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SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Like it or not, athletes are role models

Tweets that led to a Crestview High School cross country team member's dismissal reminded me of how much and how little things have changed since I was a high school athlete in the mid-1970s.

SINS KEPT QUIET

Back in my day, we didn’t have cable, the internet or social media. A friend was someone whom we knew pretty well and, that in turn, also knew us well.

We didn’t count our friends by the number of people we knew on Facebook because Facebook was still some 30 years away from coming into existence. And we weren’t concerned with how many people followed us on Twitter or Instagram.

One could argue that our youthful sins and mistakes were kept private because the world wasn’t watching our every word or action.

That’s not to say young people didn’t get in trouble and that high school athletes never got caught doing something wrong. But it was a little easier to keep our little corner of the world in our little corner.

Even so, athletes of my generation, and every generation before and after, have always been looked to as role models.

Maybe it isn’t fair that a young man or woman’s actions are more scrutinized because they can run faster, jump higher or throw a ball farther than their classmates. But like it or not, athletes have been held as a standard for behavior on and off the field of play.

NO CHOICE

Former Auburn University and National Basketball Association great Charles Barkley has long claimed, “I'm not a role model.”

What Barkley and so many athletes at every level fail to realize is that they have no choice in being a role model.

It’s not just the superstar athlete who has to live up to a higher standard. Every young man and woman who puts on school colors is being watched by at least one set of young eyes.

I only played high school football for two years and ran track for one year. The first year I played football, I got into one game for exactly two plays.

The following summer, I was working at an old full-service gas station, and a boy of 9 or 10 came up to me and said, “I know who you are. You’re a Dolphin football player.”

I’ve never forgotten that day and the lesson I learned: that even a third-teamer is a role model.

Nobody has to tell me that athletes and coaches aren’t perfect, and I don’t expect them to be. But they are held to a higher standard.

When one steps into the arena of competition, like it or not, they become somebody’s role model — with all the responsibilities that go with that unwanted position.

Email News Bulletin Sports Editor Randy Dickson, follow him on Twitter or call 850-682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Like it or not, athletes are role models

FROM THE PULPIT: Place prayer at the center of all projects

Have you had something on your to-do list, but every time you wanted to do it, something else got in the way?

Have you begun a project only to run into one roadblock after another? 

Frustration from such times can be very distracting. However, have you noticed that with most things that don’t unfold in your timing they seem to turn out better than if you forced your way through? 

This is because God’s timing is perfect; ours can be flawed. While we may be in too much of a hurry, or we may not think through the details, or we may believe something is a good (or bad) idea, God knows better.

Does this mean we cannot exercise our own timing on matters?  Absolutely not. We can push through roadblocks. We can procrastinate. The results might be disastrous, but the choice Is ours.

When you make your projects a matter of prayer, God will answer with yes, no or slow.

If you push your own desires and fall flat, seek forgiveness, and ask God to guide you as the mess is cleaned up.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: Place prayer at the center of all projects

Catching up with Baker's David Oglesby (VIDEO)

CRESTVIEW — The News Bulletin's Sports Department selected Baker School football player David Oglesby as the North End Zone Spotlight Player of the Week.

Watch this week's North End Zone Sports Report to learn more about David.

Read all about him exclusively in the News Bulletin's Oct. 1-3 edition, available at these locations. 

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Catching up with Baker's David Oglesby (VIDEO)

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Streaks are not always what they seem

It’s often easy for fans and sports writers to get caught up in streaks.

I’m as guilty as anyone in pointing out that a team has won 15 games in a row, or another team hasn’t beaten a certain opponent since Neil Armstrong set foot on the moon.

We praise winning streaks and then, like vultures hoping for road kill, anticipate when those streaks might end. Sometimes, we even muddy the lines that differentiate between sports, drawing comparisons where there is none to be made.

Those of us in the media understand that there are times when the sensational headline draws readers or page views. Most of us try to stay in the bounds of journalistic integrity, but even the best might push the envelope when trying to find the best angle for a story or column.

