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Christmas shoebox helped genocide survivor create new memories

Operation Christmas Child representative Alex Nsengimana (third from left) was able to return to the orphanage where he lived in Rwanda and share OCC shoeboxes with the children there in 2013. [STILL FROM SAMARITAN'S PURSE CANADA VIDEO]

CRESTVIEW — A survivor of the 1994 genocide and civil war in Rwanda, East Africa will speak at two local events on behalf of Operation Christmas Child, a program run by Samaritan's Purse.

Alex Nsengimana, 28,  will speak at 6 p.m. June 24 at Woodlawn Baptist Church, 824 Ferdon Blvd. N., Crestview. His second presntation is 10 a.m. June 25 at the Convergence Coffee House, 498 Wilson St N., Crestview.

"A lot of people here pack shoeboxes, but they never get a chance to see the other side, so we hope to share the impact of that shoebox…so that more people can get a chance to participate.

"Because each and every time a shoebox is packed, that's a chance for a child to receive a shoebox like I did. That's what I get a chance to do," he said. 

Creating new memories

A Samaritan's Purse video of Nsengimana's experiences during the war and his work with OCC is at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zo-oz_IYZWA.

Nsengimana, his brother Fils, and sister Lillian lived with their grandmother and two uncles in Kigali, Rwanda's capital. They saw two of them, his grandmother and one of his uncles, killed by their neighbors, members of the militia in Rwanda.

They were among almost one million people killed from April 6 through July 4, 1994, making over 400,000 children orphans.

Nsengimana and his brother came to live in an orphanage with 250 other children, and his sister lived with friends of the family.

They lived at the orphanage for several years, and it was where he received his OCC shoebox.

"I remember I was so excited, because we still had to hold it until everybody had got one, but for some of us we had to hold our presents for about five minutes, five long minutes," he said.

School supplies, hygiene items, toy cars, balls, coloring books, paintbrushes, and other items were inside.

"At 7 years old living in an orphanage, we really didn't have that many toys to play with, so the shoebox items brought us that joy. They reminded us that we are cared for—we are loved, and it gave us something to hold on to.

"And it planted new memories in our mind, because of what had happened during the war and what…was so traumatic that the shoebox became an opportunity to plant new memories in our lives."

The items themselves had lasting value for Nsengimana.

"One of my favorite items was a hair comb that I kept for the next three years … I would take it everywhere I went for the next three years. That's how special the items were." 

After Nsengimana and his siblings survived their experiences, two came to the U.S. He and his wife are Minnesota residents and his brother lives in Wisconsin. His sister lives in Rwanda with her family, including two sons.

"I'm a very blessed uncle and I get a chance to see them every time I go back," he said.

As an OCC spokesperson, he has met other shoebox recipients as well.

"It is so encouraging to see all of us shoebox recipients coming out and sharing a very unique story of how that shoebox made a difference in our lives, made an impact (and) launched a process in our lives of hope and love," Nsengimana said.

Since the OCC ministry started in 1993, volunteers have packed over 157 million shoeboxes and distributed them all over the world.

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Milligan couple requests prayer, support after Guatemala volcano erupts

The Shelleys are pictured at Michelle and Stephen's wedding. From left are Chris, Kim, Stephen, Michelle and Rick Shelley. [LELE AND BEANE PHOTOGRAPHY]

CRESTVIEW — Milligan residents Kim and Rick Shelley are requesting prayers and support for their family and the people of Guatemala since the Fuego volcano erupted there June 3.

The couple has two sons, Chris, 30, a project manager who lives in Crestview, and Stephen, 27. Stephen and his wife, Michelle, are missionaries in Guatemala.

Kim, Rick and Stephen answered the following questions.

When you first learned your son was moving to Guatemala, how did you react?

KIM: At first, I didn’t want him to go because it is so far away. As his mom, I wished he lived closer, but I know God has called Stephen and Michelle to the mission field.

RICK: Stephen was called by God to the mission field back in 2014. He went on an 11-month mission trip called "The World Race" that took him to several countries in Africa, Southeast Asia, and Central America, including Guatemala. I remember being apprehensive, and prayed at first only for his safety, but one day stopped in mid-prayer. If I wanted him just to "stay safe," I should have tried to talk him out of going in the first place … Shortly after (the World Race and a) few months of training, he returned to Antigua, Guatemala, high in the mountains just west of Guatemala City. He has been there ever since.

