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HUBBUB: Cadle didn't win; No chance with trisomy

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Election sends message

The message seemed to me to be 86.7 percent of voters don't give a damn.

Don Holloway

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Cadle didn't win

If the challengers to Mayor David Cadle had really wanted change for Crestview, they would have gotten together and selected one challenger to face him.

Obviously, it was the egos that ruled. Because, if you look at the total votes against (Cadle), he didn't win.

Brenda Wright Bush

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No chance with trisomy

Trisomy 13 and 18 are lethal. (Babies diagnosed with it) do not have a chance, and I would be more alarmed at a doctor giving false hope.

I understand the parents' view but … why prolong this little being's suffering? There's no way anyone could have prevented the nondisjunction that occurred.

Lisa Brown

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Re-thinking trisomy 13

After an amniocentesis, I was told my son (has) trisomy 13 … I went through ultrasounds every two weeks to monitor his growth.

He was born healthy and happy! He is now soon to be 16 and doing awesome!

Vicki Parker Fortier

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PASTOR'S PERSPECTIVE: It's time to mature as Christians

When a child enters this world, he or she is usually held close, cherished, and protected because they are so loved.

In spite of their ability to mature and grow, they will never be more uniquely human than the day they were born.

When a person, regardless of age, seeks forgiveness and experiences new birth, they are born as spiritual beings, children of the Heavenly Father. He will hold them close, cherish and protect that newborn Christian because they are so loved. 

As they mature in Christ, they learn to walk in His Spirit, talk in His Spirit and, occasionally, God the Father can get a favorable response out of us. 

So why do we consider others more spiritual or not as spiritual compared to ourselves?  I do not recall a conversation with anyone wondering why another person was more human than I!

Paul, in writing to the church in Corinth (1 Corinthians 13: 11) stated the obvious: that as a child, he thought and acted on childish things. He stated that as a man, he put away childish things.

Perhaps we as Christians need to put away childish things and start acting like mature Christians.

In 2 Samuel: 12, David was fasting and praying for the life of the child born to him.  When he knew the child had died — because of his sin — he changed his clothes and went to worship God. 

When we have done wrong and God allows us to be corrected, our childish desire is to be mad at God and end up in a perpetual pity party.  It is a sign of maturity to take your correction, get up and put your boots on, and go worship God!

When times are rough, praise Him.  When He uses the word no, accept it.  When He and His Word tell you to react, do it.

Do not look at those around you as though they are some sort of spiritual superstar — they are not.

Learn their secret.  Pick up the Bible. Read it for yourself and let Him direct you!

You grew up by virtue of your life experiences; experience spiritual life as well.  You will not be rejected, and you are always loved.

Perhaps some day, He can get a favorable response from you.

Pastor Richard Helms serves at Miracle Acres Ministries, 3187 E. James Lee Blvd., Crestview. 

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: PASTOR'S PERSPECTIVE: It's time to mature as Christians

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Play it safe at the ball game

We all have our little pet peeves and soap boxes.

I get totally frustrated when a driver can’t follow an arrow in a parking lot and is coming at me the wrong way. I mean, how difficult can it be to follow an arrow.

It also drives me crazy when a sports announcer or writer refers to a first-year player as a “young freshman.” Let’s face it, if someone is a freshman, he or she is young.

I have a much more detailed list of things that have me looking for the nearest room with padded walls. Most of the things are my quirky issues that, if I let them, might one day land me in that room with the padded walls.

One soap box has to do with child safety at baseball and softball games.

I write a column on this every two or three years simply because I see unattended children running around the bleachers and grassy areas outside a ball field without a care in the world.

I love being at a ball park. I feel a connection to those special times long ago spent with my dad watching baseball games.

One thing Dad taught me from the earliest age is to be aware of what is going on around me at the ball park. Yes, the game is played inside the fences.

That doesn’t mean there aren’t dangers associated with the ball park. Dozens of times each game, foul balls leave the fenced boundaries of the field and are unguided projectiles heading toward the stands, the parking lot or, worst yet, the grassy area where unassuming children might be playing.

