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BROADHEAD: Love doesn't have to die with romance

"It sometimes feels as though the marriage is over when disagreements and stresses arise," the Rev. Mark Broadhead says. "However, as I say in pre-marital sessions, when couples face challenges and work through them together, trust develops."

Valentine’s Day purportedly is named after one of three St. Valentines from the church's early days. 

One is said to have been thrown in prison for performing the weddings of young men and women against the Roman Emperor's orders. While there, Valentine fell in love with the jailer’s daughter. Just before his execution, it is said he wrote her a love letter, and signed it, “From Your Valentine.”

Around the 1400s, people in France and England believed that birds began their mating season on Feb. 14. So, that day became intertwined with St. Valentine’s Day — a day of romantic love.

Romantic love can gladden a couple and lighten their hearts. But it also can be fickle, meaning it feels good one day, but the romance eventually wears off, leaving fear that love has died.

Many long-time married couples likely agree that  people marry because they are “in love” (infatuated) with each other. They feel a romantic love and have strong expectations of their marriage. However, years later, they will tell you they stay married because they trust each other.

Everyday occurrences stress romantic love. Expectations are unmet.  Differences of opinions are expressed.  Arguments erupt. 

It sometimes feels as though the marriage is over when disagreements and stresses arise. However, as I say in pre-marital sessions, when couples face challenges and work through them together, trust develops. A relationship's love does not die.  Warm, gushy feelings that were there in the beginning of the marriage transform into a deeper, longer-lasting love. And trust is the foundation of a lasting relationship.

God authors that kind of love. We have been created to be in relationship with one another.  We are called to love and trust each other. When we put God in the middle of our relationship, he strengthens us and gives us the ability and wisdom to work through any issue.

Most importantly, God gives us the capability to have the last words in any argument — “I’m sorry.  I love you.”

Let your Valentine know of your love. And to my Valentine of 37 years: Happy Valentine’s Day! I love you!

The Rev. Mark Broadhead is pastor at Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: BROADHEAD: Love doesn't have to die with romance

Crestview, Fort Walton Beach churches host LDS conference

FORT WALTON BEACH — The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints' Fort Walton Beach stake has scheduled a two-day conference.

The schedule is as follows:

●5 p.m. Feb. 13 at the Fort Walton Beach stake, 339 Lake Drive.

●10 a.m. Feb. 14 at the Crestview Community Center, 1446 Commerce Drive.  

The conference, for members 18 years old and up, takes the place of individual church meetings.

Stake members include churches in Crestview, Niceville, DeFuniak Springs, Fort Walton Beach and Sandestin.

Call 862-3263 for more details.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Crestview, Fort Walton Beach churches host LDS conference

North Okaloosa residents celebrate Scout Sunday

Pictured, back row: Boy Scout Johnny Humphrey, of Troop 773; Cub Scouts Jacek Zamorski, Waylon Hopwood and Tyler Dailey, of Pack 799; and Our Lady of Victory pastor, Monsignor Tugwell. Second row: Cub Scouts Ethan Bofinger, Bryce Zamorski and Benjamin Humphrey, of Pack 799; and Cub Scout Kelvin Lora, of Pack 532. Front row: Girl Scouts Bernadette Humphrey and Josey Humphrey, of Troop 738.

CRESTVIEW — Boy Scouts celebrated Scout Sunday on Feb. 7 at Our Lady of Victory in Crestview.

'The Scout Sunday tradition was started to make people in houses of worship aware of Scouting, and to allow Scouts to live out their 'duty to God' pledged each week," a spokesperson said.

The Scout Law says that a 'Scout is reverent" and the Scouts of all ages promise to do their "duty to God."

Boy Scouts of America believes these values strengthen youths' character in their family, community and faith lives.

●The Boy Scouts of America annually celebrates its founding on Feb. 8, 1910

●BSA is based on a program that Lord Baden Powell started in England on Aug. 1, 1907  

●Scout Sunday is always the Sunday before Feb. 8, unless the eighth is a Sunday, in which case the eighth would be Scout Sunday

●The Saturday following Feb. 8 is Scout Sabbath.

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This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: North Okaloosa residents celebrate Scout Sunday

SHANKLIN: When opportunity knocks, open the door

If you've been around long-time investors, you'll probably hear them say, ruefully, "If only I had gotten in on the ground floor of such-and-such computer or social media company, I'd be rich today."

That may be true — but is it really relevant to anyone? Do you have to be an early investor of a spectacular company to achieve investment success?