How did you first hear about the Guatemala volcano?

KIM: We were talking with Stephen and Michelle on FaceTime right as the volcano was erupting! They were driving, held up the phone, turned the camera around, and their windshield was trying in vain to wipe away the volcanic ash.

RICK: Volcan de Fuego ("Volcano of Fire") is about 10 miles west of where Stephen and Michelle live … [They] were headed home due to respiratory and other concerns associated with the volcanic ash, but were not in any immediate danger otherwise. They described it as tiny rocks falling from the sky.

We checked back a couple of hours later, and they were hunkered down indoors until the ash fall stopped. Note that Antigua, Guatemala is on the east side of Volcan de Fuego; the devastation we have heard about and seen on the news is primarily on the west side, as the lava and pyroclastic flows head toward the Pacific Ocean.

How did you end up living in Guatemala? What do you do there?

STEPHEN: My wife and I both felt called to come to Guatemala when we were still single. (They met in 2016 and got married in Antigua in January 2018.) We both originally were sent through an organization called Adventures in Missions. We recently transitioned into a staff position with an international church plant called Shoreline City Antigua. Their main campus is in Dallas, Texas. We work with their church plant in Guatemala, Shoreline City Antigua. It launched officially about 15 months ago. We lead worship for the church, as well as are heading up the church's relief efforts in response to the eruption.

How much danger were you and the people you work with/assist in when the volcano erupted? How has it affected your day-to-day life there?

STEPHEN: The volcano erupted Sunday around noon. We were finishing our Sunday service in Antigua when ash and debris began to fall on the town for about an hour. We drove home through the ash fall thinking it was a bigger eruption than normal. (Fuego erupts often, but not at this magnitude.) We found out the next day that areas west of the volcano were hit hard and covered heavily from the pyroclastic flow (this is the fast moving mixture of rock, gas, and lava with scorching temperatures close to the eruption). Antigua is … still susceptible to more ash from further eruptions. Some major roads near the affected areas were closed for safety concerns as damage is still being assessed and rescue efforts continue.

What's the top priority for yourself and the mission organization you work for now?

STEPHEN: Over the next few weeks, we will be contacting disaster relief groups, as well as various other ministries and organizations, to see how we can best allocate any disaster relief funds we have collected. Shoreline City Dallas has set us up for people to give online toward our volcano relief fund.

How to help

Visit shorelinecity.church/pushpay and use the Guatemala Volcano relief tab to give easily and quickly online, Stephen Shelley said. All funds will go toward the relief efforts in helping Guatemalans who were affected.

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11-year-old raises over $5K of $7K goal for Ronald McDonald House

Kadance Fredericksen sits behind her lemonade stand, which she used to raise over $5,000 for the Ronald McDonald House. She is pictured with Costa Enterprises McDonald's representatives including David Costa, far right, and Ronald McDonald House associates. [SPECIAL TO THE NEWS BULLETIN]

CRESTVIEW — Kadance Fredericksen, 11, continued her support of the Ronald McDonald Houses with her third annual lemonade stand fundraiser. The houses function as homes for families where children are undergoing a medical crisis.

The Crestview youth, named Jr. Miss Sugar Sands of Northwest Florida in March, has set a goal this year of $7,000. She presented Ronald McDonald House donations totaling $5,146 so far, and has approximately $1,804 left toward her goal. (Last year's donations totaled  $5,099.56.)

Kadance addressed Crestview Area Chamber of Commerce breakfast attendees about the fundraiser on June 7.

"She spoke about giving back to the community through serving, and the starting of Kadance's Lemonade Stand, which benefits the Ronald McDonald House and the families they serve. Special thank you to the Costa Family for their support, not only for Kadance, but for sponsoring the breakfast this morning and their continued support of the Ronald McDonald House," her mother, Lisa Fredericksen, stated.

The Fort Walton Beach Chamber of Commerce and organizers of the 11th annual community health fair also invited her to set up her lemonade stand at two more events scheduled later this year.

WANT TO HELP?

Information on the upcoming lemonade stands will be available at a later date. People may also contribute online at https://www.paypal.me/LFredericksen482.