In reality, no streak, good or bad, is quite what it might seem. High school and college level teams have a complete turnover every three or four years. And no team is the same from one year to the next as players graduate, transfer or have injuries that force them to give up their sport.

There is a yearly turnover even in professional sports.

Bad teams cut players and bring in new players, trying to reach a level of competitiveness. Good teams do the same thing, trying to reach a level of greatness. And great teams make changes trying to stay ahead of the competition.

It is a never-ending circle for teams trying to get to the top and then trying to stay on top.

The problem is we fail to recognize the difference between a team and the school or professional organization that team represents. We also forget that no two teams are the same from one year to the next.

I think it’s OK to put pressure on professional teams and athletes, pointing out how long it has been since, say, the Oakland Raiders won a championship or how many consecutive losing seasons they’ve had.

I see nothing wrong with pointing out that Florida Gators football team has problems on offense this year. I don’t have problems with addressing bad coaching hires a college or professional team makes.

I shouldn’t be so quick to put the burden of history — good or bad — on the shoulders of high school student-athletes trying to play their sport and represent their school.Yes, school traditions mean something and every athlete should strive to uphold their school’s winning ways or break the bondage of losing.

But at the end of the day, they are just high school kids.

We will always make comparisons because it is human nature. I know, in the future, I’ll write about winning and losing streaks. But I hope I’ll do so in a way that reflects the realization that no streak, good or bad, should be placed entirely of the shoulders of the current generation of athletes.

EmailNews Bulletin Sports Editor Randy Dickson, randyd@crestviewbulletin.com,  follow him on Twitter @BigRandle or call 682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Streaks are not always what they seem

FROM THE PULPIT: Church members represent Jesus to the world

While the father waited in line for popcorn at the movie theater, his family went inside to find some seats.

By the time the father purchased snacks, the theater's lights were so low he could not find his family.

Finally, in frustration, he called out, “Does anyone recognize me?”

This is the often silent cry of most people who seek fellowship. "Does anyone see me?" "Will anyone help me through this journey of life?" "Will I be accepted even if I have questions and doubts?"

Often, when people are“church shopping,” they seek a congregation that will welcome them, nurture them in their faith, provide shelter from the world's pitfalls, and extend a helping hand in times of challenge.

Nothing else matters. This includes the number of programs a congregation offers, the number of people packing pews or the number of Biblical scholars who grace the Sunday school program.

All Christians are called to have Jesus Christ's eyes, heart, hands and feet. We don’t represent a particular denomination or theological frame of mind; we represent him and him alone.

Allow your eyes to look at the people around you with Jesus Christ's eyes. Who do you see? What do you see them wrestling with?

Let your heart be led by Jesusand determine the best ways to engage your hands, feet and words as his representative.

Allow yourself to offer nurture, shelter, and spiritual fellowship in Jesus Christ's name to further the work of his kingdom here on this earth.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: Church members represent Jesus to the world

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Assessing the 2014 football season thus far

As we hit the midway point in the high school football season, there is still a lot of ball to be played.

Crestview High School is off to a disappointing 0-4 start. But believe me, nobody is more disappointed than Bulldog Coach Tim Hatten. He is doing everything he can in his vast coaching knowledge and experience to right the ship and get things back on track.

I’m confident Hatten will get the job done, but fans need to be patient. The Bulldogs have been hit by some injuries that have left the Crestview coaches trying to fill in key pieces to what is often a complicated puzzle.

Hatten won’t play the injury card, but it’s hard for me to imagine that Crestview would be winless if JaQuan Daniels and Derian McGee where healthy.

While most local high schools have a similar amount of talent physically, there is a lot more to the game of football than size and strength. Sometimes it’s just a matter of kids figuring things out on their own before good things happen.

In reality, the Bulldogs play a two-game season when they face District 1-7A opponents Tate and Niceville. A win over either team and, at worst, Crestview is back in a shootout for a spot in the playoffs.

Baker, on the other hand, continues to ride a wave that now includes a 14-game winning streak.

