acquaintances, were out talking together while marveling at this winter wonderland; their children played together; and they, themselves, allowed for a little child-like enjoyment.

How wonderful! It seems as though getting together like that should be the norm and not the exception – to be together enjoying life.

On another note, there was also great danger in that beauty! The weight of the ice broke limbs from, and even toppled entire trees. Walkways became slippery, causing people to slip and fall — sometimes with devastating consequences to arms and legs. Roads became skating rinks, causing drivers to lose control of their vehicles and helplessly crash into other vehicles or stationary objects.

There was great danger in the visual beauty. It's sort of like temptation, isn’t it? Something looks very appealing. The attraction can be so strong that all that can be seen is what is in front of us. But then, when we succumb to that temptation, the results are devastating. Life as we knew it becomes broken. It sometimes falls apart. And we crash headlong into distressing consequences.

The best way to keep from danger like that is to remain safely away from it, knowing that if you get drawn into it, you may rue the day you gave in.

My final observation is this. It was very, very cold outside. Spending even a short time outdoors caused numbness in fingers and toes, made eyes water and noses run. It was a welcome relief to return indoors to feel the warmth penetrate and rejuvenate the body.

The presence of Jesus Christ in a person’s heart does the same thing. Remembering Christ is the center of your heart after being out in the world dealing with cold, harsh realities warms your heart and soul, bringing a rejuvenating warmth and comfort. His grace, presence, strength, mercy, and love radiate outward to every portion of your being to remind you that you are never alone, that you are loved, that you are precious in his sight.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: Great beauty may conceal great danger

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: A super celebration of American sport

Any football fan can tell you the year's biggest game, the Super Bowl, will be played Sunday.

This is the 48th edition of the game that has become America's biggest sporting event. Forget the Daytona 500, The Masters, the World Series or college basketball's Final Four — nothing compares to the Super Bowl.

At 55, I'm old enough to remember the first Super Bowl, which was played Jan. 15, 1967 in Los Angeles between the Kansas City Chiefs and Green Bay Packers. I was 8 years old at the time. The Packers won that game that was simply known as the AFL-NFL Championship Game.

By the time the New York Jets beat the Baltimore Colts in the third championship game, the title Super Bowl had been attached to the game and a piece of Americana had been born.

I was more interested in playing and doing things boys do than watching those early Super Bowls. I remember watching few minutes of the games before running outside to play with my friends.

I guess you could say I grew up with the Super Bowl and as both the big game and I grew my interest and love for the game increased. By the time I was in middle school the game was a must see event, and I've rarely missed watching the game since.

I have watched the Super Bowl from the lobby of my college dorm and the comfort of my own living room.

My church in Knoxville would have Super Bowl parties after the Sunday evening service. One member would tape the game while the service was being held and afterwards everyone would gather in the Fellowship Hall to watch the replay until we caught the game in real time. I loved those Sunday evenings with friends.

The 1984 Super Bowl is one I barely remember, but will never forget. I was working as an assistant manager at a McDonalds in Tifton, Ga., that year when the Saturday before the game a crew member came in and I jokingly told her I was going to call in sick the next day because she was working.

I woke up that next morning three kinds of sick to my stomach. And yes, I had to call in sick on Super Bowl Sunday.

My favorite Super Bowl was Super Bowl 44 or, if you are into the Roman numerals, Super Bowl XLIV. The New Orleans Saints, a team I've pulled for since they first came into the National Football League, won that game over the Indianapolis Colts, led by my favorite player, Peyton Manning.

Manning will be back in the field Sunday to lead the Denver Broncos against the Seattle Seahawks and I'll be pulling for Denver. I will be watch Seattle wide receiver Doug Baldwin closely as he played his high school football at Gulf Breeze and becomes the second player from my alma mater to make the big game.

The Super Bowl turns 50 two years from now and I'm not a kid any more. These days when I get my hair cut there is my grey hair on the floor than the brown hair it used to be.