Not really. Those early investors of the "next big thing" couldn't have fully anticipated the tremendous results enjoyed by those companies. But these investors all had one thing in common: They were ready, willing and able to look for good opportunities.

And that's what you need to do, too.

Of course, you may never snag the next big thing, but that's not the point. If you're going to be a successful investor, you need to be diligent in your search for new opportunities. And these opportunities don't need to be brand-new to the financial markets — they can just be new to you.

For example, when you look at your investment portfolio, do you see the same types of investments?

If you own mostly aggressive growth stocks, you have the possibility of gains — but, at the same time, you risk taking losses, from which it may take years to recover.

On the other hand, if you're "overloaded" with certificates of deposit and Treasury bills, you may enjoy protection of principal but at the cost of growth potential, because these investments rarely offer much in the way of returns. In fact, they may not even keep up with inflation, which means that if you own too many of them, you will face purchasing-power risk.

To avoid these problems, look for opportunities to broaden your holdings beyond just one or two asset classes.

Here's another way to take advantage of opportunities: Don't take a time out from investing. When markets are down, people's fears drive them to sell investments whose prices have declined — thereby immediately turning "paper" losses into real ones — rather than holding on to quality investment vehicles and waiting for the market to recover.

But successful investors are often rewarded when they not only hold on to investments during declines but also increase their holdings by purchasing investments whose prices have fallen — or adding new shares to existing investments — thereby following the first rule of investing: Buy low. When the market rises again, these investors should see the value of their new investments, or the shares of their existing ones, increase in value. (Keep in mind, though, that, when investing in stocks, there are no guarantees; some stocks do lose value and may never recover.)

Instead of looking for that one great "hit" in the form of an early investment in a skyrocketing stock, you're better off by seeking good opportunities in the form of new investments that can broaden your existing portfolio or by adding additional shares, at good prices, to your existing investments.

These moves are less glitzy and glamorous than getting in on the ground floor of the next big thing — but, in the long run, they may make you look pretty smart indeed.

This article was written by Edward Jones for use by your local Edward Jones financial adviser.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SHANKLIN: When opportunity knocks, open the door

SMITH: 4-H volunteer training scheduled in Crestview

Northwest Florida Extension offices' 4-H Youth Development agents host a volunteer training program for enrolled 4-H volunteers. 

“Make a Difference Mondays,"  held the third Monday of each month, will help 4-H volunteers learn how to make a positive difference in the community. Each session features interactive presentations by guest speakers on the basics of club organization, officer training, project books, risk management, teaching strategies, fund-raising, team building and managing parent volunteers.

This month's training on public blue ribbon presentations takes place 5:30 p.m. Monday, Feb. 15 at the University of Florida's Institute of Food and Agricultural Sciences Extension Office, 3098 Airport Road, Crestview.

If you are interested in becoming a 4-H volunteer or are interested in enrolling your child into the Okaloosa County 4-H program, please contact the Okaloosa County Extension Office, 689-5850, for more information. 

If you are enrolled as an Okaloosa County 4-H volunteer and are interested in the "Make a Difference Mondays" volunteer training program, please contact me at mismith@ufl.edu

Misty Smith is an agent at the University of Florida's Institute of Food and Agricultural Sciences Extension office in Crestview.

The University of Florida's Institute of Food and Agricultural Sciences 4-H Youth Development Program uses a learn-by-doing approach to help children gain the knowledge and skills they need to be responsible, productive citizens.

This mission is accomplished by creating safe, inclusive learning environments, involving caring adults, and using the expertise and resources of the University of Florida and the nationwide land grant university system.

Source: Okaloosa County Extension Office

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This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: SMITH: 4-H volunteer training scheduled in Crestview

NOMC supports heart health awareness

The North Okaloosa Medical Center celebrated the American Heart Association's Go Red effort with a program on women's heart health Feb. 5 in Crestview. Go Red team members are pictured, and are NOMC employees unless otherwise stated. Front: Greg Clark, Rehabilitation Therapy director; Ronnie Daves, CEO; Brenda Clark, Pharmacy department; Chrissy Howell, Kindred at Home; Lainie Hines, Physician Practices director; Ingrid Alderfer, Okaloosa/Walton AHA regional director; Zenobia Richardson, Crestview Mayor David Cadle's executive assistant; Jennifer Gillis, Case Management director; Barbara Gordon, NOMC Healthy Woman Advisory Board; Angela Carden advisory board member; NOMC Healthy Woman Advisory Board, Dawn Mann; NOMC Healthy Woman Advisory Board. Back Row- Jennifer Laskaskie, Kindred at Home; Chris Green, CFO; Carrie Bryant, Director of Nursing; Teresa Balcerak, Human Resources coordinator; Darlene Jones, Engineering administrative assistant; Carol Barberree, nursing director; Jenny Sander, Information Technology; Sherry Richardson, Emerald Coast Hospice; Tom Gordon, Gordon Martial Arts.

