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FROM THE PULPIT: Give thanks — and mean it

Next week, Thanksgiving will be celebrated all across the nation. This holiday was established generations ago to encourage people to focus their thoughts on gratitude for life's gifts, joys and even challenges.

Yet, Thursday, people will express thanks for what they have. But on Friday, many will rush to stores for Black Friday sales and shop for more things.

A sign of the times? Probably. We live in a time of the ever-present sound bite. Attention spans have grown shorter. If you doubt this, note how short any one camera angle remains on the television or movie screen before it changes. Most are no longer than 8 seconds.

We seem to live in a culture of amnesia. We forget what was important a moment ago and focus on what is coming next. What is past is no longer important. If you doubt this, do you remember what happened in the news on March 8 or July 17 of this year? There are still many unanswered questions in both situations.

On Thanksgiving, offer your words of thanks to God.

Give thanks for the good news you have received, the good gifts you have received, and the love and joy that came your way.

Also, give thanks for the hardships because, even though you may have been challenged emotional, spiritual or physically, you grew from those experiences.

Don’t be in too much of a hurry to get past giving thanks for what you have, only to ignore it for something better yet to come. Remain in the present.

A hasty “thanks” isn’t very meaningful.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: Give thanks — and mean it

HAPPENINGS: A time to reflect on blessings

This time of year, I reflect on all the blessings in my life. 

When we were growing up, my mother would give each person five kernels of popcorn on Thanksgiving Day, and we would go around and give one blessing we were thankful for until all the corn was in a large bowl in the center of the table. 

As a child, sometimes it was hard to think up five things that I was thankful for, but not as an adult. 

Here is my list for this year:

•My relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ and the fact that I can worship Him openly

•My husband, Jim, my parents, brothers and all my extended family

•My caring, loving church family at both churches I attend

•That I live in a country where hard work pays off and we can achieve our dreams

•My adorable, amazing pets 

I sometimes take blessings for granted, and I shouldn't. I am reminded of Bing Crosby's song about counting your blessings instead of sheep. 

I am still writing Thanksgiving cards and then it will be on to my enormous Christmas card list. Next, I will begin the baking.

I hope that through the hustle and bustle of this time of year, in between baking and cooking, that you can think of your greatest blessings, take time to reflect upon them and give thanks for the abundance.

In addition, here's what's happening around our fair town:

•Thanksgiving Eve Service: 7 p.m. Nov. 26, Our Savior Lutheran Church, 171 W. North Ave., Crestview

•Thanksgiving Day Service: 9 a.m. Nov. 27, Mass at Our Lady of Victory Catholic Church, 550 Adams Drive, Crestview

•Advent Service: 7 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 3, Our Savior Lutheran Church, 171 W. North Ave., Crestview

•Crestview Christmas Parade: 5:30 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 6, Main Street

I certainly hope to see some of you on my jaunts around town. If you see me, please say hello. 

Janice Lynn Crose lives in Crestview with her husband, Jim; her brother, Robb; her two rescue collies, Shane and Jasmine; and two cats, Kathryn and Prince Valiant.

The former music teacher enjoys scrapbooking, sewing, playing the piano and studying the Bible.

Email listings of upcoming events and activities of public interest for inclusion in Happenings!

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: HAPPENINGS: A time to reflect on blessings

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Anything possible in playoffs

Baker School's football team has plenty to be proud about after the Gators beat Graceville 21-7 Friday for their first playoff win since 2001.

However, the work is only starting if Baker is to make a run for its first state championship since 1993. But as Gator Coach Matt Brunson said after the win over the Tigers, “You have to win the first one before you can get on a roll in the playoffs.”

Any team that wins the Class 1A state championship will earn it. The eight teams left in the Class 1A playoffs have a combined record of 65-13.

Four teams — Baker, Vernon, Trenton and Dixie County — have won 10 games.

Trenton is the defending Class 1A state champion and Blountstown, the 2013 runner up, is still in the hunt after beating Liberty County last week.

The Gators will be tested Friday when they travel to Vernon to take on a red hot Yellow Jacket team that has won 10 straight games. Vernon has averaged 44.2 points a game while holding its opponents to 9.2 points a game, during the winning streak.