Yes, I'm getting older, but the Super Bowl seems to be getting better. The players in this year's game are young enough to be my sons and it won't be too many more years until they'll be young enough to be my grandsons.

I'll be watching the big game Sunday as I have for so many years. Yes, the Super Bowl has be woven into the fabric of our nation and into the fabric of my life as well.

Randy Dickson is the Crestview News Bulletin’s sports editor. Send him an email, tweet him @BigRandle, or call 682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: A super celebration of American sport

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Wanted: recreational league news, announcements

Once or twice a year, I make an impassioned plea for readers' help to make this a better sports section.

Those are not empty words. I just can't be everywhere at once or, for that matter, be everywhere I want to be or need to be.

I often look at a schedule that has multiple games on the same night and have to decide which game I should cover. Often, the decision is difficult, but I make it and move on.

During the school year, I do my best to cover as many high school games as possible. Most weeks, I cover four games and occasionally I'll cover five or six games during tournament time. I don't mind rearranging my schedule to attend a college signing ceremony or some other special event.

We at the News Bulletin want to increase our coverage of local youth and recreational leagues. This is a community newspaper, after all, and we realize high school sports are only one part of the community sports scene.

Unfortunately, I'm not able to cover youth league games, as there are dozens being played on any given evening. But with the help of a network of coaches, parents and league administrators, we can give our children and adult recreation league warriors the spotlight they deserve.

One of the most famous movie lines of all time simply says, "If you build it, he will come." That line, of course, is to persuade Ray Kinsella to build a baseball diamond in an Iowa cornfield in "Field of Dreams."

To paraphrase that line, "If you submit it, it will appear in the paper."

OK, so it doesn't have the same zip as a mysterious voice in a cornfield, but we are serious about creating space for our local youth and adult recreational leagues.

If your league or team as a Facebook page or website that has updated information you would permit us to use, we would welcome and appreciate that opportunity.

In the coming weeks, we hope to expand our sports section to include more submitted material from our local leagues, but we can't do it without your help.

If you are an administrator, coach or parent of one of our youth leagues' teams or someone associated with an adult league who can help, please email me. Thanks for your help.

Email News Bulletin Sports Editor Randy Dickson, follow him on Twitter or call 850-682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Wanted: recreational league news, announcements

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Good sportsmanship needed at all levels

At every district tournament or Florida High School Athletic Association-sanctioned state playoff game, an announcement is made to let good sportsmanship show.

It's too bad that announcement isn't made at regular-season games.

Sportsmanship takes on many forms including fans' reactions, officials' calls, the way coaches coach a game and players play a game, and how  players treat their opponents.

I was watching the National Football League playoff game between the San Francisco 49ers and Carolina Panthers on Sunday when 49er quarterback Colin Kaepernick mocked Carolina quarterback Cam Newton's touchdown celebration.

Any chances there were of me pulling for the 49ers in this week's game against Seattle went out the window with Kaepernick's classless gesture.

I love the attitude of Emmitt Smith, the NFL's all-time leader in rushing yards and rushing touchdowns. Smith, who scored 164 rushing touchdowns and another 11 receiving TDs, said, "Act like you've been there (in the end zone) before."

Smith never spiked the ball or did a fancy dance after a score. He simply handed the ball to the official and celebrated his score with his teammates.

It's a good example for our local teams. I witnessed a couple of unsportsmanlike incidents this past week. Each involved teams from Chipley High School.

The first incident occurred Tuesday night when Chipley's boys basketball team played at Crestview.

The Tigers led Crestview by 11 points with four seconds left in the game. Rather than let the clock run out, Chipley Coach Joel Orlando called a timeout, seemingly to set up one more scoring play at a point when the game had already been won.

Calling a timeout when you have the game well in hand is, in my opinion, poor sportsmanship.

Chipley's boys don't have a corner on poor sportsmanship.

Friday night, Chipley's girls traveled to Baker in a District 3-1A game. The Tigers led Baker 37-11 at the start of the second half and quickly scored the nine points needed to push the lead to 35 points and start the running clock.