CRESTVIEW — Raising awareness is the point of the American Heart Association's Go Red for Women.

February is American Heart Month, and North Okaloosa Medical Center hosted a Go Red program Feb. 5 offering information on women's cardiac health for that effort.

NOMC staff member and cardiologist Joseph Pedone presented details on how women can help prevent cardiac issues and more.

Learn more at the AHA's Go Red for Women website>>

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: NOMC supports heart health awareness

DREADEN: Free resources to help you start a small business

Was one of your New Year's resolutions to start your own business? While it can be an exciting opportunity, it can also present challenges.

To help you start a small business or become an exporter, BusinessUSA combines business-related information from government agencies into a one-stop starting point. Explore http://www.BusinessUSA.gov to:

●Grow your business

●Explore government contracting

●Find International trade leads

●Learn about taxes and credits

●Browse resource for veterans

●Read the latest news

●Discover events in your area

●Explore state and local resources

●Seek disaster assistance

●Find more tools

Also visit our library web site electronic resources page for access (library barcode number required) to Business Insights: Essentials to:

●Investigate investment opportunities

●Find parent-subsidiary relationships

●Obtain competitive intelligence, market share information and product trends

●Explore market-industry information and analyses

●Study product and brand information

●Compare companies within an industry

Explore a wealth of business information today with BusinessUSA and Business Insights.

Sandra Dreaden is the Crestview Public Library's reference librarian.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: DREADEN: Free resources to help you start a small business

NOMC workshop to feature celebrity chef, heart information

NICEVILLE — Cuisine by a celebrity chef and a presentation by a cardiologist are part of a National Heart Month event.

"Healthy Choices on the Go," a workshop planned by the North Okaloosa Medical Center Healthy Woman group, is  6-7:30 p.m. Thursday, Feb. 25 at Ernie's Dockside Cafe and Oyster Bar, 821 Bayshore Drive, Niceville.

Celebrity chef  Ernie Danjean will prepare items from his Heart Healthy menu and Dr. Juana Zarate will give information that every woman should know about heart health.

Register at http://conta.cc/23NpwJP. Cost is $5 per person, with all proceeds going to the American Heart Association.

For more information, contact Alicia Booker, 689-8446, or visit http://conta.cc/1X8cdPB.

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: NOMC workshop to feature celebrity chef, heart information

Crestview church cancels discussions on gay Christians

The Rev. Michael Precht

CRESTVIEW — More than 100 residents attended the first of three planned forums on same-sex attracted Christians, but a local church has canceled the remainder.

The Rev. Michael Precht, First United Methodist Church of Crestview's pastor, planned the “Fearless Conversations” series around the topic, “what the gospel means for gay and lesbian Christians.”

Precht said his goal was “that we become a church that can listen and speak to each other … without raising our hands against one another."

The Jan. 28 program, which featured author Alan Chambers, was held as planned, but the Feb. 9 and 11 conversations — with authors Justin Lee and Eve Tushnet, respectively — are canceled.

“After meeting with and talking it over with some of the core leadership of the church, we decided to focus on topics that are likely to come up at the General Conference of the Methodist Church,” Precht said.

The worldwide gathering, set for May in Portland, Oregon, will cover a range of issues.

“Certainly the (topic) that always makes headlines are conversations around the church and homosexuality, which is why we had the original conversations,” Precht said. “We think we can honor that by refocusing on the general conference, where many of the same questions will be coming up.”

Precht said his church is not abandoning the sensitive subject of same-sex attracted Christians, but will approach it from a more local view.

He has invited a regional Florida Conference of the United Methodist Church delegate to the General Conference to speak in March or April.

“There will always be conversations that make the news” at the conference, Precht said.

“We’re hoping that this will be something that leaves the church better informed, not just on this topic, but on the many things that are the topic of conversation in the Methodist Church.” 

This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: Crestview church cancels discussions on gay Christians

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