Granted, the odds of a foul ball hitting a child are very rare, but it only takes one of those rare occurrences to severely injure someone.

I’ve seen windshields shattered by a baseball. And I’ve received my share of bruises when being hit by a ball in the course of playing a game.

Seven or eight years ago, while covering a softball game at Niceville High School, a foul ball came my way. I was unable to get out of the way of the ball, but I did use my plastic clipboard to shield my upper thigh from its impact. The ball shattered the plastic, and I can only think of what it would have done to my leg if I didn’t have some protection.

I also think about how badly that foul ball would have hurt a preschool child playing in the grass alongside the field.

Every year, I observe loving parents watching from a distance as their child plays around the stands. Those parents are in a great position to keep a predator away from their child, but they are no match for the speed of a falling baseball or softball.

I’ve also watched as children put their fingers inside the mesh netting or chain link fence surrounding the field. One foul ball or wild pitch could mutilate those little fingers for life.

For the most part, a ball park is a safe place, but — as is the case with most safe places — there are subtle dangers that often go unnoticed.

Take your child to the ball game and soak in the atmosphere surrounding the game. I encourage you, though, to know your surroundings and to be safe.

Emailrandyd@crestviewbulletin.com, follow @cnb_sports or call 682-6524.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Play it safe at the ball game

SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Life comes full circle

I’ve yet to see Crestview High School’s final 2015 football schedule. But from what I’ve heard from Bulldog Coach Tim Hatten, I’ll be taking a stroll down Memory Lane for Crestview’s season finale.

I’m guessing it will be the second Friday in November when the Bulldogs make the trip to the little town on the south side of Pensacola Bay to play my alma mater, Gulf Breeze.

Ironically, 40 years ago, my senior season for the Dolphins ended with a game against the Bulldogs.

In reality, I won’t fully come full circle. Yes, I’ll return home to Gulf Breeze High School. But old Mercer Smith Stadium, where we played our games back in my day, has long since been torn down.

I don’t remember the score of that game won by Crestview all those years ago. I do recall the feeling I had in the locker room as I took off the home blue jersey one last time.

I was a third teamer. In my two years of varsity football, I appeared in four games. By the time I got into a game, the outcome was always well in hand one way or another.

That final game of my senior year against Crestview was not one of those blowout games. The game was a battle right down the final minute.

Not playing in that game didn’t ease my pain of losing. A team wins and loses as a team. It should hurt the third team defensive tackle just as much as it does the starting quarterback when “we” lose.

Any player worth a plug nickel searches their heart, asking if they could have done more in a loss— especially the last one. It’s hard to leave it all on the field when you don’t get on the field.

I still wonder if there was something more I could have done to help Gulf Breeze win that night.

We made the trip from the old stadium back to the school on a bus. The locker room was quiet, except for the sobs associated with that final loss and the whispers of coaches going around the room, offering a final word of thanks or encouragement to the players.

Coach Mike Walker, my defensive line coach, came up to me, put his arm around my shoulder and whispered, “Big Randle, I really wanted to get you in there tonight.”

To which I replied, “That’s OK, coach — all I ever wanted was for us to win.”

A few minutes later, Jim Smith, the head coach, gathered the team together one last time. He said a few words and then turned to me and asked me to lead the final team prayer of the season.

That night I thanked the Lord for allowing me and my teammates to be Gulf Breeze Dolphins. Forty years later, as my life comes full circle, I can still give thanks for my days of Blue and Gold.

Randy Dickson is the Crestview News Bulletin’s sports editor. Email him at randyd@crestviewbulletin.com, tweet him @cnb_sports, or call 682-6524

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SIDELINE OBSERVATIONS: Life comes full circle

EDITOR’S DESK: Candidates sling mud — we report news

Today, Crestview and Laurel Hill residents are heading to the polls and determining their cities' future leaders.