Even with the game in hand and the clock running, Chipley Coach Kimberly Tuel continued to have the Tigers push the action against the outmanned Gators.

Running up the score on an outmanned opponent should be considered unsportsmanlike in anyone's book.

Many fans and coaches would argue that they aren't responsible for the other team's inability to score or to keep their team from scoring. The coach might say his or her job is to prepare the team to play and the opposing coach's job is to stop them.

That argument is good at college or professional levels, where teams are supposed to play on a more level playing field. But a high school coach is stuck with the talent on campus unless he or she recruits and breaks the rules.

No high school team will win a state championship by running up the score against an overmatched opponent. Good teams will win their playoff games and march to the state finals.

At the end, it only matters if you win, not by how many points you win.

One of the things I've always admired about Baker School football Coach Matt Brunson is his willingness to take his foot off the gas when a game's in hand.

Yes, Brunson-coached teams have won games by big margins and with a running clock, but it's not because he intentionally ran up the score for the sake of beating a team into submission.

Matt Brunson knows the importance of sportsmanship — and it shows.

I can think of some coaches who could learn a thing or two about sportsmanship from Matt.

Randy Dickson is the Crestview News Bulletin’s sports editor. Email him at randyd@crestviewbulletin.com, tweet him @BigRandle, or call 682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Good sportsmanship needed at all levels

FROM THE PULPIT: You're not a god; there's only one God

A pastor teaching an adult class at Sunday school selected a middle-aged couple to act out the Old Testament's burning bush scene. The husband was asked to supply the voice for God; his wife would read Moses’ lines.

All went well until they got to verse 15. The wife, as Moses, read the wrong line: “Say to the Israelites, ‘The Lord, the God of your fathers…’” she said.

The pastor interrupted her. “Wait a minute. You’re not God.”

Without missing a beat, her husband said, “I’ve been trying to tell her that for 18 years.”

I wonder how many of us — consciously or unconsciously — think we are God. Do we place ourselves above others? Do we make decisions without concern for consequences? Do we expect everyone to bend to and obey our every whim

Society teaches us to care only for ourselves, so many people believe they deserve the best in life, that they are entitled to have all desires met. They fall into a form of self-worship, expecting others to extol the ground they walk on.

We have been created with the need and desire to worship. But we should worship only God; not the pastor, not the worship leader, not the choir director, and not the untold other events, places, people or possessions that possess us.

The sanctuary is a place consecrated to the worship of God and a place for refuge and protection. It is a safe harbor in life's storms; where Christians can weep together, laugh together, celebrate together, free from fear and full of acceptance. It is holy ground.

Remember that because God is present. No matter where you are or what you are doing, you are always on holy ground.

Everything you do, say and think can be done as an act of worship in God’s presence.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: You're not a god; there's only one God

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Winter no time for outdoor sports

By nature, I enjoy cold weather. While my coworkers bundle up at the thought of a 45-degree day, I walk around in a short-sleeve shirt basking in brisk winds that bring me to life.

Only when temperatures dip below 35 do I consider things to be cooling down. And, even I have to admit, a windy 25 or 30 degrees here in Okaloosa County at least feels cold.

We will have plenty of those cold days the next couple of months, and some of the cold will linger into mid-March and perhaps as long as early April.

As much as I enjoy the cooler weather, it can become a problem this time of year.

Soccer season continues into February. As the soccer season wraps up, softball, baseball, tennis and track will get started.

The first day for softball practice was Monday. Baseball practice starts next Monday. Softball preseason games can be played beginning Jan. 27, and regular-season games start Feb. 3.

Baseball teams can play preseason games Feb. 3 and start the regular season Feb. 10.

In other words, half the softball and baseball seasons will be played in the winter.

Now, I'm a baseball guy. Baseball and football are my two favorite sports. I'd be as happy as a termite in a lumber yard if the only two sports I ever had to cover were baseball and football.

But something's just not right about covering a baseball game in February when I can't grip a pencil to take my game notes because my hands are numb from the cold.