Kadance's parents are Lisa and Matthew Fredericksen of Crestview.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: 11-year-old raises over $5K of $7K goal for Ronald McDonald House

PTSD-affected family helps veterans

Drew Winkler is pictured in uniform while deployed to Iraq. [SPECIAL TO THE NEWS BULLETIN]

CRESTVIEW — The Winkler's Wish Foundation is having a Facebook fundraiser to increase efforts to help military veterans with post-traumatic stress disorder.

The money will fund the monthly peer group meetings and dinners the nonprofit organization hosts for area veterans. It will also be used for foundation literature and outreach items.

The group has raised $700 of its $2,000 goal at https://bit.ly/2HufK82.

Rebecca Winkler said, "We chose to do a social media Facebook fundraiser to reach the many people who had heard our story about losing our veteran son to suicide from PTSD but are not in our local area. It also allows for raising funds without having a physical fundraiser."

The meetings are 6-8 p.m. the fourth Monday of each month at Crosspoint Church, 2250 P J Adams Parkway, Crestview. There are sometimes guest speakers who present useful information or provide veterans services.

Foundation meetings started with three to five veterans in 2017. They have grown to 10 to 15 veterans and their families.

Winkler said she and her husband, Richard, began the meetings after their son, Drew, died May 30, 2016 by PTSD-related suicide. His last message, posted via Facebook, referenced himself as one of the 22 veterans a day lost to suicide.

"We quickly realized there were no peer group meeting opportunities in Crestview, Fla. for veterans. We started the meetings with nothing but faith and less than $500 in the bank … We have heard over and over from veterans that when they left the military they felt completely alone with no support system. We provide veterans the opportunity to help themselves by connecting with and helping other veterans. We also, by allowing the veterans to bring family members if they choose, are able to provide support to the family members of veterans," Rebecca Winkler said.

Veterans and their family members may contact the foundation via Facebook message for assistance or support until the organization's website is complete. The mailing address is Winkler's Wish Foundation, 2260 South Ferdon Blvd., Box 263, Crestview, FL 32536. The phone number is 305-7761.

Here are some additional resources the Winklers have compiled.

Started by veterans' families

•Winkler’s Wish Foundation, https://www.facebook.com/winklerswish

•LCpl Janos V Lutz Live to Tell Foundation, https://www.facebook.com/LutzLiveToTell

•Project Miller 22 Plus 1, https://www.facebook.com/22plus1/

•22 Too Many, https://www.facebook.com/22TooMany/

•Life for 22, https://www.facebook.com/LifeFor22. It posts a significant amount of really good links and articles, with an emphasis on veteran PTSD, Winkler said.

Additional Florida groups

•Team Red White and Blue, Fort Walton Beach, https://www.facebook.com/groups/TeamRWBFtWalton

•Healing Paws for Warriors, Fort Walton Beach, https://www.facebook.com/healingpaws4warriors

•Heroes on the Water, Emerald Coast chapter, https://www.facebook.com/HeroesOnTheWaterEmeraldCoastChapter

•Healing Tools for Warriors, DeFuniak Springs, https://www.facebook.com/HealingToolsForWarriors/

•WWP Peer Support Group, Northwest Florida, based in Navarre, https://www.facebook.com/groups/229843110701988/?ref=group_header

The Veteran's Health Administration's link to get email updates on PTSD-related information is https://content.govdelivery.com/accounts/USVHA/bulletins/1f40995.

The National Institute of Mental Health also has good information specific to PTSD at https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd/index.shtml.

This article has been updated to correct the foundation's mailing address previously provided to the Crestview News Bulletin.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: PTSD-affected family helps veterans

Fundraiser to benefit Crestview resident

A family fun day fundraiser will benefit Crestview resident Maleia Spears. [SPECIAL TO THE NEWS BULLETIN]

CRESTVIEW — A family fun day will help fund medical care for a Crestview girl recently diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor.

The Maleia Spears Family Fun Day benefit is 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. June 9 at the Old Spanish Trail amphitheater on Stillwell Boulevard in Crestview.

The event includes a performance by Juke Joint Willie, a cornhole tournament with cash prizes, food and retail item sales, an auction and other activities.

All of the auction proceeds and a minimum of 50 percent of purchases from event vendors goes to the Maleia Spears Special Needs Trust.

Maleia, 10, daughter of Malcolm and Kristy Spears of Crestview, has had two surgeries to remove as much of the tumor as possible. She is now in the middle of radiation treatments that will continue through mid-July and hopefully eradicate the remaining tumor.