I have no clue who's going to win, but I am confident of one thing: reporter Brian Hughes will be on the ball, tweeting returns throughout the evening at the Supervisor of Elections office. You can see follow him on Twitter or follow the #NWFvotes hashtag for comprehensive Northwest Florida election coverage, backed by the dedicated team at the Northwest Florida Daily News. 

You know, since September, Brian has relentlessly covered Crestview's and Laurel Hill's races. As soon as candidates prequalified with the Supervisor of Elections, he interviewed them. His proactive coverage included asking Crestview mayoral and Laurel Hill city council candidates about the issues our readers cared about most. (We asked readers beforehand.) And he attended all known candidate forums, namely those presented by resident Mae Reatha Coleman and the North Okaloosa Republican Club.

He was on the ball in more ways than one, I'm proud to say — namely, with reporting the election fairly.

A MAYOR'S JOB

Crestview's election grew heated. In fact, I've never seen anything like it at the local level. At times, I believed that was due to assistance from another media outlet using Facebook to do a campaign strategist's job.

Meanwhile, the News Bulletin didn't delve into issues that, though interesting for gossips, really don't affect someone's fitness for office. 

Don't believe me?

Crestview's chief executive officer ensures that the city's charter and laws are enforced, and has limited authority to veto a city ordinance, according to Article III, Section 10 of the city charter.

Further, he or she can investigate any city employee or city records. (Oddly, the charter says "he" and not "he or she," so that's my nod to International Women's Day, which was celebrated on Sunday.)

And the mayor reports any city employee's misconduct or neglect of duty to the council; and generally promotes the city's "peace, good order, safety and good morals," the charter states.

Finally, the mayor "shall put down riots and unlawful assemblies, and may use the police and common power of the city for such purposes," the charter states.

That's it.

The mayor is not a dictator, there are the usual checks and balances, and the man, or woman, in the office does not judge in larger child welfare issues, namely, whether grandparents can or cannot see their grandchildren.

So I'm not sure why some of these issues were so big on the campaign trail. And why good-intentioned grandparents and other residents were used to promote this agenda. 

REPORTING FAIRLY

The media's primary goal of fairness doesn't take a vacation just because it's an election year.

And because candidates' claws come out during these times, those in the media must know how to separate the wheat from the chaff.

In other words, what's a legitimate concern about someone's fitness for office and what's a subjective value judgment.

I started working in local media in 2005, and never strayed from tough questions or the responsibility of holding public officials accountable. Unlike New York Magazine's description of disgraced NBC Nightly News anchor Brian Williams, per anonymous coworkers' remarks, I do not avoid "divisive news." (Saying otherwise should have been reason enough for Lester Holt to unseat Williams years ago.)

But I've always said you have to use the right tool for the job.

During the campaign season, most of the claims that crossed my desk were items tailor made for opponents' campaign strategists and campaign advertising. 

I asked tipsters if they had a smoking gun — something that proved misuse of public funds, illegal activity or other corruption.

They didn't. So it wasn't a story.

Then, I encouraged them to write a letter to the editor about the candidate, because that — not a news report — is the right tool for the job.

The CNB would need someone breaking a law or discriminating against someone or doing something else objectively unfitting for a mayoral candidate. 

Otherwise, it's just a subjective value judgment.

Let candidates sling mud at each other, if they choose; that's what campaign advertising is for.

We at the CNB will just ask fair questions and report the news.

What's your view? Write a letter to the editor or tweet News Bulletin Editor Thomas Boni.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: EDITOR’S DESK: Candidates sling mud — we report news

PULPIT: Know when to say no — and yes

Parents can say one word to send children into histrionics: “No."

The reason for denial doesn't matter; "no!” just stirs up feelings of rebellion. Even no's designed to keep us from harm are not well received — even as adults. It feels like someone is telling us what to do or, in this case, what not to do.