That’s not to say the Yellow Jackets can’t be beaten. They lost their season opener 27-16 to a Chipley team that finished the year with a 3-9 record.

And it’s not always wise to look at how many points a team has scored. Some coaches don’t mind pouring it on the opposition, but Brunson is one of the quickest coaches I’ve seen to take his foot off the accelerator when a game is well in hand.

One of my favorite sayings from the old television Western, "The Big Valley," comes from Heath Barkley. Heath once said, “There ain’t a horse that can’t be rode and there ain’t a man that can’t be throwed.”

Heath Barkley might not have been grammatically correct, but his point is pertinent when it comes to things like high school football playoffs. Another way to put it is expect the unexpected on any given Friday night.

Brunson has done a tremendous job in his four years at Baker. In his 42 games as the Gator head coach the team is 33-9 and has back-to-back District 1-1A championships and10-win seasons.

Brunson was an assistant coach under Jeff Webb in 1993 when the Gators won their last state championship. I recently saw Webb, who is retired and living in DeFuniak Springs, at the Baker-South Walton game. Webb told me he thinks this year Brunson has done his best job of coaching a group of kids and getting the most out of them.

Brunson will need to do another great coaching job Friday night if the Gators are to advance to the semifinals. At this point in the season every game is worth fighting for and anything is possible.

Randy Dickson is the Crestview News Bulletin’s sports editor. Email him at randyd@crestviewbulletin.com, tweet him @BigRandle, or call 682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Anything possible in playoffs

HAPPENINGS: Time for Thanksgiving cards, Eagles inspire

This week, I am focusing on writing and sending my Thanksgiving cards. I already mailed a few, but have many more to write. Then it will be on to baking some pumpkin and cranberry nut breads.

What a busy but wonderful time of year as we look forward to spending time with friends and family!

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It was my privilege to attend an Eagle Scout ceremony for my friend, Andrew Royal. What a momentous achievement, and job well done.

Attending such an event makes me realize that we have so many terrific high school and college students making a difference by contributing their time and talents. They make our area a better place in which to live and work.

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Here's what's happening in November:

•Laurel Hill Harvest Supper: 6:30 p.m. Wednesday, First Baptist Church, 3972 2nd Ave., Laurel Hill.  Please bring a covered dish to share.

•"Beyond the Ashes" Gospel Concert: 7 p.m. Nov. 21, Central Baptist Church, 951 S. Ferdon Blvd., Crestview. Suggested donation: $10.

•"A Star is Born," presented by Chautauqua Theatre: 7 p.m. Nov. 21 and 22, and 2:30 p.m. Nov. 23, 848 Baldwin Ave., DeFuniak Springs. Tickets: $12 for adults and $10 for children. This is the Christmas story, not the old Judy Garland movie. Details: 892-9494.

•Crestview Area Community Thanksgiving Service, sponsored by the Crestview Area Ministerial Association: 6 p.m. Nov. 23, Central Baptist Church, 951 S. Ferdon Blvd., Crestview. Always inspiring for Thanksgiving.

•Thanksgiving Eve service: 7 p.m. Nov. 26, Our Savior Lutheran Church, 171 W. North Ave., Crestview.

•Thanksgiving Day Service, 9 a.m. Nov. 27, Our Lady of Victory Catholic Church, 550 Adams Drive, Crestview.

I hope to see you in my jaunts around our fair town. I hope that you enjoyed something delicious that was pumpkin flavored. I enjoyed pumpkin spice coffee and it was fabulous.

Janice Lynn Crose lives in Crestview. Email listings of upcoming events and activities of public interest to  NorthOkaloosaHappenings@gmail.com.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: HAPPENINGS: Time for Thanksgiving cards, Eagles inspire

Catching up with Crestview High School's Jensis Coleman (VIDEO)

CRESTVIEW — The News Bulletin's Sports Department selected Crestview High School   basketball player Jensis Coleman as the North End Zone Spotlight Player of the Week.

Watch this week's North End Zone Sports Report Extra to learn more about Jensis.

Read all about her exclusively in the News Bulletin's Nov. 12-14 Midweek Edition, available at these locations. 

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Catching up with Crestview High School's Jensis Coleman (VIDEO)

FROM THE PULPIT: Focus on God when considering your offering

Fall is typically when many congregations talk about stewardship — encouraging people to give their time, money and talents to the work of the church. 