The Gators are 3-0 coming off an open date and host Rocky Bayou Christian on Friday before opening district play at home against Freeport a week from Friday.

There is no reason to believe Baker won’t be 4-0 when Freeport comes calling. As I look at the remainder of the Gator schedule, I can easily see them being 8-0 when they host Northview on Halloween night.

If my predictions are correct, the winner of the Baker-Northview game will win the District 1-1A championship. Quite frankly, if the Gators or the Chiefs don’t win the district championship, it will be more than a surprise.

Baker Coach Matt Brunson has the Gators playing at a high level. Brunson, himself a former Gator, understands the Gator players' mindset and what it takes to win at Baker.

Baker players have bought into what Brunson wants to do with everything from the offensive and defensive schemes to how they condition.

It has been 21 years since the Gators won the last of their four state championships. All eyes are on the 2014 Gators to see if this is the year they return to glory.

With a little more than half the season remaining, it will be interesting to see if Crestview can find a way to win and if anyone can stop Baker.

It should be a fun seven weeks until the end of the regular season.

EmailNews Bulletin Sports Editor Randy Dickson, randyd@crestviewbulletin.com, follow him on Twitter @BigRandle or call 682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Assessing the 2014 football season thus far

FROM THE PULPIT: Following Jesus requires giving up other things

In 311 A.D., Constantine the Great legalized Christianity. Christians no longer had to hide their faith or fear dying.

Because Constantine made Christianity the empire's official religion, everyone wanted to be a Christian so they would be in the emperor's good graces.

Unfortunately, church leaders could not keep up with the kind of deep, thorough teaching and indoctrination necessary to erase pagan practices so people would understand and live Christ's faith.

As a result, pagan practices infiltrated church life. People joined a church simply because doing so was politically correct. There was no full understanding of the kind of sacrificial or generous life called for by Jesus.

One day, a young, rich, respectable man approached Jesus. It seems as though he wanted to boast about all his good deeds and pious behavior, and be recognized for all the fantastic ways he had kept all aspects of Jewish law.

Surely that would be worthy of praise from this great rabbi.

Jesus told this young man that he had done pretty well. Jesus also knew what was in the man’s heart. Jesus said there was only one thing left for the young man to do: sell all his possessions and give the money to the poor. Then he could follow Jesus.

The man went away sad because he had many possessions. He could not give them up. There would be nothing left for him.

Jesus knew what was in the young man’s heart, and how painful his words would be to the young man. But Jesus spoke the words anyway. And he did it in love.

Jesus knows our intentions of giving ourselves to him completely are good, but there often is something — or more than one something — that prevents us from giving ourselves completely to him.

What do you need to give up to make Jesus first in your life? Where is your heart? Are you part of a church because it is the proper or popular thing to do, or because the Lord has transformed your heart?

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: Following Jesus requires giving up other things

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Reflecting on simpler times

I grew up in a day when football, especially high school football, was played in the trenches.

The 1970s' glamour formations were the Power I and Wishbone T. Teams won by pounding the rock and pounding the opposition into submission.

It was a slower, more conservative approach to football in a slower, more conservative time in society.

Those of us old enough to remember the 1970s remember a time before personal computers, iPads, iPhones and when a tablet was some form of a notebook with paper rather than another electronic device. We recall a time before cable, satellite television and the Internet made news cycles a 24-7 business.

 Back in the day, you were lucky if your favorite college team was on TV more than a couple of times a season. And, if you were like me, a Tennessee fan living in Florida, on a clear autumn or winter night, you would try to pick up the broadcast of your favorite team on an AM radio station 500 miles away.

On those rare occasions today when a Tennessee football or basketball game isn’t on TV, I still might be able to watch it on my computer or cell phone. At worst, I can listen to the podcast.

Yes, it’s more convenient and I’m always in the loop, but there was something magical about hearing John Ward, the Voice of the Volunteers, over the static of a broadcast coming to me from so many miles away. My teenage boy’s imagination could run wild as we listened to the exploits of Stanley Morgan, Larry Seivers and Andy Spiva in their starring roles for the Vols.