When Jesus was tempted by the Devil in the wilderness (Matthew 4:1-11) he knew his answer had to be “no.” If he had given in to the Devil, Jesus would have been disobedient and unfaithful to God.

Because of his faithfulness, he could say “yes” to so much more. He said “yes” to receiving children; to invitations to sit down for dinner and discussion with disreputable types; and to teaching those who desired to learn more about God.

Today, we say no to drugs because we have said yes to clean living. We say no to revenge; yes to forgiveness. We say no to temptation; yes to self-control.

As Lent continues, allow yourself some introspection. Learn how you may have compromised your fidelity to God.

And learn how to take a firmer stand so you can say “yes” to Him and “no” to the ways of the world.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview's pastor.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: PULPIT: Know when to say no — and yes

Crestview councilmen's 'automatic in' may be due to qualifications

Brian Hughes' report on Countryview Park's upgrades, which include additional picnic tables, safety padding around the posts supporting basketball goals and a vandalism-resistant drinking fountain, got me thinking. 

While reading the story, I thought of how Bill Cox — who earned his Crestview City Council seat unchallenged — was so vocal last year in his concerns for the park, and how that might have affected the campaign trail.

It's easy to see apathy as a source of Cox's and JB Whitten's automatic in to the City Council. (You'll recall that they didn't need to campaign or go through debates like our mayoral candidates. No one wanted to run against them.)

But what if residents saw Cox's efforts, and Whitten's, and realized these were civic-minded men actively engaged in their community, and they really were the best men for the job, so why run against them? (Remember, Whitten, a retired teacher and former Air Force non-commissioned officer, managed Seniors vs. Crime's Crestview office and served as the North Okaloosa Republican Club's former president, and Cox — who ran unsuccessfully for the City Council in 2013 — sat on the Crestview Board of Adjustment.)

When I see what positive change Cox already spurred as a private citizen, it makes me see the glass half-full. 

What's your view? Write a letter to the editor or tweet News Bulletin Editor Thomas Boni.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Crestview councilmen's 'automatic in' may be due to qualifications

EDITOR'S DESK: A plea for in-depth obituaries

The News Bulletin publishes obituaries, not just to inform readers about funeral and reception times, but also as the last chance for someone's name to appear in print.

So I always hope families will really make that space count. The cost is $45 for a 500-word goodbye, so why not offer sentimental notes? Why not truly tell that person's story?

This week, we say goodbye to Deana Marie Barton, whose family did just that.

I saw the line, "As a child, Deana had a fascination with bathrooms, and never failed to explore as many as possible during trips across the country…" and just learned so much more about this amazing woman than I have from many of the death notices we receive.

Ditto for Gary Snyder, who "loved traveling, cribbage, outdoors activities and was an avid 'Star Trek' fan."

(Note: I'm personally grieving for his wife, Nancy, whom I know through my involvement as Relay For Life Crestview's publicity chairperson. You may remember we profiled the couple in the News Bulletin last year as part of our Relay For Life series.)

When you write an obituary, all I ask is this one favor: Tell your loved one's life story. That means write about the essentials (like their dates of birth and death, jobs held, survivors, etc.), but also tell the community what made them tick. (And even, what ticked them off! Sometimes, that's fun to read!)

Let them be remembered for whom they loved, and how deeply they loved those people.

Often, we'll get an obituary and I'll ask Renee, our editorial assistant, to request, one more time, a head shot from the funeral home, and more details from the family.

I'm sure that gets old.

But we take this stuff very seriously. And I believe telling a person's full life story is the only way to treat that life with dignity in an obituary.

What's your view? Write a letter to the editor or tweet News Bulletin Editor Thomas Boni.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: EDITOR'S DESK: A plea for in-depth obituaries

HUBBUB: Should have had impartial investigation; What happened to customer relations?

Editor's Note: Featured comments are the most thoughtful or eloquently stated comments from our Facebook page and crestviewbulletin.com and do not necessarily reflect the newspaper management's views.