This process has been a huge financial burden for the family, but they are committed to get her the best care possible. Though insured, much of these expenses have not been covered by the Spears’ medical insurance, according to a media release for the event.

Monetary contributions can be made to Maleia L. Spears Supplemental Needs Trust, c/o Kristen Ellis, Welton Law Firm, 1020 S. Ferdon Blvd, Crestview, FL 32536.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Fundraiser to benefit Crestview resident

How to live, act, and react

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is pastor at Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview. [FILE PHOTOS | NEWS BULLETIN]

Why do some people not tell the truth? Why do some people do things behind another’s back? Why do some people try to manipulate friends or acquaintances to say or do things they normally wouldn’t? 

Sometimes it is because they are trying to cover their tracks and not get caught or blamed for something they did wrong. Skew the facts. Deflect the suspicion onto someone else. 

Sometimes they want to make someone else look bad in a fit of jealousy or rage. 

Sometimes it is because they want to gain something for their own selfish pleasure or advancement. 

I go back to my question. Why?

It’s because we live in a broken world. Since the beginning of humanity humans have always thought they knew better than God. In the Garden of Eden, Adam and Eve were not satisfied with what God provided, so they disobeyed in order to get more.

God set down expectations for how God wants humanity to live. Far too many thought they knew better and fell hard from grace. 

God continuously pursued humanity, doing his best to have people freely return to him and live in his grace. Yet, his attempts fell on mostly deaf ears.

Yes, God created a perfect world for us. And we broke it. And when things don’t go right? When tragedies strike, when plans don’t go our way, when murder and injustice and hatred all rear their ugly heads – who gets blamed? God!

Friends, it is not God’s fault!! It is ours.

We are the ones who don’t tell the truth; who manipulate persons and circumstances; who sneak around in the darkness doing unspeakable things; who seek pleasures at the expense of others.

 God does not force anyone to do those things. People freely choose to do them. And such choices, I am sure, break God’s heart.

 But God does not – and has not – given up his pursuit of humanity. God came in Jesus Christ to show us how to live, act, and react. God comes in the presence of his Holy Spirit to give us wisdom and courage to live as he desires.

Just as God has not given up on any of us, don’tgive up on him. If you will live by the “royal law,” you will find what God desires. The royal law says, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” If we all did this, imagine what this world would be like.

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is pastor at Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: How to live, act, and react

Allman Goldflies Band coming to Niceville

Allman Goldflies Band members from left are David Goldflies, Joe Weiss, Gary Allman, Matt Siegel and Shawn Shackelford. [Special to the News Bulletin]

NICEVILLE — Allman Goldflies Band continues its 2018 "Second Chance" spring and summer tour with two back-to-back night of performances at SRO, the Standing Room Only Lounge, 339 W. John Simms Parkway, 7:30 p.m. Friday and Saturday.

Tickets are $10. Call 502-8989 or visit http://sro-lounge-restaurant.business.site/ for more information.

  "Second Chance," released March 30, is a mix of Southern rock and modern blues with some jazz undertones, driven by raspy-voiced bluesman, Gary Allman (cousin of Gregg and Duane Allman) on vocals and keyboards, and critically-acclaimed bassist, David "Rook" Goldflies, formerly of the Allman Brothers Band. All ten songs on Second Chance are written by Goldflies, Allman and C. Menfi.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Allman Goldflies Band coming to Niceville

Hope and trust in God

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is pastor at Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview. [FILE PHOTOS | NEWS BULLETIN]

Psalm 42:1-2 states, "As a deer longs for flowing streams, so my soul longs for you, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God."

Many of us have been thirsty during our lifetime, but have you ever been so thirsty that all you could think about was having something to drink? I have. It is a terrible feeling. The tongue becomes dry. The throat feels like sandpaper.

The body starts to react in ways it is unaccustomed. The brain starts to cry out, "When will this horrible feeling end? When will this thirst be quenched?" Satisfaction becomes an obsession.

That is how much our souls long for God. The soul cries out as it longs to be fed and nourished by God. It longs to be satisfied in a way that can be provided only by God.

If you feel a restlessness that you seem to not be able to satisfy, if you feel as though something is missing from your life but just don’t seem to know what it is, I dare say you are hungering and thirsting for the living waters that flow from God.