Stewardship's root word comes from Old English — “styward," or keeper of the pigs.

I guess you could say stewardship has always been a dirty topic. It's often approached like a fundraiser. Church leaders come up with a dollar amount they anticipate it costing to run the church during the coming year, present that figure to the congregation, and ask the congregation to “cough it up.”

Some rebel and say, “Don’t tell me what to do with my money.”  Or, “I’ll do my fair share. If the other members don’t do theirs, well, that’s on them.”

The Bible doesn’t talk about making a tax-deductible donation to the church. Rather, it talks about giving an offering to God. People are to give offerings to God through their congregation. And because offerings are for God, they are, first of all, a spiritual matter.

Our offerings reflect our spiritual maturity and health: the gratitude, love, respect and reverence we have for God, not for the pastor, staff or denomination. 

When considering your offering, don't focus on fundraising issues — meeting the budget's bottom line. Instead, focus on demonstrating your love, reverence and obedience to God.

Stewardship is not a dirty topic; it is a spiritual topic. How you respond will make a huge difference in what — and how — you give.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: Focus on God when considering your offering

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: A last game of football

Last Friday night, most of Crestview High School's senior football players played their final game of sanctioned tackle football. And some time in the next few weeks, most of Baker School's seniors will play their final game.

A few players probably have a chance to play college football at some level, but the rest must reconcile themselves to the pickup game on a side lot somewhere or intramural flag football.

For years, the University of Tennessee celebrated seniors' final game with a ceremonial last tackle. The last tackle took place at the end of the final regular-season practice and was a tackle on a tackling dummy. The dummy would be wearing that week’s opponent, which was traditionally Kentucky or Vanderbilt.

Every senior got to take part in the last tackle, from the walk-on who never got to play in a game, to the starting quarterback. Each senior had his moment.

I always liked the tradition of the last tackle. That symbolic tackle represents closure for players who give so much to a game that is so physically and, at times, mentally demanding.

Most former football players never get the game out of their systems. Something about football challenges you in the heat of August and calls you on a cool Friday night — even 40 years after you played your last game.

As I’ve mentioned numerous times, I was backup football player for two years at Gulf Breeze High School. I appeared in four games, made one tackle, almost blocked a punt against Niceville and managed to lose my shoe on a play that went 50 yards.

My high school career by most standards was forgettable, but it was the only one I had, and I still cherish my time as a Dolphin. And all these years later, I still long for one more game — preferably against Milton — and one more tackle.

My best friend, Ken Hardy, was the first Gulf Breeze football player to receive a football scholarship. Ken played college football at Auburn University from 1976 to 1979. He had a few offers to try out for National Football League teams, but his body was so beat up he decided to move on to life after football.

A few years ago, Ken — along with his wife, Helen, and son Heath — and I were talking about being former football players. Heath, who was only a few years removed from his high school playing days, admitted that he missed it and I was quick to agree.

Helen then turned to Ken and said she had never heard him talk about missing playing, to which he replied, “I miss it every day, but talking about it won’t change things.”

I can assure every young man about to leave their football careers behind that life does go on without playing football.

Life can be full of seasons of change and excitement that brings challenges greater than any experienced while playing the game.

But football will always call and serve as a reminder of special days of youth.

Email News Bulletin Sports Editor Randy Dickson, follow him on Twitter or call 850-682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: A last game of football

HAPPENINGS: Pumpkins, fall, drama & music

Fall is finally here, with pumpkins, pumpkins everywhere!

There is pumpkin spice coffee, creamer, donuts, muffins, bread, almonds, ice cream, seeds and pies — just about anything to tempt one's palate.

I am enjoying this cooler weather, as are my collies; it is so much nicer now to take our afternoon walks.

I also enjoy speaking with many people about all the wonderful upcoming activities that we have in our area.

Here are some of the happening in the Crestview, Baker, Laurel Hill and DeFuniak Springs areas. 

•View From the Stage presents "12 Angry Men": 7 p.m. Nov. 14 and 15, and 2 p.m. Nov. 15 and 16 at Warriors Hall, 201 Stillwell Blvd. Tickets cost $12 and can be purchased at www.viewfromthestage.com or at the performance.