The scheduling of Florida's sports seasons is heavily influenced by the state's large metropolitan areas, which, except for Jacksonville, tend to be in the state's central and southern regions.

On any given winter night, Okaloosa County's temperatures typically run 15-20 degrees cooler than in other parts of the state. At times, those temperature differences can be more than 40 degrees. Factoring wind chill and humidity in the equation can drive down how cold it feels by several more degrees.

Cold weather can be more than just an inconvenience for players and fans. Athletes have greater risk of injury in colder conditions when it is more difficult for them to stretch and warm up or stay warm.

Looking on the bright side of things, kids, even here in Northwest Florida, are throwing baseballs and softballs in January, February and March. Their counterparts in northern states are having snowball fights as they wait for the first signs of spring.

In a perfect world, so-called spring sports wouldn't actually start until spring in late March. But the academic calendar often conflicts with the seasonal calendar, and we are forced to make do with what we have.

So if you plan on watching a game on a cold winter night, make sure you bundle up and bring a thermos of your favorite hot beverage.

You'll be glad you did.

Randy Dickson is the Crestview News Bulletin’s sports editor. Email him at randyd@crestviewbulletin.com, tweet him @BigRandle, or call 682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Winter no time for outdoor sports

FROM THE PULPIT: Failing allows us to grow stronger in our faith

We are now one week into the new year. How well have you done with your New Year's resolutions? So far, so good?

Or have guilty feelings crept in because some promises fell by the wayside?

If I may boast, I have stuck to each and every one of mine. That's because I did not make any New Year's resolutions; therefore, I have none to keep.

It is easy to stick to something you haven’t promised to do.

If you didn’t promise to lose the 10 pounds gained over the holidays, there's no guilt when it doesn’t happen — and only joy if it does.

If you didn't promise to exercise every morning, there's no guilt when you roll out of bed, read the paper and head to the day's events — but it's great if you take the stairs or find other ways to be more active.

Promises not made cannot be broken. But a life without goals or aims can become rather boring and stagnant. The human mind and body need something new for which to strive. Without such a thing, one, or both, will cease to work properly.

The same is true with our faith. Christians have promised to make Jesus Christ the center of our lives. Sometimes, that is just plain hard to remember — especially when difficulties and challenges rear their ugly heads. When we realize we have neglected Him, guilt can come flooding in.

But remember this: Christians are imperfect, but we are forgiven. God knows we will fail Him periodically. God knows we may break our promises to Him once in a while. It happens to the best of us.

And yet, God forgives our failings. He graciously lets us fail on our own so we learn to rely on Him more fully. He lets us learn from our mistakes.

As He does, we grow stronger in our faith.

Sounds like a contradiction, doesn’t it? Failure brings strength. The truth is, it does.

So if you have not kept your New Year's resolutions, that’s OK. Don’t give up on them. Start over. Learn from what caused you to not keep them and don’t repeat the pattern.

If you've broken a promise you made to God, ask God’s forgiveness, learn what caused you to break those promises, pick up the pieces, start again and do your best to not repeat the harmful pattern.

God understands, and continues to walk beside you every step of the way.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: Failing allows us to grow stronger in our faith

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Bold predictions for the new year

I love New Year's Day. There's just something fresh and exciting about the clean slate of 365 days that await us.

Yes, this time of the year is filled with more football than the most avid fan can digest, but that's OK.

And the year ahead offers so much more than football.

Since I ranked the area's top sports stories of 2013 in Saturday's edition, it seems only natural that I look ahead on this, the first day of 2014. I have no idea what the new year holds, here are some guesses:

•The Seminoles will win 42-31 in the National Championship football game between Auburn and Florida State.

This is a tough one because it involves my two favorite teams not located in Knoxville, Tenn. That said, I like Auburn's running game, but I think FSU has too many offensive weapons for the Tiger defense to contain.

•Laurel Hill will bring home a title in the District 1-1A championship. Although Laurel Hill boys lost their recent game at Paxton, I see many good things happening in basketball.