Today, the power football of my youth is still around in some vague form at the high school level. But even traditional running teams like Baker School have taken an up tempo approach to the game.

Many offenses have abandoned the huddle as they concentrate on getting the play off in 20 seconds or so. Football seems to have become a fast break sport that reflects our fast break times.

Offenses still try to control the clock and wear down the defense only now they do it by trying to run the other team into the ground rather than pound it into submission.

I miss pure power football and the old three yards and a cloud of dust mentality that many coaches embraced.

In its simplest and purest form football remains a game of hitting, with the team that plays with the best pad level and leverage usually winning. Yes, some teams prefer a pass first attack to the run, but in most games it’s the team that runs the ball the best that wins.

I miss power football and an old AM broadcast across crackling air waves of my favorite team.

Things were simpler then, and, in my opinion, better in some ways as well.

EmailNews Bulletin Sports Editor Randy Dickson, randyd@crestviewbulletin.com, follow him on Twitter @BigRandle or call 850-682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Reflecting on simpler times

FROM THE PULPIT: Your work as part of the Body of Christ

What is the Body of Christ supposed to be about? The answer will most likely vary with each person.

Some people with a physically or emotionally abusive father may be unable to imagine a loving and caring Heavenly Father. People squeamish about blood or suffering may have difficulty recognizing the horror of the sacrifice Jesus made when he died on the cross. Some who do not like to be told what to do or have their choices challenged will pick and choose what in the Bible they will incorporate into their lives.

Still, the Body of Christ is supposed to be about:

•Proclaiming the good news of who Jesus is and the fact that he offers love and forgiveness to humanity

•Making disciples, nurturing them and building strong relationships among believers

•Preserving and promoting the truth of God’s message

•Maintaining the integrity of our worship, so we do not focus on ourselves or our needs in worship, but focus on God’s greatness

•Caring for the needs of God’s children

•Demonstrating the presence of God’s kingdom here on Earth.

Is this what you are doing as a part of the Body of Christ? Or is your faith all about you instead?

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: Your work as part of the Body of Christ

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Parents' investments go deep

Today, Sept. 10, would have been my parents’ 59th wedding anniversary. As many of you know, my dad, Jim Dickson, passed away a little more than a year ago. So this day has become more of reflection than celebration as I think of the life Dad shared with my mom, Joan.

Looking back to the time I was growing up, Mom and Dad were like so many parents then and now. Dad coached youth league baseball and basketball. Mom helped work the concession stand and was the de facto team nurse for many years.

I am the only son with three sisters, and athletic opportunities were not as readily available to girls during the 1960s and 70s as they are today. Most games the family attended were those in which I played or Gulf Breeze High School games.

My parents were season ticket holders to Dolphin games for a number of years. Their seats were next to those of their best friends, Wilber and Louise Deer.

Only as an adult have I come to realize the sacrifices not only my parents, but most parents make: to be at games and support their children or the school those children attend.

I’m sure most dads would like sit back and relax after a long day at work, but so many take the time to throw a ball or shoot baskets with their sons or daughters. Those parents understand and choose to invest in their children.

Many times, an evening meal gets cold or stays in the oven while a mom or dad is coaching a youth team. Some nights, they grab a bucket of chicken or a bag of burgers at the local fast food place. But that’s OK because they are investing in the lives not only of their children, but the lives of children who might not have a role model at home.

I know there are single moms and dads out there trying to do their best to provide for their children and still make time to volunteer for youth sports.

We honor our mothers each year on the second Sunday in May. We honor our fathers on the third Sunday in June.

I really hope we honor our parents every day, whether or not we still have them with us.

Maybe we can have some sort of Sports Parents’ Day, on which we could celebrate all that moms and dads do to coach and promote youth sports.

But I don’t know if the idea would go over too well, because at the end of the day, most parents will tell you it’s all about the kids.

EmailNews Bulletin Sports Editor Randy Dickson, randyd@crestviewbulletin.com, follow him on Twitter @BigRandle or call 682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Parents' investments go deep

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