•Crestview High School Choir's Pancake Breakfast: 7-10 a.m. Nov. 15 in the CHS cafeteria. Cost: $7 for adults, $4 for children. Features different choirs every half-hour beginning at 7:30 a.m.

There are just some of the events I know about. I hope to see you on my jaunts around town, and you can tell me about more happenings. In the meantime, have a wonderful week and enjoy something pumpkin flavored.

Janice Lynn Crose lives in Crestview. Email her about any events or activities the community would be interested in attending.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: HAPPENINGS: Pumpkins, fall, drama & music

FROM THE PULPIT: 4 devotionals to bring peace to your life

Here are several daily devotionals you can use.

•Actions speak louder than words. Have you come under attack because of your faith in Jesus Christ? Did anyone come to your aid? We are called to do this for one another because there is strength in numbers.

We should advocate for those with changed hearts who seek reconciliation and restoration. Vouch for them. Stand up for them. They will then do the same in turn.

•Avoid temptation. Some people can convince others to break rules, purchase an unneeded or too-expensive item, or do something otherwise wrong.

These people can sweet-talk their way into your mind, but remember: Temptation worms its way in, slowly but surely, with great-sounding promises. At even greater cost.

•Love your enemies. Some people find pleasure in making others miserable. Unfortunately, if you point this out, or even try to correct it, this person could focus on you.

But remember what Jesus said: “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven.”

This isn't easy to do, but it's very rewarding in the long run.

•Learn to forgive. With bitterness in your soul, you can never be happy. Think about sucking on a lemon. Does it make your mouth water and your face pucker? (Mine does every time I sip lemonade.)

This bitter experience, especially the puckered face, is what happens to your soul when you cling to the past. Bitterness robs your soul of happiness and joy.

So let it go. Give it over to God and allow your spirit to soar with the eagles.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview’s pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: FROM THE PULPIT: 4 devotionals to bring peace to your life

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Thoughts as football season winds down

A lot has happened in the four years since Baker School head football Coach Matt Brunson moved from the same job at Crestview High School to his alma mater.

The Gators have enjoyed four straight winning seasons and back-to-back district championships. Baker also is riding a 20-game regular-season winning streak heading into Friday night’s regular-season finale with South Walton.

Brunson has proven to be the right man for the job at Baker. I think that if anyone can take the Gators to their fifth state championship, it’s him.

Things haven’t gone so well at Crestview since Brunson answered the call to make the 11-mile trip home.

The Bulldogs have had two coaches, three losing seasons and have not made the playoffs. Last year’s 5-5 campaign was the best season Crestview has had since Brunson took the Bulldogs to the playoffs in 2010.

On the surface, things aren’t sunshine and rainbows for Crestview's program. But I believe that Bulldog Coach Tim Hatten will turn things around in the next year or two. Fans just need to be patient and let him do a job he’s plenty qualified to do.

STAYING OPTIMISTIC

Hatten won at the high school level at Haines City. He won at the junior college level in Mississippi when he coached Pearl River Community College to a national championship.

Will Hatten win a state championship at Crestview? I don’t think anybody knows the answer to that question, but there are reasons for Bulldog fans to be optimistic about the program's future.

Crestview's freshman and junior varsity teams lost just three games between them. Middle school football in Crestview is riding high with Davidson and Shoal River playing for the Okaloosa County championship Thursday night.

The current Panthers and Mustangs could be part of a foundation that will have Crestview High School's football team in the mix for years to come.

UNPREDICTABLE FUTURE

Of course, nobody knows how well a player will do as they step up in competition. Some athletes continue to get bigger, stronger and faster. The tailback that was the middle school star often becomes the star on the high school team.

There are cases where kids who grow early stop growing. The dominating lineman in the seventh or eighth grade becomes just another player at the high school level.

Players get hurt and are forced to give up the game. And there are times when a 15- or 16-year-old decides football, or some other sport, is no longer fun. And there are parents and athletes who think they see greener pastures at some other school and transfer.

Matt Brunson is building something special at Baker. Given time, I think Tim Hatten also can build something special at Crestview.

I hope fans of both teams will support their coaches and players, wherever they are in the building process.

Email News Bulletin Sports Editor Randy Dickson, follow him on Twitter or call 850-682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Thoughts as football season winds down

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