•The Bulldog basketball teams will make the playoffs.

I think Crestview's boys have a chance to be mighty good as well. Bulldog guard Ronnie Baylark might just be the best player across Santa Rosa, Okaloosa and Walton counties. With Baylark leading the charge, and strong play all the way around, look for the Bulldogs to make the playoffs.

Crestview's girls basketball team is an interesting mix of youth and a few veterans. The Bulldogs have lost some close games and should improve enough to make some noise in the district tournament.

•In track, Crestview freshman KK McTear will be one of the area's top female sprinters.

I base my prediction, in part, on McTear's quickness on the basketball court. I'm also considering her family history of great sprinters; that legacy includes an uncle, Houston McTear, co-world record holder in the 100-yard dash.

•Laurel Hill's baseball team will struggle this year. I don't think the Hoboes have enough pitching to survive the district schedule.

•Laurel Hill will improve in softball, but the Hoboes will finish out of the running for the playoffs.

A new District 1-7A has Crestview up against Fort Walton Beach, Niceville, Navarre and Tate.

The Bulldog baseball team lost many players to graduation, but coach Tim Gillis should have Crestview in the thick of the district race.

Corey McSween takes over Crestview's softball program, becoming the fourth coach in four years. McSween inherits some strong returning talent, but I think the Bulldogs will fall short of a playoff spot.

And finally we reach the fall sports.

•The Baker volleyball team's string of 11 consecutive district championships will come to an end. The Gators, the past few years, have lost too many irreplaceable players to graduation.

•Laurel Hill's volleyball team will win the District 1-1A title again and Crestview's volleyball team will return to the playoffs.

As far as my football predictions go, anything can happen between Jan. 1 and the start of the season.

I expect big things from Crestview's football team in the fall. The Bulldogs got the Niceville monkey off their back last fall by beating the Eagles for the first time in more than three decades. I see Crestview returning to the playoffs for the first time since 2010 this fall.

Bulldog Emmanuel Reed might be the best returning running back in the county. Crestview has experience at quarterback in Cory Armstrong. And, all of the Bulldogs have been in Tim Hatten's system.

Up the road at Baker, I don't see a let-down from the Gators as they come off their first district title since 2001. Baker and Northview will again be the teams to beat in a competitive District 1-1A.

Junior quarterback Jon Beck will lead a Baker offense that just might feature the pass a little more than it has in the past. Don't expect to see a drop in the Gator running game, as Montae Barto could have a breakout junior year.

So let the games begin, and let's see how my prediction stacks up in 12 months.

!——-HUB NOTE: PLEASE IGNORE BELOW

Randy Dickson is the Crestview News Bulletin’s sports editor. Email him at randyd@crestviewbulletin.com, tweet him @BigRandle, or call 682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Bold predictions for the new year

FROM THE PULPIT: A new year brings a fresh start

With the new year comes a sense of new beginnings. Resolutions, new plans and expectations are laid out to help better one's sense of well-being.

The future looks bright with unlimited possibilities.

Another aspect that is afforded at the opening of a new year is the old year has come to an end. The prospect of leaving behind the unpleasant, harmful and hurtful events of the previous year provides a sense of relief.

There have been several occasions when, with the stroke of midnight, a sense of relief flooded over me, knowing the previous year had come to an end, and I could let go of the ugly events that had occurred.

A new year.

Letting go of the past.

A fresh start.

New opportunities.

But why do we wait until the new year for these things to take place? Every day is a new beginning. Yesterday is past and today awaits with untold possibilities.

When each new day is viewed as a new beginning, the hurts, pains and uncertainties of yesterday can be let go. Anticipation for the new day can swell to great expectations.

Remember what the scriptures say about forgiveness: Forgive not seven times, but 70 times seven.

Remember what the scriptures say about worrying: do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries.

A new year is here with new possibilities, yes. But remember to start each day given to you by God while being very much aware of the new possibilities the day promises.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: A new year brings a fresh start

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