In order to find the comfort you are seeking, you must consciously avail yourself to pathways of nourishment. You must take steps to allow God’s life-giving water flow into your heart, mind, and soul: read the Bible, pray, make time for silence, worship.

Our God will satisfy the longing of your heart. He will grant you more fulfillment in life. He will quench the thirst of your soul.

Psalms 42 verse 11 says, "Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my help and my God.

Yes, put your hope and trust in our Lord. He has promised to hold you in the palm of his hand and satisfy the longing of your heart. Trust his promise. It’s a good one!

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is pastor at Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Hope and trust in God

North Okaloosa County Faith Calendar

UPCOMING

LIFE OAK BAPTIST CHURCH VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL: 5-8 p.m. June 3, 6-9 p.m. June 4-7, 6 p.m. June 8 at Live Oak Baptist Church, 4565 Live Oak Church Road, Crestview. Theme: Game On Register at www.liveoakbc.net. 682-5160.

RECURRING

AWANA PROGRAM: 6:30-8 p.m. Wednesdays, Joy Fellowship, 5978 Old Bethel Road, Crestview. Approved Workmen Are Not Ashamed is for 4-year-olds through fifth-graders. Call 682-6219 to register.

REFORMERS UNANIMOUS: 6 p.m. Fridays, Central Baptist Church, 951 Ferdon Blvd. S., Crestview. Faith-based recovery program for people with any addiction. Directed by Wendell Morgan. 682-5525.

RESTORATION AND RECOVERY MINISTRY: 6:30 p.m. Fridays, Kingdom Life Worship and Training Center, 798 Martin Luther King Jr. Ave., Crestview. Weekly outreach ministry for healing, restoration, wellness and wholeness. For people who have struggles with addiction.

BREAD OF LIFE OUTREACH MINISTRY:  Sign up and a brief minstry and prayers at 11 a.m. and box pick-up is 3 p.m.11 a.m. Fridays, Kingdom Life Worship and Training Center, 798 Martin Luther King Jr. Ave., Crestview. The church distributes boxes of once a month per person.

CELEBRATE RECOVERY: 7-8:30 p.m. Fridays, Church of New Covenant, 3191 New Ave. N., Crestview. Faith-based 12-step program for people seeking healing from things that keep them from living healthy balanced lifestyles.

North Okaloosa County churches can send listings to news@crestviewbulletin.com. Items run on a first-come, first-served, space-available basis.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: North Okaloosa County Faith Calendar

May Day Festival schedule features musical entertainment, games

The Maypole plaiting ceremony is a Carver-Hill tradition spanning over four decades. [FILE PHOTO | News Bulletin]

CRESTVIEW — The annual May Day Festival helmed by the Carver-Hill Memorial & Historical Society continues May 26 and 27.

The May 26 schedule is as follows:

•9 a.m. — parade lineup at Carver-Hill School Center, 461 School Ave., Crestview.

•10 a.m. — parade begins.

•11 a.m. —May Day opening ceremony at Allen Park, 895 McClelland St., Crestview.

•11 a.m. — The Carver-Hill Museum at Allen Park will be open to the public during the day.

•11:30 a.m. — the plaiting of the May Pole.

•10 a.m. to 4 p.m. — Games, activities and concession and vendor stands begin.

•noon — musical performances and other entertainment by various guests (see below).

May 27 activities are as follows:

•3 p.m. — annual May Day Gospel program at Mount Zion AME church, 520 McDonald St. S., Crestview.           

Entertainment on May 26 includes deejays and emcees Colock and Skanes. Performances include the Soul Survivors at noon and 5 p.m., The Williams Brothers at 12:30 p.m., and Tru Redemptions at 1 p.m.

At 1:30 p.m., deejay Frankie J. will begin a lineup of talent including Carey Flavors & Co., No. 1 Team Evolution, performers from the PBX Music Group, including Music Producer Purvis "PBX" Beach. Performers also include King-Yiz, Tap Dancer, Jena Rena, Edward James, Karate Group, ACTSO Talent Art Blakley, Timmy Baker, and Terry Duncan, among others.

Sign-up sheets for the games are at the museum. Awards will be presented to winners. Games begin at various times throughout the day and include softball, an obstacle course, table tennis and billiards, basketball three-on-thre, volley ball, youth track, bid swiss, checkers and dominoes, and horseshoes. 

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