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Should have had impartial investigation

Police departments rarely find wrongdoing when they investigate themselves. These types of accusations should be investigated by an independent, unbiased board.

Bill Skinner Garrett

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'Assaulted' by police — really?

Assaulted by tapping on (a) shoulder? Obviously looking for everything and anything to try and make an issue of.

papabanjo55 (Yahoo)

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Forget proposal to terminate contract

You won't get better municipal legal representation than Jerry Miller at any cost. He has at least 30 years' experience and, at one time or another, has worked for nearly all cities in Okaloosa County. Don't be penny wise and dollar foolish.

Chuck Ingram

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KKK fliers should be considered hate crime

It's disgusting that these people have the nerve to pass out fliers … it's a tactic to brainwash people, especially kids.

Fliers are not harmless … It's ridiculous and should be considered a hate crime.

Candice Johns

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Distribution of fliers 'very upsetting'

As an interracial family, I found this to be very upsetting. I don't want my kids growing up around this.

Elizabeth Andrews

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Tougher sentences work

Just a tip: Tougher sentences for violent and sexual crimes will result in less of both!

Scott Howard

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Mayor must have integrity

What matters to me is integrity. If there is truly a man of good character and integrity in the office, only then can I trust him to lead our community.

Aimee Hodgson Gudinas

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Downtown parking a city problem?

Is it me or wouldn't it be right for the downtown business owners to finance the needed parking if they will be the beneficiaries?

Bea Burkett

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Combest's example shows possibilities

I have always been proud to say I played on her teams and she was/still is an awesome coach and such a role model for all kids.

And she truly is a great mentor for some of us older ladies now, and shows us (that) with drive and determination you can achieve anything.

Nichole Ranson Overly

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Tell more stories like the Campbells'

What a great story about Anne and Woot Campbell. I remember fondly both of them teaching us in school at CHS and Mrs. Arlesia as well. They were very kind to us kids, and we enjoyed growing up with their children in Crestview.

These are the (kinds) of stories we need to hear more about in the news outlets: the ones that bring back memories of those special people who gave their lives for the sake of young people and their dreams to be productive adults one day.

Graham W. Fountain

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What happened to customer relations?

I am a Milligan resident and was shocked to receive my higher water bills, especially with no notice mailed out to every customer. What happened to "customer relations"?

Julia Quintrell Phillips

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PASTOR'S PERSPECTIVE: Thoughts on Crestview's 'Secret Service'

Many of you are apparently in the Secret Service for my Lord. 

The fact that I call you a Secret Service member means we have not heard your testimony.

I have to wonder if some in the church have doubted or even hurt you. 

Perhaps you have become jaded by some of the church's religious antics. It is really easy to relate to you on these two levels, for I have been there and done that. 

Take it from me, the only way the religious world will change is if you make a stand for God.

Being a pastor, I have become concerned for you, my friends. Matthew 5:16 says to allow our light to shine before men — an example of the goodness and love of God — that He may be glorified.

Also in Matthew 10:32 is a promise that if we will confess Him before men, He will confess of us to the Father. Don’t miss out on that great blessing! Get in church somewhere and be a blessing to someone else.

Why church?

For one, your strength and knowledge may be what another person may need to make it another day.  

Here's a humorous story: Preaching in a small church many years ago, I made up my mind that I would not accept an offering from any congregation.

After the service, a much older individual came up to me to give me a small token for the service.

In the middle of my argument of “preaching for God and not money,” he quickly grabbed my tie and tightened it up severely. As I was choking for a breath, he politely and, in a forced tone, told me that God had told him to bless me, and he was NOT going to let me rob him of his blessing! 

Please, do not rob others of the blessing of your presence and your wisdom.  

Find a good home and open your heart.  You may be able to help someone, and we just may be able to help you. 

May God bless.

Pastor Richard Helms serves at Miracle Acres Ministries, 3187 E. James Lee Blvd., Crestview. 

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: PASTOR'S PERSPECTIVE: Thoughts on Crestview's 'Secret Service'

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